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writes:Part of me wants to end my relationship with my bf of 2 years, yet I don't know by doing this, am I making the right decision?He used to flirt with a friend of ours a lot, so much so I felt uncomfortable. They texted everyday, she sent him her selfies, he even took 4 months worth of literature classes with her even though he doesn't like literature. He reall detests literature. After a few months I told him how I felt, we argued a lot over her. It was only after 6 months that he stopped texting her. Now the same thing is happening again, now with a friend of his whom I've never met before. I know she sends him her selfies too and he doesn't delete them because he is lazy, a reason I don't buy. At the same time, there is a second girl whom he is much closer to, who disses me off and outrightly texts my bf he should be with her instead. All these actions are really hurtful, especially when after I tell him his female friends have been disrespectful of our relationship, he ends up scolding me for not being understanding and that that's just the way they talk. If this is what I am going through over again I don't think it's healthy. In fact he says it's only unhealthy because I keep brooding over it and I should just get over it. I don't feel that I am in any wrong for voicing out my concerns.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2014): If I was a girl I would have dumped him a while ago because as a guy that's what I would do if a girl did that to me. Get rid of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2014): "Don't torture yourself any longer, just be rid of him. People like that will drain the best of you until you're left an insecure wreck."
So true, soon you will not recognize yourself if you still do. He has you convinced that this is your problem. The problem is him and his behavior.
He needs constant ego stroking and he wants multiple partners while he makes you miserable. You need to end the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2014): Don't torture yourself any longer, just be rid of him. People like that will drain the best of you until you're left an insecure wreck.
A decent man who cared would tell those girls where to go.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 November 2014):
You should have dumped him two years ago. There are men who do behave like this - they treat women like dirt, and some women unfortunately don't have the confidence to walk away. He's worked this out with you. Whatever good things you see in him, they're not there at all. He's just a nasty piece of work who needs to be dumped.
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