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writes:Ok here is the deal my boyfriend has this friend thAts a girl and he talks to her alot and I swear no matter what I say doesn't ever feel good enough becuz I have a feeling she'd say it better and I think I am break up with him over her because it stresses me out that they're so close and talk about everything. :( I hate this someone help me I need advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, advice helps +, writes (30 November 2011):
advice helps is verified as being by the original poster of the questionScaredforlove we've been dating a year and a month and when I think about it all I want to be with is him no one else. And I'm just scared she's better then me and he's going to fall in love with her and leave me because she's better or maybe I'm just overthinking it gwwahh I really don't wanna lose him :/
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reader, ScaredForLove +, writes (30 November 2011):
Okay, I won't be as much help because I am kinda in the same boat.. But i've gotten through it before. Have you talked to him? Sometimes when I talk to my boyfriend it helps. Don't just break up with him because you think they might be closer than you two. Maybe he just isn't totally sure about what he can talk about with you yet. How long have you been dating? Have they been friends longer? My best guy friend always has a girlfriend who suspects us of dating because we are realllly close. Thats just because we have known each other a while and feel VERRRY comfortable around each other. This is probably just gone to your head. Maybe your just overthinking. If you talk to him, and he doesn't help talk to her. If she doesn't help or says they do have feelings then well thats up to you.But I hope I helped a little :) Good luck!
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reader, synchrohobbit +, writes (30 November 2011):
 Do you think he might just be asking her for some relationship advice or maybe what to do to make you happy since he doesn't want to talk directly to you? That would be incredibly mature for a male his age, so it is also possible that he considers your relationship more casual than you do. If it is distracting you from other areas of your life, I would consider breaking up with him. You are at a point in time where boys should be fun but not dominate every thought.
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