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Archived questions from: November, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

My story of how karma really can bite you. And why empathy is important in relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Well basically I am 14 years old and i would like to share a story which really really changed my way that I view the world and why you shouldn't take people for granted. All names included in this stroy are made up ones. I had a friend n...

Bed bug problem! My boyfriend doesn't believe he has them even though I get bitten!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I have a unique problem. My bf wont support me on bed bug problem and its causing great strain. I mistakenly bought a used mattress a little while back and i started getting bitten all over. I sanitized everything in my place but then I think one ...

I'm having trouble understanding how to make him realize I'm screaming out for love, help and affection?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Dear Cupids, I need a bit of help and dont know where to run. To cut a long story short Ive been with my partner (lets call him Steven*) for 2 and a half years, we have a 9 month old little boy together. During the first month or so a...

Something more or just games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I ment a woman about a year ago, since then we have became pretty good friends. Over the course of the last 3 months we have had several sexual encounters. Shes the type to hide her feelings and play it off like it is nothing. But lately she has ...

I love my GF but I think she is cheating. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - Help needed with troubled relationship should I trust her, do I end it and is she cheating. To cut a long story short I have been with my girlfriend for around 2 years and love her very much we've been through alot together. At first it was gre...

Do I confront, support him, or walk away? My married lover confided he has started meeting men for sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4749 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I need some support! I have had a relationship with a married man for many many years we are very very good friends and occasionally we have sex too which is like the icing on the cake. His wife is sick with MS so please dont criticise me for see...

Why does my girlfriend get jealous over nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4748 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - What is wrong with my girlfriend? She gets way too jealous over absolutely nothing. If I'm with one of my girl friends(Friends who are girls) then she gets jealous when all they are is friends. She has a ton of guy friends but I don't get jealous ...

Why did he do a disappearing trick on me. How would you have handled this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I met a guy a month back in a business meeting and we exchanged numbers then added eaach other on blackberry. we hit it off instantly given the strong chemistry between us! He lives an hour drive away from me, so we were in touch on a...

My boyfriend is abusive. Help, what do I do? Because I'm falling hard for my boyfriend's brother.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - Ok. I am in a situation that I really badly need help with. I have been dating my current boyfriend for 2 years now off and on. The first year was terrible. I always caught him talking to his ex girlfriend. He was telling her he loved her and that...

My lover prefers oral all the time. How can I get him to be less fixated on oral and more on intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - How do I get my man to engage in intercourse at times; instead of oral sex all the time? Am I not doing something I should be doing?...

He's cheated on me over 12 times and gave me a STD. How do I cope with my hurt and the feeling he's going to do it again and soon?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

30 November 2011 (F) - I've been with the same guy for 4 years we have a baby together but in the past 2 years he cheated on me over 12 times. One of the times he gave me an std I found out from his sisters friend because he gave it to her as well. Another time a girl ...

Can someone give me some techniques to just accept compliments with good grace and not feel so undeserving and overwhelmed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I have a really difficult time accepting compliments, and people think I'm stuck up because of it or I seek attention - but really with anything, grades, comments from a professor regarding a great paper I wrote - it all overwhelms me so much and ...

I only lied to avoid a fight. She's aggressive and doesn't trust me. Should I break if off with her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

30 November 2011 (?) - I'm an insurance agent by trade and I sat down with one of my girlfriends friends. I sold her a policy. But recently my girlfriend called her up, and asked her if anything is going on between us. I think it's inappropriate, along with her constan...

Is something changing in me? Am I losing my girlfriend? What is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

30 November 2011 (M) - I am in love with my girlfriend and I can't imagine life without her, but recently I have been noticing another girl, whom I declared to be one of the most beautiful girls I had ever seen many times but never actually felt anything over her. However ...

It stresses me out that he's so close to his female friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Ok here is the deal my boyfriend has this friend thAts a girl and he talks to her alot and I swear no matter what I say doesn't ever feel good enough becuz I have a feeling she'd say it better and I think I am break up with him over her because it ...

How do I get peace of mind about my friendships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I realize that this question might be dificult to asnwer but thanks if you can. I am really a caring person and don't ever want anyone to feel the way I feel, but sometimes I feel all alone in the world. A series of people who I really liked a...

I feel like my LDR is pulling away and doesn't want a baby anymore. I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Im so confused about my ldr boyfriend. Weve been together for almost a year. It hasnt been a great time, certain trust issues and a few arguments. However, I fell in love with him hard. I bent over backwards to make it work. In September I fell ...

He likes "alone time". It's a source of conflict. why do I miss him more than he misses me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - How should I react? Sometimes my bf likes to have his space...there are days when he just wants to be by himself...this hurts my feelings because I can spend 24 hours with him, no problems It is a source of conflict...he says I dont trust him and ...

He would cancel dates and I got mad at him. Does he still care about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i broke up three times and we got back together and for the last two times. We plan to see each other, then when the day comes he will call and make up something, that he cant come over. Then the last time he did this i got mad said...

I have major trust issues because of my ex. How can I ensure I do not ruin things with my new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - Hi there..last year i was very very heart broken. i found out that the guy i had been dating for the past year had been engaged to someone else abroad. he lied to me many times...i genuinely thought he was my soul mate. He has recently split up fro...

What's going on between my B/f and this other girl? Do they have a history? Does he want her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

29 November 2011 (F) - I noticed that my bf has been exchanging messages on fb with a girl he's not friends with on fb. She lives in our area according to her profile. I secretly viewed their messages and it seems that they are not flirting or anything. I'm jealous bc ...

I'm obsessed with my boyfriend's ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4776 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - i started dating my current (and first) boyfriend 7 months ago and everything's great - we love each other a lot, rarely fight, etc. issues started coming up however when i found out that he lied about several random and unimportant thin...

Wife says our courting period was "really short." What did she mean by that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - I have been married for 9 years. Recently, my wife and I were having a deep conversation about the early part of our relationship and she said that our courting period was "really short" implying "too short." We dated for about 8 months before I...

Do you think he could have cheated on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4778 days ago

28 November 2011 (?) - hey everyone I have bi polar disorder and depression and anxiety issues and paranoia...(yeah I know its a big nice gift right?) anyways...I am engaged to my fiance (obviously thats why hes my fiance lol) but lets see...a few months back I found a ...

What to do about his ex over the holidays?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - We're just hitting our one yr mark and he's going to be on holiday visiting family. His ex of 15 yrs and FWB up until we started dating lives near his family. They have always visited and/or hooked up over the holidays. I'm scared to death his ...

I broke up with the woman of my dreams. Why did I do that? What can I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - I'm 33. She is 30. Last year I met her and she was the best woman I have ever met. Gorgeous woman, had her own home in a great part of town, was referring to me moving in with her but for some reason I decided it wouldn't work. I ended up mee...

My wife called me weird for shaving my pubes. I would like to try some new things. I am incompatible with my wife.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

28 November 2011 (M) - Hi, I am a male, 51, married with 2 children (early teens). I am a late developer sexually (I have a tumor of the pituitary gland which slowed me down for years - it was not discovered until I was early 30's although it had been there for many y...

How to make him hold my hand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - This is going to sound stupid but here goes. I'm a teenager. There's this boy I like, and I've only known him a few months but I want to start moving forward with him. I don't want to hurry things though, he always gives me a cuddle as I leave hi...

Is he telling me the truth about working in Porn films? Or just saying it to shock me? How should I react?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - well at this moment in time im very confused! I've been seeing this guy for a while now and i knew he had a bit of a strange past since the beginning! but he has told told me he used to film porn movies and has also had sex with porn stars......

I want to break it off with him. But its like he has me on a leash. How do I find the strength?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4779 days ago

28 November 2011 (F) - Hi I'm 17 and I've been with this guy for about 6 months now. He's my brothers friend, well they're not really friends but they know each other. He was so nice and sweet in the beginning but now oh my god he is the worst. He treats me like s^^t and...

I feel he did not respect my 'No" when he requested anal sex and I have refused that and his other request. I don't know enough about it, like does it hurt?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has recently requested anal sex, and he has also said he would like to ejaculate on my face. When he first asked if we could have anal sex I said no. I have tried it before (not actual sex, but similar) and didn't really enjoy it....

I'm in a panic over his impotence. What would the average person do? Stay or go if their man is impotent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Would you stay with your husband, if he can't get an erection when you try to have sex, and he has no idea why? It started suddenly after a a huge argument, when he said, "I never loved you, I just stayed with you". Then 2 weeks after this, hi...

Why am I the bad guy for leaving? She lies and cshe heated on me 5 times.How do I get her to leave me alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - I have ended my 4 year relationship after catching her cheating for the 5th time. She still tries to contact me, bitterly and never mentions or changes the subject, when i try to tell her why we have broke up. She used to blame me for driving her ...

I can't simply tell her I lied, can I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

27 November 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, really need some help here. My and my girlfriend just got into an argument about trusting each other (I told her I didn't trust her fully because I have trust issue, I told her I had been cheated on- which wasn't true) and I think we ...

I left him because he was depressed and unfaithful. Now he wants me back...what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I recently brokeup with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. Actually this is our second breakup because last year I ended things when it felt like he really just didn't want to be with me anymore. But to my surprise he said he felt the exact opposite and ...

Why do I feel so bad about leaving him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - hi it's my first time posting here! i just wanted to ask is why am i feeling so bad for leaving my boyfriend? we were going out for almost 2 years and i endured his lies secret conversation with girls, secret outings with his immature friends...

Totally and Utterly Love him. But, how do I get over someone I love if it wont work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Hi there just a quick question which i hope you all can help me with. I am totally and utterly in love with this guy, he may or may not like me but i know deep down it would never work as we just dont match. so my question is how do i get over som...

Boyfriend may be cheating on me. What is the best way to confront him and how do I deal when he's denying it or pretending that I made it all up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - I recently discovered that my boyfriend may be caring a relationship with another girl long distance. He is texting a girl in another state and from the looks of the texts, they have some sort of relationship. They call each other baby and tell ...

My abusive husband threatens to label me a bad mother if I leave him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Our daughter is four. the other night I was so ashamed when my little girl tried to stop my husband hitting me. She physically tried to push him away. He is always kind to her and he waits until she is asleep before he starts to be nastier to me. I...

Family keep pushing us together. Yet I suspect he's Gay. Why does he say he'll ask me out when I'm "Free"? I am single.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - So there's this guy right. He's such a great guy, we met actually a year ago yesterday, but I've only seen him a couple of times.. I get really nervous around him.. Why I don't know but I do.. His mom and my sister are friends. Since the first ti...

Will I be single forever? Or are some men ok with a girl being good looking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

27 November 2011 (F) - Hi this is a question for the men. All my friends amd family tell me how good looking I am, but I don't think I am. Men always seem to have a problem with my supposed good looks. Every man I've been out with has broken it off with me. What is it...

Does he like me or not? If anyone could give any suggestions please feel free, as I'm stumped

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I havent used this site in a while now but here goes, i started a new job in september and everything is going good. I have made some new friends which is always a bonus :) but there is this one guy we'll call R, he's really shy but he's good loo...

Three year LDR. It's not working. Should I tell him how I am feeling now, or wait until I get back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4761 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - Ive been with my long distance partner for 3 years. I am travelling overseas and planning to live with him when I get back. But I don't believe in our relationship anymore. I care for him and want him to be happy. I do love him, but we have bare...

I have hero worshipped him for years.Shall I just give up before making a fool of myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I have always been friendly with a man 10 years older than me. I really wish he would see me as more than a friend. He is a single parent with a mixed race son. That is not be a problem to me. When I first got to talk proper with him, he did say ...

I love him. How do I cope with him? Or even move on from my married boy friend, who cheated on me, AGAIN?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - hello aunts, i am still obsessed with my married boy friend who cheated on me 3 months ago. Since then i have been living in tears as i love him so much. I know he is bad, but i cannot make up my mind. He cheated on me even before and i forgave ...

How did he get over our relationship so quickly ? He broke off with me and three weeks later was in a new relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - i was in a relationship for a year with a guy that i was sure i was going to marry. we were talking about getting engaged and looking at rings and everything.well,about 6 months into the relationship,we started arguing about different issu...

How can I avoid an Arranged Marriage? I do not wish it to go ahead. What should be my actions and behaviour in this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - I am getting married as per my parents wish to a guy who is a liar, unattractive, no mannerisms, hypocrite, etc. Worst I get shivering spine when I think I will have to go to bed with him, for which he is eagerly waiting. He thinks himself very ove...

He's controlling. How can I get him to not control my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - X is someone I recently met. He's fun to talk to and we started seeing each other more often. We hung out for a few week and really liked each other. When he was younger he never had a serious relationship except one for 6 months. All the other gi...

Is it just sex to him? Or does my ex really want us back together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - my exbf broke up with me 3 months ago. Tuseday morning he sent me a message said he wanted to talk and apologize, and he insisted he's not drunk. so we went out and grab some coffee that night. and he apologized to me about what he did before a...

I wanted to ask his advice on getting a tattoo. But he didn't want to know. Is he just being mean to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

26 November 2011 (F) - So I've been talking to this guy and everything seemed Like it was going good until today . I texted him and told him I was watching this movie and he said lol I have fun and then I told him it's weird and I need his help he said wish I could ...