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anonymous
writes:i lost my virginity the other day, the guy i did it with didn't use a condom. now 3 days after sex my vagina has an odour and is sore. i also bled straighy after sex. is this normal?
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reader, 123emma +, writes (28 May 2008):
Hiya, It's normal to bleed after sex with it being your first time but I sounds to me like you have thrush. Dont worry about it as its very common but if you dont get it treated it can lead to infertility. Your from the UK so if you go to the doctors and tell them you had unprotected sex they can give you free tests to make sure its not an STD or something nasty, and they can also put you on the pill as its better to be safe than sorry! Hope I helped x
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (28 May 2008):
 do you have any of the following symptoms ?
Abnormal discharge
Normal discharge doesn't smell, and does not cause any irritation or itching. A discharge is likely to be abnormal if:
it smells fishy
it's thick and white, like cottage cheese
it's greenish and smells foul
there's blood in it (except when you have a period)
it's itchy
you have any genital sores or ulcers
you have abdominal pain or pain on intercourse
it started soon after you had unprotected sex with someone you suspect could have a sexually transmitted disease.
is you do think you have some of those symptoms then go see your gp now as it may need treatment dont be scared im sure it will be ok.. hope thats helped aphex x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni got the pill. but i still feel sore and have smelly discharge. is there anything i can do about the smell?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): Yeah this is normal honey but PLEASE go get the morning after pill TODAY if you can. There's a good chance you are pregnant, as he didn't use protection. Are you crazy?! I see you're in the UK (so am I) so go to 'Boots' the chemist and go to the counter, and tell them you need the morning after pill, or emergency contraceptive pill. Please honey, then only work properly if you use it within 3 days of having sex, so go get it as soon as you can. Really, don't leave it any longer.
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reader, jozzc  +, writes (27 May 2008):
 Hey babydoll,
The pain and swelling is kind of normal. However, the smell is not. Please go get tested for STDs. Also, please remember, men can spread yeast infections, as well. Yeast infections can cause smelling, discharge, cramps, and discoloration. Please use condoms, please, please, please, you do not need to become pregnant, contract AIDS, syphillis, gonorrhea, chlamydia or herpes. All of these diseases can cause great complications in your adult life, and you have your entire future in front of you.
Take care of yourself, you deserve it!
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (27 May 2008):
 It is normal to Bleed and be Sore for a Few days.. !! The oduor may be of the Sprem your guy left inside... Or it can even be a Sexually Transmitted Infection.. !! If the smell lasts for over a week, you would need to see your doctor.. !!
Next, Do you know you can be PREGNENT Evn if your guy did not come inside you...? I am most definitely sure that you would have tried the Withdrawl method.. !! Where your guy pulled out just b4 he was about to come.. Right..?
at 14 years nof age we think we know everything about sex, but we actually only know about 30% of the Risks involved with it.. We don't even know how to di it.. !!
Please take the morning Pill for sure.. !!
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (27 May 2008):
ok bleeding after sex is normal for the first time and you will be sore for a few days although if it persists more than a week talk to your gp. next ok not using a condom can result in pregnancies !!!! hope you realise this and also you can catch disease from sexual partners to!! not saying this to scare you but this is the things you have to be aware about when you decided on having sex..hope this helps aphex
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reader, :):):) +, writes (27 May 2008):
That all sounds pretty normal to me. You are likely to be sore for a while afterwards. And many girls bleed on their first time. The odour you've described is likely to be because the natural bacteria that lives down there has been effectively 'pushed up.' Make sure you clean yourself throroughly.
Is you are still experiencing soreness or an unpleasent odour after a couple of weeks, get checked out at a family planning clinic, they do this all confidentially and for under 16s.
The morning after pill works for up to 72 hours after having sex.
The next time you have sex, use a condom, it may interrupt things a little bit but not as much as a baby or STD would interrupt your life!
xxx
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reader, 2112EricYYZ  +, writes (27 May 2008):
 this is normal but next time for heaven sakes use a condom ur wayy to young for sex and even younger to be getting pregnant
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (27 May 2008):
 Bleeding after your first time is norma. What has happened is you have broken your Hymen(your cherry). This is just a fold of membrane covers the vaginal opening and breaking that can leave you sore for a while.
The odour you are smelling is actually your partners penis smell. Its a combination of sweat, urine and dead skin. The groin area of a man also is also where alot of their pheramones and essentially he has marked you.
I would advise you take the morning after pill considering you used unprotected sex and would advise that you use a condom and get started with the contraceptive pill. It is foolish to be unprotected at your age. STDs and Pregnancy I dont thin you are ready for.
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