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Archived questions from: June, 2015 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How can swingers so easily have sex with someone they don't love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3268 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - I hope this doesn't sound silly. I'm just curious. I know there are people that enjoy sex without love and those that can enjoy sex ONLY with love...or at least feelings for their partner. I'm just curious about swingers. Do you think they can ...

How can I resolve this problem? My trust in him has gone as I have a suspicion that my husband may have taken nude pictures of me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3396 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - In the past my husband has snapped pictures of me in the shower and changing. I told him to delete the pictures each time. I have told him he can't take nude pictures of me without my consent. This all started after we got married. Recently...

Am I nitpicking or are these various issues, such as her very bad breath, deal breakers in our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - Hiya Agony Aunts. There are a few things that nag at me about this girl I just started dating, and I'm not sure why. As y'all are likely older and more experienced than I am, I'd like your perspective. We started dating about 3 or 4 week...

Is there a chance that I can convince my ex Bf that I've changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3435 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me just under 2 years ago. I had liked him for a year before we went out and when we finally got together i was the happiest person around. Around 7 months after the very awkward breakup, we started talking again ju...

Was this breakup just a rash decision? Might he change his mind about breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3436 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - Last night my boyfriend of 4 years and I had an argument and he broke up with me. Then he texted and said he loves me, etc. But i haven't heard from him today. We have a great relationship 95% of them time and when we argue he sometimes makes rash...

Should I quit my job...and look elsewhere for a relationship with a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - Well this may sound pathetic and funny but after breaking up with my last girlfriend 4 years ago...its been very hard for me to find love... It sounds cheazy when a guy says it ...but i really do feel that i need help. I was nt that bad with gi...

Don't know where to start. Any ideas or suggestions on how to start dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3436 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - So I am 20 years old and I feel like it's time to start dating. But i am completely lost on how to even start. I have female friends but they don't have male friends plus I'm scared to even ask. I don't want to seem desperate. Any ideas or sug...

Is it worth remaining in a relationship if you don't trust a person?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - Is it worth being in a relationship if you do not trust someone? I love my boyfriend, very very much. Yet, I think he does things that are a little shady. Lately too, I've been wondering if he is cheating. He didn't want me to see his phone so...

Was it wrong that I wanted to share a dance with him? He's unhappy with me. My friends say I should leave him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - Hi all, so lately my friends have been telling me I should leave my boyfriend.. We've been together for a year and a half.. So this is what happened. We graduated and we had a grad ball for us to celebrate and have a good time. So a day before ...

How can I handle everyone asking me if I like this boy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - One of my friends found out I like this boy in my year she then told other people and now everyone in my year know that I like him. I've known this guy since I was around like 6/7 years old. Now everywhere I go people keep asking me "Do you like...

I know he's my ex. So should I be wanting to know all about his current life and what he's up to? How can I move on and not obsess like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - How do I stop being suspicious about what this girl is doing with my ex? My ex left me after a year, for another woman, 2 or 3 months back. It hurt me terrible and my ex stopped speaking to me over it. The thing is - I can't stop obsessing ove...

Are my reactions to his actions enough to call me clingy and obsessive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Am I being paranoid and clingy? My bf of over a year and I recently got into a long-distance situation. Getting used to the distance has put considerable strain on our relationship as he is more extroverted than I am. He's always been a bit of a ba...

Does it seem like he's flirting? So why are my affections wandering?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3439 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Hi all, So, I've got a bit of an internal dilemma going on. I've vented to people in my life about this but it gets me no where so I'm hoping maybe strangers will give me the straightforward answers I'm looking for. I'm in a committed relationsh...

Things seemed fine, then he blocked me. Should I just continue on with my life, and if he ever returns then ''so be it''?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - I've been talking to this guy and we really hit it off. We went on a few dates and immediately had a connection. He met my family and they liked him and we planned for me to meet his family next. As we got closer, we talked about more serious thi...

Mismatched libido. I feel she thinks her needs are more important than mine. I need help. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

27 June 2015 (M) - My wife won't come on to me! We are the same age and for years we've only had sex once a month. I've always been the first one to initiate sex. If I don't initiate the sex we won't have sex. I've tried waiting patiently, I've tried explaining...

After sex: is it even normal to still cramping up for an extended time?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Okay im going to ask very bluntly about this. When I had sex with my finance and he layed me down an held my legs up while going in he kept hitting something that kinda felt uncomfortable like hurtish . After the sex I started getting cramps w...

I lost it. Smashed a glass coffee table top. Was I in the wrong for anything? What should I do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Hey all... got a dilemma in my almost 3 year relationship. When I first met him I fell in head over heels love with him. We had the very best relationship that made people jealous seeing how happy we were together. Until months went by and I fo...

Are my concerns justified ? He's joined the army and I'm worried that the army will change him and our relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Ok so I just got married to a guy I have been with for about three and a half years. I love him so much, he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He has just enlisted in the national guard/reserves and is currently in basic training...

I found my dad is cheating on my mom... AGAIN! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I feel very sad and disappointed. I just found my dad has been texting another woman. This is the third time I find out he does this. The first two times I have told my mom about it and she tried to deal with it. The last time thi...

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend wants to stay friends with him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - We are living together in our own apartment for 3 years now and I just found out one of his female friends that he spends lots of time talking to was one of his exgirlftiends (his first love), she's the only ex that he's still talked too and I've ...

How do I take this slow enough for my co worker, but also let her know that I'm interested ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

26 June 2015 (M) - I very recently left my wife (less then a month ago). I realized I had feelings for a co worker. Since the breakup between my wife and I, my co-worker has admitted that she to has feeling for me but she is afraid of a relationship. She is only 20...

My beloved girlfriend died in a car accident. How do I move on from this? Would she be at peace with me moving on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

26 June 2015 (M) - Hello. I loved a girl who I was going to get married to very soon. Recently while on a trip with her mother. They met with a car accident on their return. Unfortunately it was a major accident and it led to her death on the spot and her mother...

What is the difference between Friends With Benefits and a Long Distance/ Casual Relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - What is the difference between Friends With Benefits and a Long Distance/ Casual Relationship? Call me old fashioned here - but from a woman's point of view - I cannot see how she can get anything from FWB without having some sort of feelings for...

How could he go from being the (I thought) love of my life to marrying another girl five months after we broke up and leave me when I was feeling vulnerable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

26 June 2015 (?) - Hi, I went through a terrible breakup in December. We were in a long distance relationship for 4.5 years at the time of breakup. Last year while I was finishing my masters I got placed at the first company that visited our campus (Top company in ...

Trust is an issue. How do I just be laid back and learn to let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - I'm struggling and trying really hard to trust my boyfriend. I am by nature a suspicious and paranoid person.. I don't really trust anyone and have never been in a relationship where I didn't snoop. My ex of 8 yrs used to laugh at me when I went ...

Is it ok to help him out with money until he starts to get paid again? How do I make it clear it's temporary help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - I recently started dating a guy, i really like a lot. He has been laid off of his job. Is it ok to help him out with money until he starts to get paid again? I dont make a lot of money but i live comfortably. If i do this how can i make sure he...

Should I still go on seeing this man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I am recently widowed and have bumped into a man I met about 30 years ago who is also single and an OAP like me. The problem is I do not trust him, we have been going out together for about 18 month now and we have become intimate. He likes ball...

He sent this woman sexual text messages but he said he did it because he thought it was a friend of mine I sent to play a trick

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - Hello i am a 37 year old woman and i have been in a relationship with this 50 year old man for two years. We've gad some rocky times but overall its been nice, we love each other and we had plans to marry, but last night i was on the phone with him ...

He has double standards and I'm not sure how to approach this! Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I met a man a year and half ago. He had just been divorced and has full custody of his two kids. We moved in together in January and now we are talking about getting married, but I have a major issue now. When I was moving my stuff in he didn't want ...

She says she will not sleep with anyone while we are "actively working on our relationship" How am I supposed to trust her ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

25 June 2015 (M) - A little background on my marriage, we've been together for 10 years and married for almost 5 and we have an almost 6 year old son. Before this we had only ever been intimate with each other. Back in December my wife and I seperated. I was...

I just want someone to tell me if my feelings are justified?!! Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and things have never been perfect from the start but I chose to ignore the first warning signs. We met years ago then lost contact and started talking online again 3 years ago, we decided ...

Any tips? How can I get him to kiss me on our second date ?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I started uni in September and met someone I like a lot. We've chatted loads and I plucked up the courage to ask him out but he said no. I was upset but got over the rejection. But our friendship got a little stronger. We had an end if year part...

I found a hotel key in my fiance's pocket. Help ! I don't know what to do

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I was doing the laundry last night and I found a hotel key in my fiance's pocket. The day before, he had gone off to run an errand as well as pick up the food shopping and he took so long I started to get worried about him. A trip that should h...

What to do? I Love my Gf, she's pretty, but I'm not attracted to her body

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

25 June 2015 (M) - I need help. I love my girlfriend a lot but don't think I'm attracted to her body. I'm not trying to say she's completely unattractive because she's not, she's actually very pretty. I just don't find myself lusting or wanting her body/sex. I've ...

Should I leave my wife?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

24 June 2015 (M) - Should I leave my wife? I have always trusted her, but because she had gone out one night about 5 years ago and returned home at 4:30 in the morning, I had started to have concerns. That night, I was supposed to pick her up at 11:00. I had cal...

Why would he discuss plans and say he loves me, yet soon after he blocked me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Why did he want something serious and then disappear and block me? I met this guy online. We hit it off and had an instant connection. After talking for a month, we met in person. He met my friends and hung out with us a few times. We connected an...

Is my behaviour really irrational, in the circumstances?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - hi, I am little confused with my boyfriends actions lately he thinks I am making a big deal out of nothing but I think it hurts me somewhere! Let me give you 2 instances Yesterday I asked his help to write a formal letter this was for my littl...

How could he throw in the towel and walk away like that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My recent ex bf is 49 and I am 39..we have been together a total of 4 1/2 years with a 1 yr break in between because he thought the grass was greener.. After making him wait I took him back and we dated another 2 1/2 yrs. we broke up almost ...

My Bf is happy to spend and hour or two with me and that's it. I want to spend more time with him. Is my request to him unreasonable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My boyfriend got mad at me because i've been asking for more time with him. He finds time for everything else then I get an hour here and there. He said he cant keep arguing about this and now won't answer my calls. What do I do? We've been to...

He wants time apart after our years together. Does this suggest that he's already seeing someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Why would my boyfriend after 22 yrs tell me that we need time apart ? i feel he has been seeing someone else he always makes me feel like im nobody to him ...

Is there any chance our friendship with this couple could be rekindled?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

23 June 2015 (M) - My wife and I know a couple, A and B, who live 5 minutes away and we used to consider them good friends. I think we have only gotten together (just the 4 of us) 2 times in the last 3 years. They have said they are too busy to do much with us. We ...

How do I get my head around the fact that he's rejected me because I have a child?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My ex and I were together for a year and we've been broken up for 4mos. He came back a month ago wanting a second chance but then changed his mind. He says that he doesn't want to be with me because I have a child. I'm trying my best not to cry w...

Dating for three years and no sex despite my efforts to initiate! Why isn't he interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Hi. I have a question about my relationship with my bf. We've been together for almost 3 yrs now and we rarely ever get sexually active. We haven't had sex yet. Neither one of us has had it before and when we try we don't get very far. He is 27 and ...

My boyfriend's parents aren't taking proper care of his little sister and I'm worried he may try to gain full custody of her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, This isn't a typical dear cupid topic, but it's about my boyfriend and his relationship with his family so I guess it's something.. Anyway. My boyfriend(20) of 4 years is seriously considering contacting social services about...

He claims to have picked me over all these gorgeous women but compares me to them anyway! Should I be flattered or hurt?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a few months and there is something that is starting to get me down. I'd like to know if I'm right to be a bit upset about it. We met each other on a dating site, we get on quite well and we are both very open p...

He promised me he'd stop saving inappropriate pictures, but I caught him again and have threatened to move out! Is he being disrespectful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - My man and I live together and have had a long term relationship. He started viewing nsfw pictures and saving them to his computer from a social site we both belong to. He promised he would stop but I found out he is doing it again. Sometimes ...

My boyfriend has been talking about a "two-year itch" and I'm worried he's had enough of me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Please help, im feeling really lost and starting to doubt myself. So been with my o/h for two years, prior to getting together we had been really close friends for about 13 years. We had been amazing for a while, but for about 6 months he has been ...

Depressed and way behind the average 21-year-old. How do I fix my life/stop beating myself up over past mistakes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - [Mod note: user's own title] I've pretty much wasted my life from 16 to 21 (possibly all my life) largely due to issues from emotionally abusive family. Anyone know how to stop "mentally beating yourself up" over lost time, esp. when said procrast...

Has my girlfriend moved on? She doesn't return calls or texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

22 June 2015 (M) - Let me preface this by saying that she has gone into hibernation or "no contact" mode for days or a week or two before on several occasions, but this time around I have a feeling that she could have "moved on". We've been dating for many years b...

Is it generally normal for a Doctor to ask a patient if the patient is married?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

22 June 2015 (M) - I had a followup with a female doctor/consultant after procedure. Big hospital, see different doctor each time usually, so probably won't see again. This one asked me if I am married, was very friendly and when I left told me how nice it was to know...