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Archived questions from: June, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Why is it that the only type of guys I'm interested in are guys I have previousy been with but are now in other relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I've recently discovered that the only type of guys I'm interested in are ones that I have previousy been with and are now in other relationships and I don't know what to do about it. I've been talking lately to my ex who is now living in London b...

He left his wife for me but misses his children

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I fell in love with a married man. We are right for each other. He left his wife and children and moved in with me, but told his wife it was a trial separationn and she has no clue what he has been doing. Now a few months in, he has become depre...

My boyfriend is jealous of something that didn't happen

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I started "talking" in February and we recently started dating like 2 weeks ago. I'm 16 and he's 19. He's always been reallyyyyy sensative, and sometimes its really annoying and other times its cute. Like when we first ...

Do I leave the man I love and return to a life I hate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I need some help with a choice i have to make. I have no idea what to do so please help me. I had a boyfriend for a year and a half. Lets call him X. We were really close. I moved in with him and his family because i was having trouble at home....

I never get a break from him bitching at me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I don't even know where to begin. I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 years in December. We have a 6 month old together and are living together. I'm constantly trying to make him happy. He's VERY OCD, so I try my best to keep the house clean, ...

My boyfriend loves his computer more than me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4531 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I are avid gamers. We play online all the time and are constantly having conversations with everyone but each other. A habit I've been trying to break with a good walk everyday and outings to get away from our online friends. ...

I kissed a female friend and am now questioning the future I thought I had

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 8 years. We just got engage last year; however our relationship have always been a roller coaster. We have a lot of problems; mainly trust issues. I have found condom with him on several occasions, and his ...

I have been having an emotional affair

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - Mine is related to an emotional affair. I am married andI work 4 hours from home. I have an apartment i maintain 4 days a week. There is a woam I work with, and I am her boss. I am deeply attracted to her. We have gone to lunch, have gone out for ...

HELP! I think my boyfriend's brother has a crush on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 7 months and I love him so much! But we went on a date recently and his younger brother and friend dropped us off. No biggy. That's normal. The real problem was when his brother picked us back up. I was ...

It felt like things were getting back to normal ... but they weren't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - Hello Everybody, Don't know if this is the right place for this, but here goes... I am now 33 years of age and I was with my long term partner for 9 years. Our relationship, I thought, was good. It had its ups and downs like any relation...

How do I let her know what I think of him without appearing to be the home wrecker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - So i have a question and a problem and because I'm so close to the problem i cant see the bigger picture or solution. one of my friends who became my best friend because we both have kids which are 6days apart we both have partners also tho her...

All my mother does is critizise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - My mother is starting to really depress me. I am an emotional person and all she does is argue with me because of my boyfriend. She swears i pick him over her, when in reality all she does is pick fights with us. She stays assuming things and it ...

My guy says he will be dating another girl ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - One day my guy told me he doesn't want to hide anything from me so i should ask me anything. i then asked him what he has been hidding from me and he said a girl asked him to date her so now he's dating her even though he doesn't love her. He said ...

Each thing I say or do he takes the wrong way, it makes me sad

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Hi, I know this guy and it was love at first sight between us. Kinda weird because we never met in real life, and I never believed in love at first sight before him. We were obsessed with each other, always on the phone or videochatting. Please d...

I just see red flags all over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - Okay, so about 10-11months ago my boyfriend dated this girl (let's call her Kate). And so after about 3 months of them dating, she decided to break up with him, because another love interest had come her way, and she wanted the other boy. My ...

I'm worried my girl might start missing her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

30 June 2012 (M) - am i seriously an idiot for getting involved with a woman who has long term relationship prior to ours? She was with her ex for 4 years ! I ask this question because i know most long term relo's turn to rebounds. Are there any ladies out there who ...

I've told him he needs to change ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I can't decide whether to break up with my boyfriend of 7 months. We've known each other for years and have been good friends, although living in different countries (we're still in a long distance relationship). Last year, on a visit to see him he ...

He broke up with me but I know he loves me deeply ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I don't understand. I fell in love with a man 6 years younger than me. He said he was in love with me. Everyone said we seemed happy together - and yet he started to treat me like I was 2nd best and when I asked if he wanted a future with me - he ...

I got a friend to test him and now he has shut me out!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - i feel really bad, my on off partner of 18 years and i were in the process of what i thought trying to work things out. he has always been there for me until i messed up, i played a silly trick on him and now its kind of back fired and he refuses to ...

Do I keep trying, or forget and move on? He treats our relationship like it's a chore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4532 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore. We never really see each and if we do it may be only be once a week. He doesnt call or text me that often (like once or twice a week) and he always wants to hang out with his friends but never mi...

Money and an inheritance is tearing my family apart. How can this be stopped? People are turning on each other in my family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

30 June 2012 (F) - I have a large family of brothers and sisters and both parents. Everyone outside thinks we are really close and get along but we dont. Lately a relation passed away they left all their possessions to half my family who only went to see them whe...

He broke up with me after 5 years, so now we are roomies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - ** This is a very long, detailed story** Less than a week ago, my boyfriend of 5 years ended our relationship. We had a good relationship and seldom argued. We enjoy most of the same things and overall we get along great. Saturday, we w...

I lied to her but I never cheated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - After over 2 years together we hit the biggest of all speedbumps. I was caught texting a girl I used to hook up with. The messages were never out of line, on her birthday and mine we talked a bit. Than my now ex was going to send her a nasty ...

I don't want be pushy for sex, but I also don't want her to think I don't want her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - dear cupid... i am 18 years old and i am dating with a girl for about 3 months. we love each other madly but we both are virgins so when any of our conversations tends to have a sexual content, we both feel awkward and stop ... until now, we have ...

How can this work? He is two places above me at work. He says we can make it work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - My future boss and I met around work and he was always nice, friendly. We joked around bur never really had a serious conversation so I interviewed for his department recently and got it. One night, I was getting a ride from a male co-worker and ...

I'm being ignored by all my friends. So how and why has she turned everyone I used to be close with against me? She's besties with them now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I used to be friends with this girl called X but then we kind of drifted apart but now it seems like every race she has to beat me at, and every guy I like she has to flirt with and make them like her. Everyone I used to be close with she's be...

This hurts me. My best friend of 6 years has turned on me. Why would a friend do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - Hi everyone So i have been bestfriends with a girl for six years. Long story short she stabbed me in the back by turning my other friends on me. Some reasons included: i am immature, i make too many jokes , im too positive, everything you say anno...

How to get past an affair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 June 2012 (M) - If anyone has advice on how to get past an affair, please let me know. It has been 8 years since my wife cheated, and it still feels extremely painful. I can't seem to fully trust her no matter how hard I try....

What to do about my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I am 30, 31 next week. I have this problem with my husband. Saturday night is date night. We went out to eat and then to a movie. He does not do this the rest of the week, but on date night, he is picky about what I wear. When we got to...

Is it fair for my partner to blame me for looking at his emails when I found out he's cheating again?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for two and a half years. We have an 8 month old daughter together. We were starting new and moved recently to a new state because of a job opportunity for him. A few months ago I noticed him acting a ...

My husband had an affair while he was working in a different country. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

29 June 2012 (F) - we've been married for 17 years with 2 kids, we are happy family, but one day i just found out that my husbandhad an affair to the other while he was working in a different country. He lied to me he said he never had anothet girl while he was away ...

Why is it that when I fall for a girl, I get irrational, paranoid, insecure, jealous and sometimes controlling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

28 June 2012 (M) - I think i need some serious help whats wrong with me? I ask this question because it seems that, EVERY TIME i fall for a girl, i become paranoid, insecure, jealous and sometimes controlling, but sometimes i also get VERY DISTANT and quiet, and i...

Can I endure my hellish future in-laws? Is it worth it? Could he do more to protect me from their malice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Hi there, hoping someone can help me... Got engaged about a year ago to X...love him to bits, I've never felt so comfortable or happy with someone. However,his family... is a different story. I'll start off mentioning that his parents spli...

Was this a spiked drink? And why did it not bother my husband that I behaved as I did ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - Me and my husband are marries for 5 yrs now. We have a friend with whom he used to booze during week ends. either we go to his house or he visit us on week end. It's not my habit to drink but some times I join them or when the friend is not availabl...

My boss belittled me about something that frightened me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

28 June 2012 (F) - this is going to sound rediculous and i feel a bit silly to be honest but it has become a huge issue for me at work. im a nurse and i work nights shifts alone on my floor in a small home setting unit. There is always someone else there but th...

Is he messing with me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - well it seems i got a small problem . this guy i had been talking to has decided to contact me again . he decided that he an his son didn't want him to date anyone so i ask him what did he want to do an he said i guess say good bye , his wife died ...

Can I trust him? He clicked like on her profile!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - This is probably going to be the silliest question I've ever asked and I'm a bit embarrassed asking advice on this but the other day my boyfriend " liked " a girls picture on Facebook. He says it was his friend but since then it's made me very ...

I cheated on him and now he has cheated on me, I feel alone and sad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - We are in a relationship living together with one daughter. Known him for six years now. Together for about five of them. Idk where to start my question I guess I feel trapped , and alone. I cheated on him and our cheating/decieveing issues goes way ...

I know she gave her number to a random guy so I want to go with her when the meet

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - ok this is abit of a wierd question Just say ur gf gave her number out to some random dude on the internet and u found out, and they havent met yet, but u forced them to meet , woud it make the situation better or worse? say for isntance, i call...

After five years we just don't talk about 'us' anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - Hello. This may become a bit longer post, I am sorry for this. Help is needed because I'm 26, and I must start to figure out what I'm gonna do with my personal life If I am to do anything at all. Excuse my bad english. Five years ago I had a cl...

Everything I do seems to be yet another painful reminder.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - So here is my situation: I got dumped exactly one month ago, by my girlfriend of two years, who I dated throughout high school and into university. It was completely unexpected,I had no idea what was coming up, she simply stated that she didn't ...

I find boyfriend's friend hitting on me exciting!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - My bf is out of town for a couple months for a job. I'm working and going to school in a town where I really only know people I've met through him. Lately I've been spending time out and about with one of his friends here in town that I think is a ...

I fear she may reject me because of her feelings for her boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - I am in situation where I consider myself deeply infatuated with a female co-worker/friend. We've grown close over the past couple of months and hang out alone often. She has a boyfriend and she sometimes mentions her love for her boyfriend. Here ...

We never have any time to ourselves and I am desperate for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - Hey what's goin on. I need a bit of advice. I'm in a relationship with a little more of a couple years and a half. We both are 18 "high school sweethearts" you may think. But I was wondering if it's normal for an 18 year old to have urges and ...

I'm the listening post the girls come to for advice. Why do they forget all about me after I'm kind to them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - I am the guy that girls go to when they are starting to like a guy and they tell me and ask me for advice. When they get that all figured out and start going with the guy, they forget me and leave me in the dust and act like i don't exist. after ...

I feel like it's a bad idea but ......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - ok I have a situation... I'm just not sure about. I recently started talking to my ex bf again.. he was flirting with me and kinda asked me out again (second time since i broke up with him nearly 4 years ago. lst time i said no after asking friends ...

I'm nervous he will meet someone else! How do I deal with my anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Online dating can be very difficult and if you actually find and meet someone you like makes it even harder. I went out with this guy two times and we both seem to like each other. We had texted and spoke on the phone two weeks prior. I knew he...

I know I care too much about what others think of me. How do I stop caring about other people's opinions of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - Hello people :) this will be a slightly odd question to ask, but how do I stop caring about other people's opinions of me? I have become a much more confident person since leaving home and in the main am comfortable with who I am, who my friends are ...

Five months? Is it too soon to say to her, 'i love you'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 June 2012 (F) - I have been with my girlfriend for 5 months now and i want to tell her i'm in love with her but i'm afraid it may be too soon as 5 months isn't a huge amount of time. I have had feelings for her for a couple of years now as we have been close flir...

Manipulative, not being real? What are the signs that a woman is just using a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

27 June 2012 (M) - What are the signs to look out for that a woman does not really love you but using you? ie for sex, boredem, rebound etc ...