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writes:my boyfriend lives away and we see each other ever weekend, when we have sex he usely comes quick, last weekend i had sex with him and he toke longer than normal, i do trust him but i have heard that when a man takes longer it can mean they have had sex recent Reply to this Question
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reader, burberrypie +, writes (20 August 2011):
I can only echo what has been said above, but also consider making it special for him too.. that will help!
Also don't hold on so that you both orgasm at the same time (if that's what you are doing)..my ex did this) and it can actually had a negative effect :)
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 Nope.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (26 July 2011):
 Way more likely would be that he masturbated to last longer, or he was nervous, or he learned some new technique, or he just wanted to last longer, or he was tired, or he had some alcohol, or he was on a new medication, or any other number of things. When people say someone recently having sex can make them last longer they mean within an hour or two. Not within days. This really isn't an indication of anything.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 Not true.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 July 2011):
This is pretty meaningless. There are all sorts of reasons why a man might take longer, and cheating is virtually last on the list. I don't think there's anything here at all that suggests he's cheated.
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