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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 1 month. We've fought a lot about so many things. Our first year together, I had this one best friend that was a guy and my boyfriend told me to stop talking, so I did. A month later I talked to this guy friend about how he's been and such. My boyfriend found out and he got mad and told me to stop. Again I did. This happened a lot and my boyfriend would get jealous because I'd talk to him but I have and never held any feelings for him. The next year in band, my boyfriend would ditch me for girls that are his friends and if I'd say something about it, he'd bring up the thing I did (talking to my old friend without his permission) so I'd just let it be. Now it's summer and me and my boyfriend are doing good. We've almost broken up once or twice though, because he tells me that he doesn't like me talking to guys and that if I keep talking to them, he'll cheat on me when he goes to college in the fall while I'm barely a junior. I initiate the break ups but I end up backing out from them because I realize that I love him and he tells me that if we do, he'll drink a lot so that he won't be able to think about me and that he'll probably drink himself to death. Today, I had gone on facebook and liked one of my guy friend status that said something about two-face people and my boyfriend got mad and told me to unlike it because my guy friend was talking about him. Later in the day I find out that he's friends with his ex on facebook and told him to delete her if he didn't want me talking to guys and he tells me he won't and for me to do it. Guys and girls, what do you think I should do? Who do you think is the bad one in the relationship? Who do you think is the good one? Please help me!
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (30 July 2011):
 You need to leave this guy. You have the right to talk to whoever you want. And when someone tries to stop you from talking to certain people, it's time for them to get out of your life. Don't let your boyfriend control you any longer. Tell him you're going to talk to whoever you want and he has to deal with it, or you're going to leave. And don't back out again because you're being controlled.
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