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Archived questions from: April, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

My Bf is distancing himself from me. He does not include me. Do we have a future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I (23) have been with my boyfriend (22) for one year and three months. We are both graduating from college this May. We have been fighting a lot lately--always about the same thing: I don't think I see him enough, and he thinks he sees me plenty. ...

My purity ring is not stopping me feel so turned on. What can I do to slow down these feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Why am I so turned on when I see my boyfriend? I'm 15, but I've never felt like this before! I know one reason is hormones? Anyways... I've never felt like this with anyone else. It's freaking me out. Maybe another reason is that he told me I turn...

How do I cope with and incorporate my Voyeurism urges into my life? I am monogomous and Happily married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Recently my wife and I wound up in relationship counselling due to my 'sudden' interest in kink (bondage, some S and M, voyeurism etc). Through the counselling I discovered that there has been a whole host of reasons why this came about going way ...

He's ONLY hit me twice recently. But should I end this relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - My partner used to physicaly and mentaly abuse me. it became worse during my pregnancy , and i miscarried. After this he became better for a while and has only hit me twice in serious arguments. i still can't get over how he treated me and even tho...

How do I trust him when he's posting these things on Facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do!I just found out that My boyfriend talks flirtatious to other women on Facebook! One if his comments on his wall says "anyone want to talk dirty" wtf? Then he goes and says that they couldn't handle him and these girls are ...

He had thoughts of his ex, and a missed call from her, should I worry??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend just told me that he thought of an ex girlfrend whom he dint talk to for many years this morning,then when he got home today he received a missed call,he called back the person and it was her...he says it was spooky...y is this ...

Is my husband's relationship with his co-worker appropriate? Or am I over reacting?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I am 61 and my husband is 68. For the past year he has had a close relationship friends he says with a co worker. He lies when she calls because he knows I think it is inappropriate. He hides her number in his cell phone and on one occasion ...

I don't know how far my BF has gone with this other girl, but its killing me. HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I'm devastated. I have an LDR of 3.5 years and we were going to meet for the very first time in July. He went out two nights ago with his cousin and his cousin's girlfriend. His cousin's girlfriend's feelings fluctuates from hating to lovin...

The fact that my GF was not a virgin when she met me, is breaking me down.I cant handle this relationship anymore...

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Ive being going out with my girlfriend for nearly two years now and early on in the relationship i found she wasnt a virgin. This was painful for me to hear for two reasons: 1-I belive that you should lose your virginity to someone you love and want...

Ex girlfriend with roving eyes wants another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - im in a relation with a very cute n beautiful girl since 1 year. only thing i ever told her is not to lie to me. after 3-4 months being together, one day we were going out and i saw her checking out a guy quite seriously. the guy was like a stud....

Should I stick by my GF despite her attitude or should I not bother and go with a relationship that I feel could work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, First off let me set up the situation for you. I have been with my girlfriend now for over 4 years. It has been a rather rocky relationship. a few years back i broke up with her because i felt it wasn't what i wanted. I didnt do anyth...

I'm shy, but how do I make a good impression on this girl I'm crushing on in class?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - There's this girl in my class that I'm crushing on. Sometimes I notice her looking at me and when she notices that I'm looking at her, she looks somewhere else. I'm shy and till now, I haven't talked to her yet. How do I make a good impression ...

Why am I feeling so hesitant about a relationship with this younger guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - I have been chatting with this guy for almost a year. We have seen each other 3 time (he lives out of town). Although, I am still unsure of my feelings for him "I run hot and cold" so does he. We have some sort of connection that brings us ...

Why do so many marriage end in divorce? what can I do to ensure my marriage is as solid as my parents?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Hi all, First off let me say that I'm coming at this from a teenage perspective and as such an outsiders perspective. As you may know the divorce rate in the USA is around 50per cent for first marriages. Though my own parents are not divorced (Ma...

Why can't I form a connection? any tips on how to get past my last relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Just wondering if anyone has had a difficult time forming a connection with someone (a significant other) after ending a bad relationship with a first love? My bf and I were together for 2.5 years, all the while he was cheating on me with other wo...

I always feel people are looking at me like I am weird. Are they? Am I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

30 April 2011 (F) - Hey ,I wonder ,if you can relate to my problem. I feel very judged ,and criticized all the time/ ..I also feel people are looking at me weird on the street. And I feel very uncomfortable, to go out and be on public places. Well, it sounds like s...

Why does she not trust me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

30 April 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly a year now and I really trust her in every way. However she has major trust issues, they are not over anything major but just little things. It gets to the point where she won't leave her phone ...

What can I do to let my husband know I really care about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I dont know what to think about this. My husband got a new job and has been doing this for a month now. His schedule was nice 6.5 hrs a day 6 days a week which is a little over full time. Its exhausting work and he is not supplied with the proper ...

How should I confront my husband about his texting in bed when he thinks I am asleep?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - How should i confront my husband about him texting when he thinks i am asleep? My husband is sending a 'hi' msg on his bbm to his coworker at 12:30 am, while he thinks i am sleeping with our babies. what should you make of it?...

Am I being too naive to be upset about my Gf's attitude to sleeping her way to the top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - So I have been seeing this girl for a couple months and we got to talking recently about our work and job history. she is a decently successful actress in commercials and some background TV spots. now here's the thing: she was a model first, and she ...

I think if this guy was closer my g/f would be with him, not me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

29 April 2011 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now, and i really like her alot. We say we love eachother daily, but i really dont even know what love is. She does alot of shit that bothers me and i can't tell if im over reacting or if im angry ...

I want to study in scotland to be with my boyfriend, but so many concerns. I need some advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

29 April 2011 (F) - I am in a LDR with my boyfriend who is back in Scotland, where is was born. He is 31 and I am 18. I want to go to Scotland to study at University, and also to start a life with him. But i am not sure what criteria i have to meet to do this. And i ne...

Boyfriend has become abusive, we constantly fight and I'm always on edge. What can I do to stop this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi all. I am very upset. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a total of almost 3 years now, but lately we have been arguing a lot. The last heated argument we had I ended up crying on the floor while he made sarcastic remarks about ma...

Does my ex girl friend in the country want to re-visit our relationship, despite our breakup?

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28 April 2011 (M) - Hi, well im looking for some advice about my ex gf. Five years ago i was working in the country for 6 months on a railway and while i was there i used to go into a shop there and i became friendly with the shop owner's daughter. Anyway to cut ...

Should I continue to tolerate my unkind hurtful insensitive boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Honestly I dont know what to make of it. My boyfriend and I just finished making love and he screams from the bathroom "blood". Yes Im in shock I just bled a little from having sex with my boyfriend. It has never happened to me and I expected more...

How can somebody can talk to you the sweetest words on earth and dump you only a few minutes later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi all, I'm really confused and would appreciate every bit of help in understanding my current situation. I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. Things were never easy between us, as he was still in a dysfunctional (as I thought) relation...

Guys, I feel I've been left behind. Do you think anyone could give me some pointers or an action plan to get me connecting with girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 April 2011 (M) - Not really sure what I hope to accomplish with this. If anything it just helps to write it out. Any advice would be appreciated. This really isn't the kind of thing that guys talk to their friends or family about. The thing that's been really both...

Would it be appropriate to confess you like someone in a text message to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - So I've been great friends with this guy. Were not too close though. Were quite comfortable with each other, which scares me at times. We're always playing around like we're kids. Either he starts at me, or I do. He prys into my conversations, then ...

Why do I keep dreaming this lovely dream? Is it simply because I wish that would happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - So my ex dumped me 3 weeks ago. He got depressed about things in his life and as a result said love and relationships are hard work and told me that he no longer wants it. But he wants us to be friends. Im quite devastated I love him so much and ...

What can I do? Really I don't know which boy to choose and I'm feeling so confused by it all.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - So last year this new guy came in our grade. (let's call him guy #1) I got to know him a little better and then he asked me out. I said no because I thought I'd be better if we stayed friends. Well, he just kept liking me for a while. Even this year...

So many choices. who do I choose? The guy I really like? Or one of the guys who likes me?

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28 April 2011 (F) - i really like this guy in my class and he really likes me, but then i found out a few other guys like me, and i don't know what to do about that. And then there is a certain someone at my camp that i haven't seen for a year and i'm afraid that if ...

I'm pretty sure he likes me, I'm shy, but should I ask him? I feel afraid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - Hi, so i really need help here, so please try your best and thanks a lot for the advice. Just the other day my friend thought it would be the perfect time to ask the guy i like, but i have a "shy" problem... I told her i would ask him out today bu...

My boyfriend hurt me so bad! What's wrong with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - my bf has treated me really bad and always tries to control me and makes me cry!.(btw i am 18 and he is 21) One night I told my boyfriend I was busy with alot of homework for school , and that he couldn't come over that night , but that he coul...

I don't feel the love between us anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - I hate the fact that my husband has to work closely with a very good looking, actually hot looking girl. I'm very possessive and jealous type. I ask too many qs to my husband. I'm constantly suspicious. I also have self esteem issue, weight ...

How do I get my boyfriend to open up to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 April 2011 (F) - ok, so i've been dating this guy for about 3 months now. and things are going great. i love him with all my heart, since way before we got together. but, hes gone through a lot in his past, like abuse, and he was made fun of by the kids his age ...

I don't trust my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I will try and keep this as short as possible. In my last relationship, I done something horrific regretted it completely straight away but it happened and there wasn't anything I could do to change it once it had happened. I was dating a pretty ...

Is he into me as a girl friend? or does he just want to make out at his home?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 April 2011 (F) - I've liked this guy for a while now, we talked almost every night, flirted a lot as wel. Last week, we kissed, I completely loved it. However, after we said goodbye he texted me asking me round his house sometime, so we could make-out again. I ...

Is my boyfriend still in love with the deceased mother of his four year old child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 1 year. he has two children from two different mothers. the oldest, his daughter, is 4 years old. Her mother passed away 4 years ago, 11 days after the now 4 year old was born. When this death occured my curr...

How can I determine if my two cousins have the same feelings as I have for them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

26 April 2011 (?) - ok I have these two cousins who I'm attracted to and I think they might think the same. But I am not sure. One is 29 and the other one is 21.I'm 28. I am really close to both of them. I mean we can talk about anything. Relationship problems...

How to prove that I am innocent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - We know each other from 1 year. we were in physical relations, but now he thought that I cheated him, actually he got a CHAT history from my mail account, but it was not made me, but i fail to prove that, so now we are not in contact, I tried lot to ...

He lied to me about spending the day with another girl, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4962 days ago

26 April 2011 (F) - Hi i've been with my boyfriend 7 months. I've always had a problem with this girl, who's legally his auntie, but from his step-dads family. She's only 13/14 ish and my first impression of her was not good. She just sat looking at my boyfriend the ...

My family has moved many times. Is it normal to not have many lifelong friends when this happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - Ever since i was a young lass my family has moved around a lot. Therefore I don't have any lifelong friendships with anyone outside my family. I'm 24 now and have been settled in the same city for the last 7 years. I made what I thought were goin...

She's a vast improvement to my last GF. Am I being paranoid? Worrying that she'll become like my last Gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (M) - Hello all, and thank you for reading this in advance. I feel like a rather foolish boyfriend. You see, 2 months ago I ended a rather horrible relationship. My girlfriend treated me like garbage. She put me off for her friends, ignored me, and woul...

I have doubts about my boy friend. He hasn't told his other girl friend about me. I love him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - i'm 20 years old . i need help, because my boy friend told me that he hasn't told the mother of his child about our relationship. He says if she found out about us she would expect him to pay child support to her. i think he still with the ...

Five months and we are bickering and he says I don't 'know' him. How do I learn to know him better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months and he feels like I don't know him. About a week ago I tried to give him a nice chain but he rejected it handed it back to me, and that hurt my feelings a lot. I would have thought that it shou...

Is she a 'keeper' as a friend or is she likely to cause me pain in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I befriended, someone i went to school with through facebook. We soon became close friends, until we both got are wires crossed and lost contact. We sorted out the misunderstanding and rekindled are friendship. Although since we got back in cont...

How will my Bf react if I tell him I want a threesome, with us and his twin brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I want to have a threesome with my boyfriend and his twin brother. I'm so in love with my boyfriend, we have been in a relationship for 6 years and just a few months ago his brother came from italy and he was totally different, i want him but just...

Do I come out to him? I haven't confirmed if he's in the closet yet. I don't want to lose contact with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (M) - If you have read my other posts you know my story, but to sum it up I am a 17 year old bisexual male. This guy and I have been friends for a while and have been growing closer together and are on the verge of starting some kind of relationship. My ...

My 'always tired' boyfriend looks at porn all day while I work. Is it time to leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4963 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together four years in May...now i'm starting to feel like i should leave him, because we hardly ever have sex i love him more than anything but i'm starting to get irratated at him.. he's always like i'm tired......

Oral Sex Can Be A Sharing Experience - Swallowing IS Equal...

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

25 April 2011 (F) - I am in my early fifties and my man is as well. We've only recently become intimate and I was not involved with anyone for a few years prior. So, I had a long time to think about sexuality and what I would do when back into it. My thoughts are tha...