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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Will I ever quit feeling like he's hiding something from me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I caught my boyfriend looking at internet porn and some of it was illegal. After confronting him and forgiving him, things seem fine. I am able to search his internet history (complete history, including anything he might delete or look...

Now that I am 25 I'd love to ask out my 37 yo former teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - I'm 25, working in IT, enjoying life. Recently I saw my ex-geography teacher, Jane*, who last taught me at high school 9 years ago way back in 2002. She's about 37 now The last time I saw her - 4 years ago in another town when I was in the p...

Where do I start to meet other gay men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - I'm 23, have Asperger's syndrome, and although I've had some struggles in life, things have got a fair bit better over the past 2 years (well, since November 2008 to be really technical, but...). I find it difficult to make friends, unless ...

How come she has a new guy in her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of 4.5 years split up abaout 2 months ago. We have a 1 yr old son and we started working it out. Things were going good untell she started being mean. Then we didn't talk much for about a week and then I found out she was ...

The day before he told me he loved me, now nothing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I have been in a very toxic, deluded relationship, but got over the guy and started a thing with someone else. A sweet, loving and caring man. Sometimes we had fights, but in general everything was ok. For about 1,5 year. We talked about getting ...

I took him back, but I don't love him anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - I've been with my husband going on 12yrs. this Aug. we been married going on 9yr. we have 4 little boys. what i need is a mans view,we were arguing a lot but nothing serious,or so i thought,well he left me for a girl who ive never met ,but he was ...

Should I move in with her once her husband leaves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - I met that married woman and had a sex with her the same day. Last June we went to vacation together, she came back pregnant had an abortion while still living with her husband. She has told me, once her husband is out I'll be in. The woman never ...

All of my exes have cheated on me so I'm sure my boyfriend is going to do the same thing....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. I have a problem trusting my boyfriend. Not because he's done things but because each and every one of the guys i've been with have hurt me bad! So pretty much im just waiting for him ...

This jealous woman made my life miserable either because she was interested in my BF or because she was not happy in her own life. Thoughts or similar experiences anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Ok so a while ago, my boyfriend started renting a room from a couple (a husband and wife) who were also living at the same property. Everything was fine at first, however things quickly started to go wrong. The couple own the property, the husband ...

I feel that there something going on between my husband and a woman from his work...What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I can't get over the feeling that there something going on between my husband and a woman from his work. They have been friends now for a couple of years but she recently got married and is already having marriage problems. My hus...

Did I sleep with my Bf's brother. I was wasted. But if I did how can I salvage things with my BF?....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - I have been dating my Bf for 6months now and we have been through almost everything in our relationship. Except this. We got drunk one night out on the town and he got picked up, so I took a cab to his family's place which we were staying at duri...

20 year old straight employee got sexually involved with me, took money and favours from me, and now his wife is pregnant and he's changed his job. I feel terribly used, betrayed and hurt

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

30 July 2011 (M) - OK, here's one that has to top it all. I am a boss, I met this straight man 20 years old. I am 50. This is so crazy that it is hard to believe it happened. At any rate, I told him about me, and when I did, he said, well anything is possible for ...

Bf doesn't like me talking to other guys. Is he right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 1 month. We've fought a lot about so many things. Our first year together, I had this one best friend that was a guy and my boyfriend told me to stop talking, so I did. A month later I talked to ...

He's ignored me for two weeks. How can I keep his interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

30 July 2011 (F) - okay so there's this guy he's not the player type. He is usually so sweet to me and we used to talk and text all the time. He recently asked me to go to town with him, just us two, and after we went back to his house. We spent the whole day together ...

I can't get these cruel words out of my head

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 6 months and everything was going great however I did always feel a bit smothered, if I wanted to go out with my friends he ALWAYS wanted to come along. My ex boyfriend is an event ticket salesman and there we...

I don't know why I am with her anymore! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - My gf had a past. she had her ex for 4 yrs. even after being in relationship with me, she cheated me behind my back.she used to enjoy with another guy who was attractive and was her college mate.I made her realise her mistake on time.Now when she ...

I really don’t think he will cheat on me, but there is a nagging worry in my mind. Am I over reacting? Or should I be cautious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi, I am really sorry that this is so long and if anyone does read all of this then I deeply appreciate it. I’ve been with my boyfriend 'Carl' for 11 months now and things are pretty good between us and we’re gonna try and attempt a long d...

Any advice on this situation? because I can't stop these tears from falling, but this isn't the first time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - Hi. Well my boyfriend, who's my ex now, has been treating me terribly. We've been through so much, well i've been through so much with him 'til it doesn't matter what he do, i'll take him back. He has been caught cheating numerous of times, 5 times ...

Do I take heed of the Value Judgements of others? Or can my fiance and I find happiness following our dreams to help others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - im having a bit of a personal crisis in my life right now, this may take a while to explain so bear with me. When i was a teen i had 2 best friends, we had all been home schooled and spent as much time together as we could. that all changed ...

I am faithful to my current Girl friend who means a lot to me. My ex just causes me grief and will not let me see our child. How can I stop my ex hurting us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 July 2011 (M) - hi there im 25 years old. I broke up with my x. After she told me she was pregnant. I am with a new gf now who is 20 and we have been going out less then a year but were living together. i don't see the child because the times that my x gives me...

I think my weight gain could affect my relationship. Can I have any tips to help please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years and he is compeletly honest with me. So when he told me that I was gaining weight.. I was unhappy with my gain ( which I am ) I want to lose the weight but I am 5'2" 20yrs 175ibs I wear a Canada s...

Is a guy cheating if he comes up with a new position after not having had sex for a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - If guy comes up with a brand new position after not having sex for a while with his partner, does it mean that he is cheating and he discovered it with someone else? ...

Fiance made a rather unexpected confession...he slept with an ex in the early stage of our relationship.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - My fiance has made a rather unexpected confession: one of his ex-girlfriends was actually a one night stand AND he slept with her during our early relationship stage (after our 2nd, or 3rd date). I normally wouldn't be upset over this. I do ...

The "Runaway:" is it likely that a person would stay in a relationship for over 4 years if they weren't really interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - Is it likely that a person would stay in a relationship for over 4 years if they weren't really interested? Would a person waste this much time with someone they didn't really want? I was in a confusing relationship for this amount of time a...

We're working on fixing things but his ex is still a big concern for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - I have been with this guy going on two years, living together the last year. We have been described as being "each others opposites." He's very serious, already has his next five years of his life and finances planned out, introverted, and it's such ...

Am I being a drama queen? I threw him about because of his flirting with this girl and his dream about having sex with her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. a few months a go this girl he used to work with text him saying her boyfriend dumped her she'd sent it to her phone book slagging him off so didnt think anything of it .then a few days later when he ...

Whats the problem......why don't I want to have sex? Do I not love him? Am I not attracted to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

28 July 2011 (F) - ive been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months and im a virgin and hes not. im 16 hes 18 (hes not pushy At ALL) im afraid because for some reason early this month i wasnt sure how i felt about him..i was feeling that i maybe should be his friend ...

I cant stop thinking she is going to cheat or something is going to happen with her ex! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I just got with a girl (been together for 4 months) and lately i've been feeling really insecure with her. lately i've been going crazy thinking she is going to cheat on me or if she gets back into contact with her ex. She has a child with her ex ...

He said he was an accident but why was he hiding my little girls underwear in his closet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hey all. I really need some input. Last November...of 2010, my ex was at work. We were together (in relationship) at the time. Something happened while he was at work, to make me want to search his apartment. Can't recall exactly what it was, but ...

I just discovered that my wife has been living a secret life, plz help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My problem is this, i am/or was a happily married man of 22yrs w/3children. We had what i would consider very minor and infrequent everyday life problems that u plow thru as a married couple, like kids,money, etc... I recently discovered that when ...

Does he like me? Or am I getting "played"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - There's this guy. I like him and we hooked up when we were drunk. Instead of us becoming awkward though, we started talking more and got to know each other. I've told him before that I think he was a "player" but after a lengthy discussion, I took ...

How can I help my sister deal with her BF and a potential LDR?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4855 days ago

27 July 2011 (M) - My sister's bf decided that he wants to move away to place A which is in state X. He is from place B which is in state Q. He felt that he was unable to accomplish anything in state Q and he has expressed how sick he was of this state and the people ...

When a man takes longer with sex, does that mean he has had sex recently??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - my boyfriend lives away and we see each other ever weekend, when we have sex he usely comes quick, last weekend i had sex with him and he toke longer than normal, i do trust him but i have heard that when a man takes longer it can mean they have ...

Happened eleven years ago & I am fuming over a stripper, should I let it go??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - i just found out after 11 years, that the stripper cut my soon to be husbands clothes off of him while three of his "friends" (one was his brother and "best man") held him down!! then she had them lay him on the floor while she "danced" over the top ...

Should I take him back after what he did??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my ex boyfriend for 5 months. He was in the army during the week, and during most of the weekends he was home. When he was here in the weekend we spended most of our time together. He was so in love with me t...

He is back in touch with the girl he cheated on his last girlfriend with, what do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Hi i've been in this relationship for 10 months now and everything was going good at the start but he's changed and started to show his true colours... here is the twist he's been in care for 12 years and has been abused by everyone in his ...

No sex and he is in touch with his ex's.....what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - My husband keeps in contact with past wife and girlfriends then tries to hide it. Our sex life is batting zero and has been for the past 2 years. It seems as though he wants to live in his past. What does this mean...

Too good to walk away from

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid I have met a man who I have fallen in love with - and to use an over used cliche, I have never felt like this before. I do not love him, I don't know him well enough for that - but I feel that I could and I want to. I want to show him...

We had split up because he was not serious about our future as I was. Should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - I was talking to this guy for a year and a half. We weren't in a relationship and I was gone for school most of the time. We "liked" each other, flirted etc Eventually I told him to go away since this wasn't going anywhere. After that he says he ...

Struggling to trust him and I don't know if this relationship can be saved......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for one year and 3 months. Recently I had to move back to my home province to get my life sorted out. Our whole plan was that we both get our lives sorted out and go back to school. After we're done school ...

I just want to understand why is he happy and I'm miserable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - For a year I was with a man that I was absolutely in love with. From the beginning there were red flags such as an occasional night of drugs, a recent divorce, little white lies. But then we talked, moved in together, and things seemed to be ...

Girl I have been dating, poses for sexy nude modeling photos on the side. How should I deal with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

24 July 2011 (M) - Hello, Maybe you all can help me with my problem. I am a 31-year old guy, and I recently started dating this very beautiful girl I met randomly in the metro station. She's 26, and works as a legal assistant. But on the side, she models. She hope...

How do I deal with all his past relationships with women....help!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - Hello People, Here i am 22 years and looking for a solution for my love life. Actually i am in a relationship past 10 months with a guy 28 years who was my boss. Now we don't work together. I used to like him previously when i was wo...

Please help, I don't want to get hurt but I really like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - so i have been friends with this guy for a few months he is a really extremely shy guy he knows i like him alot last week i ended up kissing him it was nothing special just our lips pressed together for a few seconds. After he dropped me off at home ...

I am bored and lonely, and the moment I find someone to hang out with while my boyfriend is at work, he gets angry and upset .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

24 July 2011 (F) - Hi, my bf and I had been together for quite some time. First, we were long distance, then I moved in with him about 2 years ago. When I first moved in I didn't have any friends or family. I still don't have any family here, but I manage to find ...

With him 10 year but he's a controlling man... how do I get out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - Hi, my bf and I had been together for quite some time. First, we were long distance, then I moved in with him about 2 years ago. When I first moved in I didn't have any friends or family. I still don't have any family here, but I manage to find ...

How can I stop letting my insecurities get in the way of me dating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - I think I lost a great guy, because of my insecurities, also since I've been hurt before in the past.. I've became antisocial too I'm always home when I do go out its hard for me to meet people and make new friends..I wasn't like this I was the ...

Is he a cheater or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - i been with my boyfriend about 5 years now wwe have a son together ... to get to the point isever since i had my son i feel fat which is normal but i miss beeing in my size 5 pants and i hate wearing size 9 my breast got huge i us to be a c now im a ...

Should I loan him money to get his car fixed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - Hiya uncles and aunts.. Advice me here... Ive been dating this guy for 7months now and things are still great.. Just have a question here... We frim same town but live two diffrent places and we also work at the same company..he has a car so when ...

I'm a gay Latino man. Should I come out to my aunts, uncles, cousins and parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

23 July 2011 (M) - I'm a latino gay man but not out to my aunts, uncles or cousins yet. To tell you the truth I don't think that's their problem. My parents and brothers live in my south american country although I'm out to my brothers but not my parents. They're in ...