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30-35,
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writes:So I think that I have met my soulmate. We were introduced by my godmother at a family party on Saturday. We immediately clicked! I have never had the experience of looking into someone's eyes and feeling like I can see their soul. I felt like I have known him my entire life.When I left the family party, he was asking my godmother about me and he was looking through my social media and pictures, saying how wonderful I was and how beautiful I was. But there are issues. He JUST got into a relationship two weeks ago. I have been dating someone for about a month and a half, but he isn't my boyfriend and neither of us are very serious. We hang out, and the sex is amazing, but I don't have an emotional or intellectual connection with him. But with the soulmate, I want to be respectful of his relationship, I would never want to ruin someone else's happiness for my own expense. I did message him on Facebook saying it was nice to meet him, and a conversation started. I left it at that, and I haven't tried to contact him since. But he has been on my mind constantly! We didn't even talk for that long in person, but we both felt such a strong connection. Was I wrong for messaging him on Facebook? I know I have to be patient and wait my turn. Should I stop seeing the man I am currently dating? I don't want that to turn into a relationship and then lose the opportunity with my potential soulmate, or lose out on both completely. I'm trying not to be selfish or immature in the situation. But I can't get him out of my head.. Help please :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2014): If I was younger with this dilemma, I'd been stuck too but if I experienced this now (at 33), I would think to myself the best thing to do is simply tell Soulmate what you've told us. From the way you've described the situation, chances are he feels the same way about you.
One of the worst things in life is not stating your feelings for someone and finding out years later that they felt the same way, you'll both rue the wasted time you could have been together.
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