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writes:Hi,I was wondering if first time sex would hurt for a virgin in her early twenties who is used to masturbating. Does that mean she won't experience any pain ?Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, Fionaisme  +, writes (18 May 2008):
 there is no way to surely know but a big part of it is definetly being relaxed and being emotionally ready. I know from friends of mine that the ones who were really ready didnt experience as much pain as the ones who werent and just wanted to get it over with. Be relaxed, communicate with your partener and im sure you will be fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008): Like Emilysanswers says, there's no real way you can known just now. But my first thoughts are that it will probably be more pleasurable as you know what turns you on and feels good already. As you're in your early 20s now, you'll have done quite a lot of sport probably, so your hymen may have already broken anyway, or be broken easier. Just relax and remember lots of foreplay, and I'm sure it'll all be okay :]
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 May 2008):
There is no way of telling as it is different for everyone. A lot depends on how relaxed and turned on you are.
The chances are it won't really hurt. The hymen is probably long gone due to sports, cycling, and everyday stuff. If you know your body and what turns you on then you won't be lying there like a terrified 16 year old.
It'll be fine, just go for it if you are ready and have found the right guy to lose it to. Congratulations for holding out so long!
Good Luck!! xx
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