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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I'm too scared to ask her her boundaries. Should I be so hesitant to ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

30 November 2014 (M) - Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been dating for a while, and me and her both really love each other. She's chosen abstinence, and we've made out a couple times, and she's given me a handjob, and I've fondled her breasts, and that's as far as we've ...

Why do some people "forget" to contact you back? Is my friend being selfish ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

30 November 2014 (F) - I need advice, why do some people take so long to respond to your contact efforts? surely it becomes rude at some point? obviously there is something wrong or they no longer wish to see you..or be in contact, it happens, we lose fships.. sorry t...

What did she break-up with me out of the blue? Ex bf, new dude or was she not done playing the field yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

30 November 2014 (M) - I am a 44 yr old man, got dumped over a month ago, by my gf of 13 months. she was the love of my life. we were in-separable, did everything together, intimacy was awesome, I felt it was for her also. hours upon hours of conversation about anything ...

We rushed in too soon but is he backing out now? Was he ever serious? How should I approach this issue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I have less than 16 days to do something about this relationship. Please help. I met a guy on a double date five months ago. We hit it off and we talked everyday even though he moved back to the UK the day after we met. I did caution him that...

Has he used the "love" word too soon? Am I reading too much into his message? We've been casually dating for three months.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - A guy I've been casually dating for the past 3 months told me that he is thankful to have me in his life...and he has "nothing but love for me." This was in response to me messaging him on Thanksgiving letting him know that I'm grateful to have met...

Is my dentist being professional? Am I expecting too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I was hoping someone could help me shed some light on this situation as it's completely baffling me! Last year I started a teeth straightening treatment and I was reccomended the same orthodontist by a work colleague and an old school friend wh...

What can I do? My boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3681 days ago

29 November 2014 (?) - I know this isn't as serious as an addiction to drugs or alcohol, but I truly believe my boyfriend is addicted to fantasy sports. It's affecting our relationship. It started off earlier this Fall with fantasy football and has expanded to other ...

How can we make our relationship work while he's forever playing his games or on his phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and its been the worst two years! At first our relationship was great, we did everything together, he did small things for me, he was caring and romantic. And its went to hell. We don't do anything ...

Is my boyfriend bisexual?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3680 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I've been dating this super amazing guy for almost a year now. We both want to get married and were both looking for stable relationships. I ask every man I date if they've ever had any homosexual experiences. I usually ask in the beginnin...

How can we help my Bf's brother to take control of his eating and drinking habits that are affecting his health?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3678 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - Hello. My boyfriend and I are great. His brother is our problem. He has severe health issues and my boyfriend and I want him to take better care of himself. We just don't know how to go about it. The guy drinks 4 x 2 liters of Diet Coke a d...

Why? Why is she not into me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3679 days ago

28 November 2014 (M) - So I have been with this girl for almost a year and at first she seemed so interested then she went on a little vacation sort of speak and while there I would talk to her on the phone and write each other letters. She told me that her old behavior...

I know that my boyfriend didn't do anything wrong but just running into his ex ruined our night and his behavior didn't make things any better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. 2 girls before me, he dated a girl for around 3 or 4 years. They've been broken up for over 5 years now. They had an awful relationship where they fought, physically and verbally. She pretty ...

He says I should just get over his behaviour with these other girls

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3681 days ago

27 November 2014 (F) - Part of me wants to end my relationship with my bf of 2 years, yet I don't know by doing this, am I making the right decision? He used to flirt with a friend of ours a lot, so much so I felt uncomfortable. They texted everyday, she sent him her...

Would it be weird if I waited a whole year to date just her, knowing I like her? Or do I date other girls in the interim?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 November 2014 (M) - There's a girl I really like in my school, (I'm a freshman in high school) and she likes me too, but her parents won't let her date until next year when she turns sixteen. What should I do? Should I date other girls? Would it be weird if I waited a...

Could his hug have meant something? Don't want to mess up again.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

27 November 2014 (?) - I like this guy in my class and we talk sometimes in class but I don't know how he feels about me (I'm 18 and he is 20). Usually when he leaves for his next class I say "goodbye (insert name here)" to show that I'm making the effort to say his name. ...

My Gf does not want me to see her naked when we make love. How can I help her to overcome this issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

27 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend is overweight and its not from over eating its from a medical condition that runs in her family. I have told her that i understand thats she is over weight and have told her that i dont have any problems except when we make love. S...

I yearn for true love, harmony and happiness, again. But how? Is it too much to ask for?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - I miss my ex so much. Me and him broke up almost 10 years ago. We both moved on and I got married, divorced and contacted him, and he got in and out of several relationships, but today he doesn´t seem to be interrested. He was my first real...

My husband's explanation is not convincing. Is he cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - Last night I was going through my husband's phone which he constantly updates and deletes stuff from. I happened to click on the "notes" and the only note I found was from a week ago. It said: "It was good seeing you today, I never knew how dazzling ...

Soon we will be in a LDR. So far one month together. Is it too soon to say "I Love you" ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a month now. We started talking online and we talked for about two weeks before we met and we went on 3 dates before we started dating. He is an amazingly sweet guy, he makes me feel amazing, and I have nev...

I need to know if he's cheating -- and how to find out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for almost four years. Ive always had this screaming thought that he was doing something wrong, hiding something from me. A couple years ago I found an open condom wrapper in his car (a condom he didnt use with me). When I ...

He's in his 40s so about 15 years older. What could be the reasons for his actions? He appears to be nervous when interacting with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3682 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - I am asking why a man seems OK around me one minute then next comes across nervous? He knows me through work, and sometimes he comes across OK, then others he can't get away quick enough. Like today he said hi dance around me for a bit then hurried ...

Crushing for her, yet don't know if she's gay. If I make a move I could lose my Boyfriend. Should I tell her? What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - So I have posted about this before but my head is still a mess.. Anyways, I'm a 20 year old girl, (not bigging myself up here) but I have a good job I've worked so hard for, and a boyfriend I've been going out with for 4 years who I know loves me ...

He's 29, I'm 20. I don't know if I can trust him. Should I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3684 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6-8 months now. On our sixth month, we broke up for about a month. No contact at all. Then we got back together. He told me that during our break up he slept with this other girl. Slept with her a coup...

How can I demonstrate that I'm fun and that I like him without actually telling him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3684 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Hi I have classes with a guy I really like we sit next to each other. We kind of have a love hate relationship. We have a laugh and I really like him but at the same time he annoys me so much! What can I do about this? How can I demonstrate that I'm ...

Why can't I stop thinking about my ex ever since I found out that he is engaged?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3682 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - I just found out that my exboyfriend just got engaged. We've been separated for about 2 years and 6 months now. We were together for 11 years and I broke up our engagement because I got fed up with his lies and cheating. He tried to get back to ...

She's taking dancing lessons with her ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

25 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend of about 4 months teaches ballroom dancing, and is still learning -of course. Overall, our relationship is good -- we acknowledge we love each other all the time. I don't dance, but that's ok. Here's the problem. Once a week she driv...

How do I get out of the rut I am in and make changes for the better? Feel like life is passing me by

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3686 days ago

24 November 2014 (M) - This year, for a number of reasons,has been quite difficult. Not one to remember. I feel like I'm in a rut and I just can't seem to get out of it. I want to make positive changes to my life and lifestyle. I know the person I want to be,...

How can I improve my social life and my chances of dating? What are your thoughts on the man I have been texting? Just found out he's married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a successful career lady but my social life sucks. I have never had a boyfriend or sex mainly because I always meet rejections (maybe because I am physically disabled thus, less attractive). I do not believe in FWBs but a decent r...

But is it the right time? I think I may have found my soul mate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3686 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - So I think that I have met my soulmate. We were introduced by my godmother at a family party on Saturday. We immediately clicked! I have never had the experience of looking into someone's eyes and feeling like I can see their soul. I felt like I ...

Extreme jealousy- Do I need help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3685 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - I've been having trouble with extreme jealousy in my relationship which is gradually getting worse. It's mainly things like when I'm watching TV with my boyfriend, and something remotely sexual appears (e.g a naked woman or something even as normal ...

Could his girlfriend have deleted my message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3686 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - ok so i sent my ex boyfriend a text message on a! iphone 5 asking if our little girl has been ok because she wasnt feeling the best! he also has a iphone and told me he never received the text and showed me a screenshot to prove it! cant remember if ...

My wife won't have sex with me anymore and won't tell me why not

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3683 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - I think the title says it all. We have been married for 7 years, together for 10 years, and the sex went from twice a night (which is normal in a honeymoon phase) to never over the course of 2 years. Over the last 5 years we have not had se...

Even my friends and parents think his friendship with this girl is dodgy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - My bf and I have been seeing each other for 1.5 years. But lately things haven't been going well for us because of his friendship with a particular girl. They have known each other for a few years and she is residing overseas. Yet he is dodgy about ...

He has an explanation for everything but I still have trust issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3687 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - Hi..I am having a very difficult moment when I am not longer know who I am..I am with this guy for 8 months and I felt in love very fast and we moved together after 3 months..we share everything and we both help each other..the bad thing is I am ...

My wife wants all the details of my past relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

22 November 2014 (?) - i have a problem, now i am married i love my wife,i never hurt her feelings.i never lie to her,but i had an ex girlfriend, i had mentioned about our relation to my wife.Now my wife wants to know what kind of relation did i had with her, like love ...

Is my daughter having a second affair?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - I am concerned about my daughter, I will give you some background information she has a child with her former friends dad who was married at the time. I don't need to say why they are no longer friends. This is all came out when the baby was born. I ...

Is my boyfriend not attracted to me anymore? Am I not good enough? Is he seeing someone that looks better than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3688 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - Ok so when me and my boyfriend met i was 15 pounds lighter, Iam still not overweight and look average for a 28 year old woman but i feel there is something missing and i can't figure out what it is. He used to be so into me and our sex life was ...

Images of him sleeping with her are driving me mad! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years has gone to Europe for a seminar. He is there for past 1 week, will be back next week end. He went along with his coworker/boss with whom he has a crush on. She is married with kids. My bf is kind of lean towards ...

Why hasn't she told her guy friend she has a boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3690 days ago

19 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend has a guy friend that she has known for two years and they used to like each other she has not told him that she has a boyfriend and she wants to hang out with him alone and won't introduce me or tell him that she has a boyfriend. I ...

I feel he is still looking for other women whilst sleeping with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3687 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for just under 4 weeks. We met on Tinder and our dates have been wonderful. At the weekend I stayed at his and we slept together a lot on saturday and once on sunday before i left. We had a wonderful romantic time. He text ...

Does my best friend like my boyfriend? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3691 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - So i met my boyfriend through my best friend, they've now gone to uni together and are living in the same house. I was always hesistant to start a relationship with this guy even though i had strong feelings for him. My best friend 'used' to have ...

I had a feeling he was texting other girls, and he was! How do I approach this as it will reveal I went through his phone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3692 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 15 months. Recently I haven't been feeling the same, like I still love him but I get the feeling he doesn't. Things have changed a little over the weekend and I don't like the way it's going. I had a feeling he was ...

I am heatbroken there was no compromise or compassion!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 weeks. Things were going so well until yesterday evening. He invited me to a wedding and I gladly accepted the invitation (the bride and groom wanted to meet me too) The wedding was a sunrise one so it ...

Is there any way to track texts, numbers and messages on an iPhone that is not yours?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Is there any way to put a tracking device on an iPhone? How can I do this? I need to monitor my husband's phone for evidence of cheating. How about a GPS tracking device for the car? Can anyone help me? How can I do all this and where can I ge...

My fiance and father of our child has revealed that he has fantasies about having sex with other women. How am I supposed to cope with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3693 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - What would you do/think if your fiance who you just had a baby with says he fantasises/wants to have sex with other women! One of the woman he sees around work and talks to. Hes never cheated as far as i know and says he only would sleep with oth...

How do I continue with this relationship with my married boyfriend when I have periods of doubt creeping in around his ability to be faithful to me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Hello DC Friends. I could use your advice. Not judgement or answers which predict future behaviour and outcome. None of us knows what will happen with certainty. And let us remember that not every man is the same nor is what they do nor is every ...

Sad and confused. Wish I'd never met him. He was my first boyfriend, so why did he fail to give me support after he promised to help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3695 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Hey aunts I'm really sad and just confused. I'm a 23 year old college student who works part time. I've never had a boyfriend before, I just always thought if I waited than the right guy will come alone and I than too will experience my first bo...

Do I believe him or not? My older married lover says he'll leave his wife when I finish college.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3677 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - My older, married lover tells me he will eventually leave his wife once I finish college. He has brought up the idea of having a baby together recently. Does this mean he is serious about our relationship and would having his baby be a good choice? ...

I've been supportive about my husband's cross dressing. So why has he resorted to tells lies to me now about his activities?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3689 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Ok so I have known that my husband was a cross-dresser since before we got married. When he first told me about it, he started making craigslist posts to meet up with others to experiment... He never told me about it but I found the posts... He ...

Why might a guy give out mixed signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3695 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Why the mixed signals? I like a guy who is shy but with a very hyper masculine persona. He isn't much of a conversationalist and is quite to the point as a person. What I've perceived to be him maybe liking me: Looks at me a lot, gets a bit too c...