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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Lost my virginity but it still hurts... Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6009 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - please i need help!! me and my boyfriend have only just started having sex and we've had it about 7 times together. Now i was a virgin until now...and for some reason it still hurts every time we have it! i dont enjoy it and it sometimes bleeds...

My divorced BF wants to take our relationship to the next level, how will I tell him I'm a virgin at 38?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi I think my divorced boyfriend wants to take our relationship to the next level but i dont know how to tell him i am still a virgin at 38, what do i say to him as i am not sure how to tell him, i dont want him to think there is something wrong ...

My question is, is it intimidating to a guy to know that I am a virgin at 20? What would the first impression be?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Alright heres the scoop: I am going to be a junior in college and I have never had a boyfriend nor have I kissed a guy. Honestly, there have been plenty of guys that have wanted to do stuff with me but I have not really liked any of them enough, ...

She thinks I will cheat on her because she does not want vaginal intercourse, but I won't. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My current girlfriend will not have vaginal sex until she is married, but will do oral and let me reciprocate. The problem is I am not a virgin in the slightest and have had many partners. We have run into some of my ex's together or seen girls ...

No experience and needing help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - thanks for reading this ill try to be really short basically me and my bf have been going out for a long time were both over the leagal and are both virgins lately we've been experimenting but i dont know how to pleasure him i dont even know how...

Any tips on losing my virginity with a close friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - hi I'm nearly 18 and single. I'm still a virgin. I have this friend who I'm quite close to, she is same age. We always up for trying something fun. Whenever we drink we have good laugh. I think we now want to try sex. There's a few things though ...

Can boys feel if they have 'pre-cum'? Could I be pregnant? Did I lose my virginity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Me and boyfriend were messing around and i started to give him head but he said that he wouldn't be able to orgasm as he already masturbated that day. Shortly after we ended up having sex but it was just for a couple of minuites and neither of us ...

He is older and says he loves me-should I believe him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I've known this guy for about a year and for the past few months he's been telling me that he has fallen in love with me. At first I didn't believe him because in our past he lied to me about something big so it was hard for me to trust him. I am ...

We're both virgins and ready for sex...but don't know how to initiate it...any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. Were both virgins and we are both ready for sex but I dont no how to start. I dont really no what ive got to do. Help. I want my first time to be special aswell but i just dont no what to do. ...

I'm getting a little frustrated, there's nothing worse than sex with a mooshy penis! Will this get better with time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

27 May 2008 (?) - hello...i took my boyfriends virginity .... and he is having trouble getting a good hard on and lasting more than 3 min.. it has been abt 4 months now and it is still an issue ... i have tried everything alot of fore play, he went to the doctor and ...

3 days after losing my virginity I am sore, is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - i lost my virginity the other day, the guy i did it with didn't use a condom. now 3 days after sex my vagina has an odour and is sore. i also bled straighy after sex. is this normal? ...

I'm confused about my sexuality, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - Hey! I am 23 years old, still a virgin and confused with my sexuality. I do not find girls repulsive but I am much more easily exited by the thought of men. However, I am repulsed by the thought of a penis and anal intercourse. When I masturba...

Should I ask my friend to help me lose my virginity?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - I'll be turning 32 in a few days. I am still a virgin in just about every imaginable sense (I've never even french-kissed). This is something I am supremely self-conscious about. I also have an anxiety problem which tends to leave me more fearful ...

Why this intense pain after we have dry sex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I am just writing in to ask a question for the girls who are still virgins. My boyfriend and I make it a habit of having "dry sex", or dry humping...we do this as an alternative to having intercourse. when doing this, we both wear our und...

I want my first time to be special, so I want it to happen in a hotel. But he's done nothing about booking one!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I have been wanting to have sex with my bf for about a year now. It is my first time, so he wants it to be right and make sure i know what i am saying. I have thought long and hard and i know i want it to be with him. I have told him this. Howeve...

Please help! Could I be pregnant??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6013 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - right im 15 years old and female, and last night i lost my virginity. stupidly i was drunk and he didnt use a condom, but before he was about to cum he took his penis out. i am not on the pill, nor did i take the morning after pill. i am scared that ...

Information about the first time needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we haven't been sexually active. We are both virgins and plan on having sex together soon. My problem is, since I've never had sex, I dont know much about it. So I wan...

I wonder if I have physically lost my virginity by practising horse riding!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6016 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - everyone says that having sex is less painful if you've broke yourself in. How does this include the sport horse-riding, I have been horse-riding for 9 years now so does this affect me!?...

Do I get pregnant if I finger myself?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

24 May 2008 (F) - do i get pregnat when i finger myself....

Can a 21 year old virgin could still have an hymen even though she masturbates ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

23 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I was wondering if a 21 year old virgin could still have an hymen even though she masturbates ? I noticed that there was a membrane cut in half covering the entrance of my vagina, I don't see a hole...could it be an hymen ? and can a guy kn...

This is serious. I need help! How do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

22 May 2008 (F) - So he is 10 years older then me. He is a great guy. Im 18 and this would be the second time ive fallen in love. The first time it was with a guy who was 4 years older then me. We dated for 3 years. from the time i was 14. It was serious until he ...

We are both virigns how do I approach the subject of sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6018 days ago

22 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 months and we both love each other. I am a virgin and she is also a virgin so our experience isn't exactly overwhelming. I don't know if she is ready to have sex yet or what, but I have never loved someone ...

Should I feel guilty for wanting to sleep with him before marriage?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

21 May 2008 (F) - Hi, i would like some advice.Im a 25 year old catholic virgin and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now-we are both in love and plan to marry.I have always wanted to wait i was married before having sex and my boyfriend is so loving and unde...

Sex tips please for a first timer.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

21 May 2008 (?) - I want to give my boyfriend the best bj anyone has ever had. May I have some tips please. We are also going have sex for the first time, so can have some tips for that too. Thanks xxx...

Did I just lose my virginity over 'wild' masturbation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - i masturbate not that often but yesterday...i just broke up with my boyfren whom i thought i will have sex with. i did it with my deodorant bottle. it hurts me but at the same time it gave me pleasure. it last for 20 minutes i guess and i stop and ...

We're both ready for sex, I trust him, so what do I need to know about it? Does it hurt, and if it does, how do I deal with the pain?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Hi Guys (: Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years. We're both 15 and considering having sex for the first time. I know what your probably thinking "Just another teenage couple rushing to grow up" but thats not the case....

I had sex a couple of days ago and I'm still bleeding, why??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

19 May 2008 (F) - i'm 15 years old and i just had sex a couple days ago. i'm still bleeding from this. i can't figure out if it is because he scratched me or if it i "you know what"!! please help me!!...

I've never kissed. Should I ask this girl out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

19 May 2008 (M) - im 15 i really like this girl but ive only met her once we talk alot on msn but i really dont know how she feels for me how can i tell if i should ask her out or not? and im also very shy ive not actualy kissed a girl and ive had only 1 girlf...

I have frequent wet dreams, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

18 May 2008 (M) - Hi, i face wet dreams and some times its more like twice the same night and 4 to 5 time a week i think this is bad and as i am 23 now i heard they reduce in frequency in time i have never tried intercourse with the oppsite sex is there any soultion...

Is it a good idea for a 21 year old girl to lose her virginity with an older guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) - Hey, Do you guys think it is a good idea for a 21 year old girl to loose her virginity with a much experience men who's 35 years old or do you guys think that's too old or that we've got too much of a difference in experience ?...

I was wondering if first time sex would hurt for a virgin in her early twenties who regularily masturbates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I was wondering if first time sex would hurt for a virgin in her early twenties who is used to masturbating. Does that mean she won't experience any pain ? Thanks....

Is it unusual to still be a virgin at 21?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

18 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm just wondering if this is unusual to still be a virgin at 21. I am quite shy and haven't had yet any boyfriend or girlfriend whatsoever. I planned an appointment to the GYN since they say you should go once you reach the age of 21 but...

My friends say he took my virginity - did someone spike my drink?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

17 May 2008 (M) - im 15 and i went to a party last week end and i think some body spiked my drink because i only had a shandy. my mates told me he tooked me up stairs and i think he took my virginity can some body help me through this dificult time please?...

Lost my virginity but why was there was no blood?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - I'm 20 yars old. I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. first it was very dificuld and it hurt, but than it was OK and I liked it. it didn't hurt that much anymore. but . . . there was no blood! it's suppose to bleed . . . isn't it?! and ...

I'm ready for sex. . .but not ready. . .*gulp* help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

17 May 2008 (M) - Hi guys! Okay, so I'm 15, and my friend thought I needed a girlfriend so he hooked me up with this girl, and she's really sweet and all, and I really like her. But a few days after we've been dating he calls me up and says "By the way, did I mention ...

Nervous about sex. Scared to do it for the first time.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - i have never had sex before and i'm kind of scared to do it for the first time. my boyfriend really wants to have sex but i don't think im ready. i really love him but i don't want to go that far. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years. ...

Is it wrong to have a vibrator at 16?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

17 May 2008 (F) - I'm sixteen and I'm a virgin. I plan to stay a virgin for a long time. I'm writing this because I have simple question to ask. My mother doesn't want me to talk to boys and I've told her that I wouldn't Now the dating/sex age for my family is ...

Is it normal to bleed after fingering? I'm still a virgin.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

16 May 2008 (F) - ok...Im a virgin and haven't really done anything...But recently I have let my b/f finger me, however when he's done and i go to the bathroom or i notice that i've been bleeding. There's no weird odors and i haven't felt pain or discomfort of any ...

Should I tell him that I want him to be my first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

16 May 2008 (F) - Hi. I've been bestfriends with a guy for a year now. He'd always liked me and I wasn't sure. We just started dating a few months ago and I was in love with him before I even went out with him. He is just an amazing guy. I could never picture my...

I gave my virginity to him. How should I take revenge on him?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

16 May 2008 (F) - I'm single and fell in love with a married guy. He is 10 years older than me. His wife was pregnant and got a baby daughter on my b'day. I gave my virginity to him, but after he got his wife back in his bed. He started acting weird, like ignoring ...

Should I get involved with this "ned"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

15 May 2008 (F) - Update. I'm 16 and I am really attracted to this guy in my year. He is a very nice looking guy for his age but has different interests to me. He likes to drink and he used to smoke. In our area he is classed as a "ned". He makes out like he like...

One night stand...but I don't regret it, should I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5124 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Right, straight to the point! I lost my virginity on a one night stand, and it doesn't seem to bother me that I slept with a random boy. Am I stupid for not being bothered that I don't want to be involved in a reltionship with him? Please hel...

I think my friends have spread rumours about me...should I forgive or plot to get even?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Today at school my friend really hurt me. Her and this boy went and told everyone that i am not a virgin. It's really affecting me becasue people are calling me slag and becasue i am normaly quiet and keep out the way people are saying "its always ...

My boyfriend doesn't want to talk about his past, which includes him being raped at age nine and then sexually active

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - HEEEELP my 3-month old boyfriend confessed to me that he was raped by hi's cousins friend when he was 9 years old. But thats not it. After he was raped the first time he was raped by more people, girls AND boys, as he claims He also told me ...

I'm scared about losing my virginity and keep thinking he will pursue someone else if I make him wait longer... ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - I'm about to lose my virginaty in a few days with my bf who i have been with for 1 year. Im so scared its going to hurt he tells me its going to be fine and it wont hurt and i know it will im so scared and when he fingers me im so tight he can get ...

Are there any men who can settle for hugs instead of sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

13 May 2008 (F) - Okay this seems like a REALLY weird question, but...here goes. So I am really not into like, kissing or any of that stuff. I have thought about sex and come to the conclusion that I would like to remain a virgin and not ever have sex, for personal...

Is this a yeast infection or an STD? Please help, it's the first time I had sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

12 May 2008 (F) - please help ! discharge ! im 16 and have just lost my virgity... (yes i used a condom) :) usually i barly have any discharge... but for the last week, iv had loads of thick white, non smelling discharge constantly ! im extreamly worryed. ...

I love her, and I want to have sex with her, but I don't want to ruin the relationship!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6004 days ago

12 May 2008 (M) - ok my gf is a virgin and has never really liked fooling around bc she thinks it makes her seen not pure and like a slut.. well she's wanting to now and last night she was a drunk but before she started drinking she asked me if i would have sex with ...

He told me the all the other girls he's had sex with, even with out a condom, never got pregnant

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6011 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - Ok...so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 14, we've known each other and been with each other for a long time...and my boyfriend isn't a virgin. He says he lost it when he was young and has had sex with other girls ever sence...but he wants to have sex ...

I want to love him and lose my virginity to him. How do I know if it's right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

11 May 2008 (F) - i think im falling in love but im not sure if he's in love with me but i wanna trust him but im not sure and im not sure if i should loose my virginity tom him ...