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Archived questions from: January, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How do you feel about social media? It seems to cause problems for me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - How do you guys feel about social media, especially Facebook? Do you think it's worth it to have one? Has it ever caused any problems for you? I'm asking this because it seems to cause a lot of insecurity within myself and other problems. I am n...

Am I being paranoid about my boyfriend adding a woman on Facebook?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

31 January 2014 (F) - I'm so upset. I noticed that my boyfriend has added a woman on his Facebook page. She lives in another country. There are photos on there of her dressed in revealing clothes. The clothes aren't revealing on all the photos, but she is dressed up on ...

I suspect my husband of cheating but can't confront him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi, where do I start! My husband and I have been married for 15 years and have 3 children. Over the last 3 years I've found several occasions where my husband had been trying to get the attention of other women by both texting and facebook. I'm ...

I gave my ex another chance, reunited and I am pregnant - now I find out he cheated and lied. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

30 January 2014 (F) - Hi To cut a long story short. I've been with my partner for nearly two years. A little less than a year into the relationship my partner treated me real bad. I don't want to go into too much detail but it left me devastated. We was on and off from...

Facebook is causing problems in my relationship, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - Through out the years, I have had a lot of bad experiences with Facebook so I deleted mine a long time ago. My boyfriend has been using his again lately. The reason this upsets me is because he has been talking to some of his female friends on ...

Should people in a relationship discuss their sexual past? I'm uncomfortable hearing about boyfriend's past.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

29 January 2014 (?) - Hi everyone, I had a question and I hope you can answer. If you are in a relationship with someone, is it alright to ask about their sexual past? My boyfriend was telling me about the women he has been with and it made me a little uneasy. H...

Husband corresponding with his ex despite agreeing that he wouldn't. Need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3953 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - I just found out that my husband is still corresponding with his ex. I feel so betrayed because I thought he finally understood how I felt about him talking to her and for the simple fact that he assured me that he wouldn't talk to her for respect ...

Uncomfortable with ex putting naked photos of our son on Facebook. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

29 January 2014 (F) - This is a question concerning my ex, and our child. Hi Aunts and Uncle's, thank you for reading this, I hope to find some help. My ex and I are on good terms..kind of. We have a two y/o son and he has a 2 y/o daughter. My issue is, I'm so...

My parents sic evangelists and drug testers on me while I'm at college

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - So I went to college for a year and that didn't work out - I couldn't get myself out of bed to go to class, I really wasn't partying much (I went to about four parties the entire year and at all four I blacked out drunk and made an ass of myself and ...

If I'm the only woman he ever wants to have sex with then why is he imagining doing it with other girls, maybe even ones he knows?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - I know this was a silly thing to do, but yesterday I looked at my boyfriend's search history when he was out. We've been together almost 2 years now and he wants to marry me, have kids with me and I know he's the one I want to be with for the rest ...

I had never seen him in a fight before, and I can't handle it because of my past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3953 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - I have suffered from depression and anxiety since I was a teenager, and I'm now 21. I have had therapy and medication for the past four years, with a little success. When I explained it all to my now ex boyfriend, I thought he understood my mental ...

Should I go out with a co-worker of my ex? My ex suggested I consider dating his co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3955 days ago

28 January 2014 (F) - My ex and i broke up a little while ago, and we stayed friends. He left me because he didn't want to be in a relationship right now, since he had just got out of a long term relationship not too long ago. He says i'm an amazing girl, and I dese...

What can I do? My new teacher does not like my family. He used to teach my sister.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - I went to meet my teachers for my classes and when I did I found out that one of my teachers used to teach my sister. I know he hates my family. What do I do?...

Is this a guy thing? Some he met online, some in real life or through gaming. Should it bother me that they flirt with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3950 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - My problem may sound ridiculous to most, but I'm really hoping some can understand or relate. I'm having problems with my boyfriend and his female friends who he talks to on Facebook. About half of them he knows in real life, and half of them he ...

Why do girls suddenly distance themselves from a guy, when things seem to be going great?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

27 January 2014 (M) - Dear cupid I have experienced during my dating that sometimes girls suddenly distance themselves without any warning or explanation whilst you are dating a girl. (She doesn't like anyone else and she's single ). Why the sudden change in attitude w...

Did he settle for me initially because he couldn't get her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - Hello I would like an opinion If anyone has the time? I need to know If I am just plain insecure and low seld esteem or If I have reason! I'll try keep to the point. Got with my boyfriend 2 years ago, when we first got together he was texting ...

Worried that my insecurities will ruin my happiness and relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

27 January 2014 (F) - I'm so worried all the time when it comes to my relationship. I've been with my lovely, sweet, thoughtful boyfriend for a year and a half. We are living together for a year - it felt right as we had known each other a year before dating and we both ...

Is my boyfriend being too friendly with her? He says he doesn't want to be mean to her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

25 January 2014 (F) - About a week ago my boyfriend met a girl through some mutual friends. My boyfriend says this girl flirted with him like crazy as soon as she was introduced to him and even told my boyfriend that he seemed like an amazing guy and that she really ...

What can I do? I love her. But got a little boring and repetitive in the bedroom. Yet she refuses to try anything I suggest.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

25 January 2014 (M) - Hi My problem is this, I have been dating my girlfriend now for 4 years in February and things have got a little boring and repetitive for me in the bedroom and without sounding like I'm blaming, it is her. All she wants to do is run the same old...

How do I confront my housemate about his ridiculous obsession with my mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

25 January 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I really appreciate the opportunity to speak to someone about my worries, i have never openly discussed my problems with an agony aunt before. One of my housemates, currently a student, has an unnatural and exaggerated attrac...

Something in his story just didn't ring true ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

25 January 2014 (F) - I recently met and fell in love with a great man. If were not together we are talking. He makes sure I know he loves me. We plan on moving in together. I have a son and his Dad is not in his life he has stepped up to the plate and I respect him ...

Is his contact with the girl from the AA meetings violating their open relationship rules?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - Ok- I am posting for my best friend because it is an issue she is struggling with and came to me for help/to talk. I'm not sure exactly what to tell her. She is engaged and living with her fiance. They are in an open relationship and have been to...

How do I leave my violent husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

23 January 2014 (F) - I have been with my husband for 8 years and we have 4 young children together. My husband has always had a bad temper and drinks excessively, but both have gotten worse over the years. He screams and swears at me at least once a day for something ...

How does FB determine the suggestions for "people you may know"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

22 January 2014 (F) - my boyfriend is 36 he loves me so much and i had never seen such a romantic love in my life,i dont go to details and to make a long story short i know he is not that type of person to pay attention to anyone else, we know each other for 10 years he ...

Her training to fight makes me feel insecure.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

22 January 2014 (M) - I'm in a fairly new relationship with a woman I adore. Our courtship lasted a bit long but we didn't want to get into a relationship just after a few weeks of admitting we liked each other. After a little over a year, we became happily official. T...

Little contact from my boyfriend while he's on vacation. Should I be concerned?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of a year has been on vacation for a month in another country ( visiting family). I went for ten days but now I've been home for 11 days and he has called me just once. I sent a two messages on FB and he did reply both times but very ...

My boyfriend wont let go of my past!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

21 January 2014 (F) - Please, I need help with this. In the beginning of my relationship I made the treacherous mistake of telling my boyfriend about me giving oral to another guy, as I took it not very seriously and told him lots of details, it really got to him. ...

I stood him up twice due to anxiety and now I don't know how to fix things

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

19 January 2014 (F) - I was supposed to go on a date with this absolutely amazing guy and I told him I couldn't make it... This was only because I suffer from anxiety issues and the thought of going on a dare with him prettified me. I know I'm always ok once I'm on the ...

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

19 January 2014 (M) - my girlfriend and i have been dating for a year now,we hav been living in the same compound up until last month. She relocated in another town,my problem is that sometimes when we hav a phone conversation and i start talking about her kising...

I feel furious and totally used!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

18 January 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm just wondering what people make of this, because I feel so angry when I think about it and I need to off load. 2 years ago now, met a girl while out. It was like love at first sight if you know what I mean. We went on a date and it was ...

He has left me dangling and my life is on hold.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I split up three weeks ago he has serious mental health issues and said he cant sustain a relationship as he coudnt think straight . He said he was going to get help and in the meantime has seen me three or four times and says he ...

My head is going nuts and he has left me confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - I wrote here about a week ago about a guy I'm dating, it isn't serious I don't particularly want it to be serious I just want to go with the flow kind of thing enjoy the moment take things slow. Last night we went out and had a great time decid...

How do I let him know his behaviour is not acceptable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - Hi guys. I'll try to be as brief as possible because this is complicated. So, I met my current guy two years ago through a mutual friend and very quickly we became inseparable. He was the best boyfriend I ever had, beautiful, romantic, and totally ...

Threats, fighting, verbal and mental abuse. Is he about to break up? What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid yesterday i had a huge fight with my bf of 4 years, lately he is ignoring me, verbally and mentally abusing me all the time. Its getting difficult even to have a decent conversation with him on anything. Yesterday we had a huge f...

How long should I wait before contacting her? Even though she went "no contact" due to my actions.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

18 January 2014 (M) - When she deleted you and you went no contact, how long would you wait to contact her again? We were friends before and I somehow hate the thought of losing her totally.... ( I made a terrible mistake. I talked to her sister about it and I might h...

I cant stand this man but I love him! Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - I and my husband were in a relationship since 2010 and got married in 2012. From the very beginning, I and my husband fought almost every week over petty issues. We were in a long distance relationship so thought things would be fine once we move in ...

I lent my online bf money for the trip to meet me...am I being used?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - I've been in an on-line relationship for 2 months. My bf and I decided to meet, so we went ahead and made plans. But a few days before he realised he doesn't have enough money for the trip. I have agreed to lend him but I keep wondering if I am ...

How much should you tell a new partner about past relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - When embarking on a new relationship how much should you tell your new partner about your "relationship past" I ask this not because I've had a problem with this nor am I embarking on a new relationship but simply because I see on this site that t...

All the guys I date end up obsessed with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

18 January 2014 (F) - I feel like I can't love anyone... I don't know if it's because I'm depressed or what but I feel like I can't be in a relationship. Recently I've been in a lot of relationships and they all seem the same to me. I feel really silly saying this but...

Is he committed to marrying me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3964 days ago

17 January 2014 (F) - hi all. I just want to understand this. I have dated my boyfriend for 7 years and in march 2012 he asked me to bought a house with him and I did because he promised that we are going to get married in that December of 2012. when December came he ...

Has anybody else's relationship become stronger after a cheating episode?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half - we talk of marriage and babies and make future plans. I even had a pregnancy scare and he reassured me by saying that (while it wasn't the best time) we would be fine if we had a baby and ...

First it was just a break,now its an 'open' break, so what does my GF really want?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

16 January 2014 (M) - So my girlfriend and i are taking a break from our relationship because she want to figure out what she wants to do in life and i agreed to it. I understand because im in that position too. Then later on we confirmed if it was ok to just talk to the ...

Potential boyfriend is demanding to know my past, and then comments negatively!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3963 days ago

16 January 2014 (F) - I've been talking to a guy that I met through a dating website for almost 3 months now. We live across the country so we haven't met yet but we text all day and skype pretty regularly. For the most part, things are pretty good with him and I feel ...

Do I stay with my girlfriend and hope things get better, or leave her for a girl who may leave me for a girl when she decides I'm just a phase?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - im currently in a relationship with a girl and ive been with her for five years, i loved her in the beginning and i still care for her but im finding it hard to say to myself that i still love her and for the last year ive felt less intrested in ...

My mother does not approve of my girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3965 days ago

15 January 2014 (M) - I am 25 year old male and I have a girlfriend who is 23 and has a 2 years old boy. My mother has huge hate against her and I need you guys to help me solve the problem... I went to Japan for 3 months and I met a girl(Half Filipina, Quarte...

I found his ad on casual sex sites but thought he was against it!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

15 January 2014 (?) - Hi everyone, I have been with my current boyfriend for about 7 months now. About a month ago, I was using his iPad to purchase Christmas presents and I found a site bookmarked called "Forgetdinner". I was curious so I entered the site and it turn...

Why can't men treat a good woman right, be faithful and stop that wondering eye?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

15 January 2014 (F) - I am a 49 year old woman married 25 years and two children. I married my high school sweetheart, who was a flirt... He cheated on me 17 years ago, and last year... I don't know about all the other years, but I have doubts. He will never admit that ...

Our relationship has an expiration date!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

14 January 2014 (M) - I feel like this relationship is for nothing. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half. She goes to the junior community college and I go to the state school. Her major isn't offered at my school so she is going to transfer ...

I am ADDICTED to HIM!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

14 January 2014 (F) - When i say addictive i mean addicted to HIM! We had been together on and off for two years, and the relationship that we had was far from a healthy loving stable relationship. Although there were very good moments in the relationship the bad ...

Missing condoms have raised my suspicions

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

13 January 2014 (F) - Dating a great man for about one year and he is not ready to commit. He has been divorced for 5 years and is not ready for a serious relationship ( I know I know I'm stupid for staying loyal to him ) He is 34 and I am 31 I went to his house on Sat...