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writes:My girlfriend is overweight and its not from over eating its from a medical condition that runs in her family. I have told her that i understand thats she is over weight and have told her that i dont have any problems except when we make love. She wont let me see her naked and everytime the lights have to be off and that there is only one postition it happens in and that is me on top of her, i dont know what to say to her as she gets very embarrassed.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (27 November 2014):
In this day and age there is so much about the image that a woman should be and that is slim that it can be a very senstive issue for a woman.Would you consier having an indept chat with her about this when your not in bed.Maybe you might consider asking her to go along with you to have a chat with a counsellor.Because there is the problem for her when you are making love and it would be a great help to both of you to understand each other better.Best wishes NORA B.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2014): It just takes time for things like this. Show her that she can trust you. But remember, she can't feel comfortable with you until she is comfortable with herself so it may be her and not you that she has a problem with. Hope everything works out ^-^
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