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writes:My husband keeps in contact with past wife and girlfriends then tries to hide it. Our sex life is batting zero and has been for the past 2 years. It seems as though he wants to live in his past. What does this mean
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011): It means it is time to have an open, honest, non-confrontational discussion with him. If he simply has no sex drive, he should seek out his physician and have routine blood work done to see if a hormone or cardiovascular health problem is causing his problem.
If he doesn't want to talk and doesn't want to see his doctor, then I suggest you find a marriage counselor for you both to see. If he refuses to see the marriage counselor, then go alone. The counselor can help you decide whether the relationship is worth saving.
Best of luck.
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reader, StephJayne  +, writes (26 July 2011):
 It may be good to sit your husband down and talk to him about you feel, ask him why he is keeping in contact with his ex's and why you haven't been having sex.
I find that the best thing to do in any kind of relationship is to talk to your partner, it brings you closer and allows you to share your thoughts and feelings, which may help with things during your relationship.
I hope this helps, and I hope it all goes well with your husband!
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