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writes:I will try and keep this as short as possible.In my last relationship, I done something horrific regretted it completely straight away but it happened and there wasn't anything I could do to change it once it had happened.I was dating a pretty amazing guy for about 7 months, we'll call him 'Henry', and kissed my ex boyfriend 'Charlie', I still liked him but had kept it a secret even from him and 'Henry' even from my best friend because I really didn't want 'Henry' to find out but 'Charlie' used to tell me he still liked me and he was stupid for breaking us up and stuff like that.When we kissed I got very upset and ended up telling my best friend who made me tell 'Henry' because she thought it was better if he knew. After about a month of him not being the same with me, which I understand, the trust went totally out of the window, which I also understand, so we broke up.After about 5 months after me and 'Charlie' ended up back together, I'm still with him now and I'm really happy when I'm with him feels so magical but there's one thing, I don't trust him at all. when I'm not with him I always feel like he's with another girl, he switches of his phone a lot, and I've been told by an old friend he was texting her saying stuff to her 'he wouldn't suggest doing with me' (from her)And also I know he's been texting another girl who I feel is so much better than me but that’s my opinion, Do I not trust him because of my own actions?And is there anything I can do to trust him again?Help me please, thank you for reading. :) 3
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (28 April 2011):
 There's nothing YOU can do to force yourself to trust him. He has to have earned your trust by now and if he hasn't, I suspect this relationships will struggle.
You are still at a young age and boys in that stage of life will always falter and most likely fail you when it comes to relationships, not all of them but, most. I wouldn't be surprised if he was actually with another girl. Just be careful.
I hope that helps.
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