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writes:Is there any way to put a tracking device on an iPhone? How can I do this? I need to monitor my husband's phone for evidence of cheating.How about a GPS tracking device for the car?Can anyone help me? How can I do all this and where can I get the tools? Hoping all is relatively inexpensive. Any ideas how to catch a cheat? Hunches are not good enough. I need evidence.I think he could be cheating and I can't be behind him 24/7. And no money to hire an investigator.I need some ideas on how to catch him.His phone is KEY. His life is on that phone. How can I get the info on his phone from people who call him to texts to emails?He has recently password protected it and I have no idea what the password is. He won't tell me.Please don't tell me to leave and all that stuff.I need help on how to track his iPhone.I won't leave til I have hard evidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2014): I understand your frustration. I have been where you are. You want concrete evidence to put the issue to rest in yourself. Plus being able to back your accusations with concrete evidence; does bring piece of mind. Please consider the following: Lock down your own cell phone! Two can play this game! Be mentally prepared to get tough! U r the HBIC(Head Brat in Charge)in your happy world! Have a plan of action to put into place if he is cheating. Make sure you have the monetary funds ready BEFORE CONFRONTING! So if you choose to leave or put him out, you don't take a step back. If his life is in his phone, wait til he is in the shower call his cell answer it. It will give you access to the phone while the call is active. So don't hang up! Or watch from behind his dominate hand shoulder at a distance where he places the fingers on his touch screen. All keyboards are set up the same! Create a false account on Facebook, instagram, twitter this will enable you to check out his page on any of these programs without him knowing. You can download photos for the divorce proceedings for free! The one mobile phone app that doesn't require direct download to his cell is www.mobilespyphonesoftware.comYou download it to yours, then call his cell leave a msg then you got access! Cost of program is $35.00. You will need a memory chip first. I recommend accessing the website from your cell phone and downloading it straight to your phone. Use one of those prepaid credit cards so there isn't any paper trail. Save the instructions Also, make a note of all the utility account information, company name phone #,account #, name billing address. If he ends up kicking you out, and moving the new girl in before you are ready. You can call request an emergencey same day disconnect of all the utilities. This is vengeful, but a great way to get back at him. Especially on a friday in august!
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reader, MSA +, writes (16 November 2014):
 Why do you need hard evidence to leave him? To justify that he is in the wrong and you are doing a right thing by leaving him? In your mind, you have already deserted him and your marriage. I'm not saying that he is not doing any of the things you mentioned here, but why do you need justification to leave him?If you feel you don't trust him or love him anymore, leave him now.If you feel he is cheating on you, why not bring it up in a conversation as two adults.. tell him your feelings, thoughts, insecurities... ASK HIM to allow you to see his phone, while he is sitting/standing in front of you. Most men would appreciate that rather than have you try to hack into his phone. Just be upfront about your feelings and talk to him... he IS your husband!He is a human and has his rights, privacy and freedom too.. no one.. not his wife, not his mother, can control his life the way you are wanting too. Save yourself some grace and respect, talk to him like an adult.
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reader, celtic_tiger  +, writes (16 November 2014):
 I strongly suspect that everything you are suggesting there - bugging, tracking, and breaking into a password protected phone without someone's knowledge would all constitute as illegal activities.
You obviously do not trust this man. Why not just leave him?
If you hate him that much - leave. What is stopping you?
Unless you have a vested interest in gaining a financial pay off from his infidelity? In which case, it isn't about a relationship break down, or him cheating on you, it is about what you can get out of the relationship.
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