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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How do I shake off this feeling that he does not love me? Could be be using me for something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I am seeing a man from Africa. I don't know how he feels about me nowadays. Nor if he loves me. We only see each other once a week. I am american and am used to a lot of attention when I am in a romantic relationship. He works and goes to sc...

Truly? Is this relationship going to work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I've recently started dating this guy who is 2 years younger than me. I'm 17, and he's 15. Now, I don't normally go for younger guys. In fact, for the past 4 years I have been in love with a man who is 9 years older than me. My current boyfrien...

Was I wrong to ask if she would mind scanning her notes? And why did she say yes, and then not bother? And now ignores me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I want to share this with you people and please give me your opinion I need some help here Thanks :). Ok so I started a course on July, its only 2 times a week and since the first day I've been talking to 2 girls that seemed to be friendly, I ...

Maybe I shouldn't have gone looking for proof. Should I now ask my Mom if it's true about her former job in pornography?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I just found out that my mom is or used to be a porn star. Although, I've heard about this from my cousins who I meet once a year on thanksgiving. Naturally, I thought that was lies, and figured that they were just trying to mess with my head. The...

What's wrong with this guy!? Why does he keep being hot and then cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - My friend told this guy I like him. Ever since then, he's been staring at me, flirting with me, calling me pet names. Usually, this is the type of thing that would make a girl think that a guy is into her. But last I heard, he was still hung up...

Her actions feel disrespectful. Do her actions suggest that she is not as committed to me, as I have felt towards her?

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30 November 2012 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for over 2 months. At first everything was great, but now I'm not so sure. Things are off and on. One day she loves me the next she hates me. The only way she will ever say "I love you" is if I say it first. Sh...

Something tells me I can't trust her as much as I'd like.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I am a male in my mid 40s dating a woman about my age for about a year. We met online and we hit it off right away. I found out about 1-2 months into our relationship that she was still married but keeping her ex temporarily on her medical ...

It seems like my girlfriend is getting too close to her male friend, they act like we did when we first started dating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - My girlfriend has recently started talking to another guy she goes to school with frequently and I'm beginning to question the truth behind their friendship. She says that he is merely her best guy friend since her and I don't go to the same school, ...

What are my chances? I thought it was mutual love from the start. But is she having doubts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I met this girl a few months ago love at first site on both sides. She is still married and has a kid with this Guy. He lives in another state so I'm not worries but they saw each other a few weeks ago at their daughter's birthday party a...

Was she testing to see if I'm actually interested? Should I ask her out? Or was she just bored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I have been talking to this girl I have known for two years. We have been chatting a lot recently and she has been asking me to meet her. I have been busy so have not been able to. She has been texting me a lot and hints she wants me to take her...

Why don't I ever attract girls I want to spend time with? Could my personal issues be a reason some girls avoid me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I only attract the really weird and creepy ones that I don't find attractive. People have told me that I am really cute and that I can be a guy who girls are attracted to, but that's only a few of my friends because they're people I know and can ...

My Bf claims I'm not a REAL girlfriend. Is he right, wrong, or something else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years. I'm 22, his 23. He was a sweet guy and totally loveable in the beginning. I'm studying full time and I'm working part time and I currently live with my parents. I pay rent and bills and I'm getting my car s...

He says we have sex less often because I've put on weight. Could this be the real reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - hello, i have a problem. i have been with my boyfriend for 7years. we only have sex sometimes once a week or once a month. he says it's because i've gained weight and it feels different. Can this be true? Also i sometimes think he's cheating ...

Honesty, porn -- how do I process my boyfriend's behaviour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. I have a problem which i would really appreciate it if you helped me out. My problem has been on going on 4 months and i want some clarity as i don't know what to do anymore. My problem first started when i found porn on my boyfr...

What can I do? I'm in love with a man and I'm in love with my professor who is a woman.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I have a situation. I am in love with two people. The big thing here is: I am in a relationship with a man and we have been together for a year now. The other person I am in love with is another woman. She is a professor at my school. She is...

Would these be deal breakers? Does it suggest I should be calling the wedding off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend, now fiance are planning our wedding and deciding on a wedding date. We have been engaged for one year. Dated for a year prior. I don't know if it is butterflies in my stomach but a few of his behaviors I am starting to ques...

How should I ask my girl friend to consider a small change to our routine when we make love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4379 days ago

29 November 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost three years now. We have a pretty basic sex life, nothing ever too wild. One of my favorite things she does is let me finish in her mouth when she gives me oral. She doesn't give many blowjobs...

I was supposed to see a therapist. Is it time I now considered this option again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4378 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hello all agony aunts and uncles, I need your advice yet again! Long story short, I moved hours away from my finance to attend college. I was good for the first semester, but then I got really depressed (randomly) and withdrew from the fall sem...

I really want to forgive him and move on but I can't trust him any more.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hi all, and thanks in advance for any advice you can give me. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and we are generally very happy. In general, it is a perfect relationship. Unfortunately, recently I found out that he slept with someo...

How to get friendship back after breaking trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - i'm the most horrible person in the whole world. i had a best friend(S) of 14 years i lived with for 7 years who did a lot for me, supported me in all ups and downs of life and even paid for my school and bills when i couldn't work just to make me ...

I havent heard from him for 2 weeks and I'm really worried about him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4379 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hiya everyone, My partner usually calls 2-3 times a week, he doesnt like to text or email if at all possible. but after i last saw him nearly two weeks ago, i havent heard anything from him. ive emailed and texted to make sure he is al...

I have so many questions and so many concerns about whether or not I can trust him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - part of my boyfriends job is to drag women into traps. he makes them think he loves them so they fall in his love and then he tests their real emotions towards some stuff. he promised to stop this job in a week, after the last file he is deali...

I think my boyfriend has been fantasizing about a co-worker for some time.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Hi, just wondering can anyone give me some advice or input into something I an dealing with. I think my boyfriend has been fantasizing about a co-worker for some time. I think when he was in bed with me he was also fantasizing about her. I am now ...

Is he a better match for her, is she going to leave me? I don't know what to do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

28 November 2012 (M) - I'm a freshman in college and so is my girlfriend of 2 years. We are very close, but I attend college 7 hours away from her. I don't see her except on holidays, and recently she has been getting really close with a good looking Indian guy (She is ...

My husband cheated, the marriage is over but I'm afraid to end it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Dear cupid My husband had cheated on me in the past a few times i for gave him and we have tried to put it behind us. His affairs went on all though our marriage until he got caught,(20 yrs) no doubt he would still be cheating if he had not been...

How do I get over this cheating guy? He's just found out his ex is pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Ok soo I have this really huge crush on a senior nd well we've been talking nd been friends for about a year now ok Hey asked me out over the summer but I said I wasn't ready I then asked him when I was ready. He said I'm not ready I'm starting...

Read sexual texts from my girlfriend to another girl, should I forgive her or breakup?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - Please guide me with ur answers. N forgive me for the length. My gf and I are lesbians in a long distance relationship separated by an hour n a half. Newayz I noticed some changes in my gf and how she began to treat me. She stop texting sexual and ...

I really feel I need to get out of this mess, but he keeps telling me I'm making a mistake.. should I run as fast as I can?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - My Fiance, slept with his late wife's sister soon after she passed. before we got together he said he was done with her and that they worked all there feelings out and that they would never do that again.. let me also mention that the sister is ...

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - I am concerned my boyfriend is cheating on me. I have had suspicions before as in our first year of University I heard him talking, drunkenly, to one of his other flat mates about how he would love to sleep with this other girl he lived with and ...

My boyfriend has lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money and she hasn't paid a penny back

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - My boyfrind of just over 2 years has just lent an ex-girlfriend £200 of our joint money. This was 6 weeks ago now and she hasn't paid a penny back. I reluctantly agreed to this because my boyfrind tells me's a good man and she is now just a friend ...

Is he a narcissist? He's jekyll and hyde and I never know what to expect from him..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - i am a mess. i have recently split from my partner who i believe may be a narcissist. im not sure where to begin, but this is what ive come to believe and know -he is jekyll and hyde. there is no predicting how he will act toward me from one day ...

I don't know what to do to make things better between us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - I met my girlfriend 3 years ago, I fell in love with her and made a bond. I live with her away from my own family, in the 2 years of dating we had our troubles in the relationship. She met this guy on facebook who dated my couise.He told my couise ...

He gets jealous about EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. I want to break up with him! And there's a bonus question too....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Well where do I begin? Lets see here. My bf and I have been dating for the past 5 months (secretly until about a week ago bcuz I wasnt allowed to date) Well now weve been fighting a lot about the past 2 months and I dont know if I can stand it much ...

I ended the relationship after the "where are we going" conversation! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been in an exclusive relationship for almost three years (both of us over 45). We see each other five times a week, taking turns sleeping at each other's home. My home is a lot for me to take care of (large yard and pool), n...

I'm concerned that I can't trust him because of this co-worker!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Hi, I am looking for some advice. I have been in a relationship with my partner for the past 6 years. I always trusted him, I felt I had no reason not to. Last month we got invited to his work mates engagement party and he said it would be best if ...

His ex attends the holiday gatherings with his family, isn't this disrespectful to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - So I began a relationship with a guy that ive known for many years.Early in the relationship we moved in together and I started having second thoughts.So I told him him we were done.I regret it but I spent the weekend with my ex and yes I had sex ...

Why would a girl cheat on her boyfriend after telling him they should wait to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - My friend started dating a girl at the beginning of the relationship they both agreed to wait until they have sex. However, the girl did a 180 and had sex with a lot of other guys behind his back while seemingly being chaste. I want to know why...

Why did my teacher only invite me and none of the other students to his birthday party? He's 24 Does he love me?.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I've have been in the big trouble! I have fallen in love with my teacher, and I wonder if he loves me too. The way he looks at me and he also looks at me a lot! My friends already thought I'm crazy. They said it's impossible to love the teacher ...

What were his motives? Why did my ex ask me out, thinking I had a new Bf? But then get all upset after he realised I wasn't dating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - My ex boyfriend started texting me last week. He thought I was still seeing someone but when he mentioned it I replied saying that I wasn't. Well it turns out he never got that text and asked me out anyway thinking I still had a boyfriend. Wel...

How should I react when he ignores me?...Because I still like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4382 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I started liking a guy in my class... he flirted a lot with me when compared to other girls..after giving it a long thought i told him i liked him... he replied that it's not that he ..but doesnt like me or anything...but it was not a good time ...

Why do I always seem to meet jerks who only wants to sleep with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

26 November 2012 (?) - Guys, what goes through your mind when you meet a new girl and only want to sleep with her? Why do guys I meet only want or try to sleep with me? I met a couple of guys from club online and even "friends of friends". Their only motive is t...

I have refused to do this. So why is my Bf obsessed with wanting to see me do oral with another guy. What else can I say to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - hi i am in a long term relationship since my teen years and the last 4 years long distance. but late 1 year my guy has been obsessed about seeimg me doing oral with another guy. i have always said no. but he has kept on asking for this.. i dont kn...

Is there any hope of turning this around? I keep finding my Gf on dating sites.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - My life seems like a constant cycle of catching my girlfriend on dating sites, breaking up and then somehow ending up back together. When I have caught her she has lied by denying it, blamed me for neglecting her, accused me of jealousy, abuse, i...

Is our relationship doomed? He, (45) verbally abused me (19) when I queried his actions.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - I found out my partner has been lying to me. It's been going on for months until last week when I asked him why he has been lying to me (iv'e been honest, not cheated nor played around) Instead of him explaining he just verbally abused me a...

Am I insecure about her sexual connections with other guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - Hi guys, hope someone can help me on this one? So I've been with my GF for 11 months now and living together for 6 months. We dated on and off for 7 months owing to her going through a divorce at the time and me not wanting to commit to someon...

Is this just a sweet gesture or is he romantically interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I've known this guy for over 2 years now, we're very good friends. I did fall for him sometime ago (and I did tell him, we just had a very down to earth conversation about it), but we can't be together for whatever reason, anyway my feelings...

Is there something wrong with my libido? It was good at first but then as time went on it started to hurt. Now I'm just not in the mood

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. So I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We first had sex when I was 16 and him 17. It was good at first but then as time went on it started to hurt but I'm just not in the mood for it...ever! I'd happily just have a ...

How do I get past feeling so uncomfortable about his crazy past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - How do you let go of your partner's crazy past? My bf is 31 now but from his late teens to his mid 20s, he was doing a lot of drugs, was partying all the time and having lots of sex with lots of different women. It was a crazy time in his life. I'...

I have an interview for a job. Any hint, tips or suggestions to help me succeed this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Can anyone give me some advice on this ? . I have an interview for a Sales Suppport position with an Estate Agency on Wednesday. It's only part time, but i don't mind about that. I have been unemployed for three years, and i don't have much wor...

Did he dump me or are we on a break?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I have been with my man for 6 months now. Things were going great, then he lost his dream job because of a stupid thing he did, found a new one but its not a good one, but he needs to work there to earn some money. He became really distant with...