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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. Were both virgins and we are both ready for sex but I dont no how to start. I dont really no what ive got to do. Help. I want my first time to be special aswell but i just dont no what to do.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (27 May 2008):
 im pretty sure you have had thoughts on what you would like to happen just not sure if those are things to be intiated.. some people want to go to a hotel others a romantic place. some want rose petals or candles..since its your first time then you need to speak to your partner about this as you both need to be relaxed about this to much stress will ruin the broth lol..tell each other what you like, foreplay is a good way to start as this will help you both relax.. make sure your both in the mood first of course..and lubricant wouldnt be a bad idea either..you will bleed for a few days possibly so dont worry it may or may not be sore..but when you do proceed to have intercourse take it easy and gentle dont be agressive as its your first time. so overall just make it enjoyable and relaxed.. thats my opnion hope its helped aphexy xx
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reader, :):):) +, writes (27 May 2008):
Its your first time, so you're right, it should be special.
Make it romantic, maybe have a nice night in together, watching a film etc and just go with what feels right. It all starts with a kiss...
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