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writes:please i need help!!me and my boyfriend have only just started having sex and we've had it about 7 times together. Now i was a virgin until now...and for some reason it still hurts every time we have it! i dont enjoy it and it sometimes bleeds a little!!what is going on...?? will the sex get better eventually? and what can we do...I do to help it??thank you very much! :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Emaz help  +, writes (31 May 2008):
 Relax
The same thing happens to me
I bleds the first two times and it still hurts a bit now!
Now as Aunt letty said- Do lots of foreplay!
And go gentlely at first!
The pain will ease eventually
good luck =]
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reader, Aunt Letty +, writes (31 May 2008):
Sex can hurt for any number of reasons. Try enjoting foreplay for a long period before you have sex, this will ensure you're naturally lubricated and should help a lot. Condoms, and even a lubricant (that's safe to use with condoms)can help, as can relaxing and unclenching your muscles. Generally, the more you have sex with a partner the better it gets. However, if it continues to be painful and you continue to bleed you should speak to your doctor.
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