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*ellokitti
writes:I'm 20 yars old. I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. first it was very dificuld and it hurt, but than it was OK and I liked it. it didn't hurt that much anymore. but . . . there was no blood! it's suppose to bleed . . . isn't it?! and it's suppose to hurt for a for a while (for some days). tha's what I heard from friends. I don't know what's wrong with me! and my boyfrind . . . I think he's also worried. he's so quite . . . I think he's thinking that a lied to him about my virginity . . . Reply to this Question
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reader, hellokitti +, writes (18 September 2010):
hellokitti is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits been a while since i loged in. when i read my questions i remembered how bad i felt at that time. But YOUR answers help me go through with it. So i just wanted to say Thanks to everyone! you've been a very big help and support :) love ya all
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reader, Fionaisme  +, writes (18 May 2008):
 it didnt hurt for me either and i didnt bleed. I really enjoyed it. It hurted the next few times after, i dont know why but now its perfect again! Your hymen was obviously broken. First time sex doesnt always hurt.
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reader, Fiona xxx  +, writes (18 May 2008):
 I didn't bleed, and I wasn't sore either.
My hymen broke playing hockey.
He just said "You didn't bleed" and seemed surprised, although he knew from how I reacted when we met that I was virgain.
Plus he had fingered me, so I doubt that if the hymen did exist, then the penis woldn't have broken it.
He will believe you on your actions and how you have been together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): I didn't bleed, but my partner did. (I was uptight and nervous) Not all women bleed. Your virginity (hymen) is a small piece of skin. It can be broken through normal activity. Riding a horse, riding a bike, using a tampon, a medical examination.
Some women bleed, some women don't (no matter what movies and books tell you) Some women have hymen's that are so thick that they have to get a doctor to remove it before they have sex, otherwise the guy couldn't get his penis in. While other women, like you have a hymen that's so thin, the guy dosen't even notice when he breaks it. It's like periods. Some women are light and bleed for 3 days, some heavy, bleed for 5 days and are in constant pain.
Show your boyfriend this post, then he will know how concerned you are that he dosen't believe you. He will see that your not lying because other women have similar bodies to you. Book an appointment to see your doctor and take him too. The doctor will say the same as we have here.
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reader, miss.bexii +, writes (17 May 2008):
 theres a thin piece of skin across the cevix and when you have sex for the first time it breaks causing a small bleed but this can also be broken by gentle exercise or masturbation, its nothing to worry about
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reader, all i need  +, writes (17 May 2008):
not everybody bleeds. i didnt when i lost mine. and i wasnt really sore for a few days. just that night..
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