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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

What do you say to a girl who thinks you only like her for her breasts? And how to ask her out if you can't breathe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - If a girl thinks you only like them for their breasts what would you say to them? How do you ask out a girl when you can't breath around them? ...

I don't know how to stop being insecure with my boyfriend!

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31 August 2010 (F) - hi hope you can help. i dont know how to stop being insecure with my boyfriend. weve been together for seven months and we get on really well. he treats me realy nice , but lately the last month im getting worried when he goes out that he'll meet ...

How do I get close to him physically?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I’ll start this problem/question with a little background history! My best friend, let’s call her Beth, has a strange family. Strange, but amazing, and I love them all - and in turn they love me. I’ve had my own bed in their house before, be...

How to get him out of my brain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Cutting a long story short.... my now ex broke up with me out of nowhere in a pub in front of all his friends (nice) and didnt speak to me for 2 weeks. When he finally did he thought i would fall at his feet and get back with him, as much as i ...

We're getting serious, but I have questions about her past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - First off, I'd like to like to state that being as this is anonymous I want to be as honest as possible. Sorry if i sound like an ass or not.. and honest / constructive feedback is appreciated! I have a girlfriend I recently met about 6 mon...

I want to divorce him but I feel guilty for not trying!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband since early 2008 and we have a 2 year old son and when i was pregnant i set up a fake profile of this 'hot' chick to test him. It was sneaky but all he had to do was say 'thanks but no thanks, my partner is pregnant' etc, ...

Don't want the problems from my past relationship to follow me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I just got out of an intense relationship that lasted off and on for almost two years. The man I was dating and later engaged to was ten years older than me and was sometimes verbally abusive. At the end of our relationship I found out he had a ...

Why is he saying he doesn't deserve me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years and recently he has been sayin that he doesn't deserve me. He keeps saying that I should break up with him and everything. I don't know if he doesn't love anymore or he wants to find some one new....

My boyfriend does not trust me and is rushing me into sex with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I am 15 and I have a boyfriend who is 16. We have been togther for 5 months and he means the world to me and he always tells me that he cant even imagine living without me. We are pretty close and comfortable with each other; we have the kind of ...

Difficult relationship with plenty of love and lack of trust!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend some time now and 99.9 of the time we are perfect. Were both young but very much in love. I'd do anything for him and he'd do the same for me but the crowd he hangs around with are not very reliable. A few of them have ...

I should not get back with him right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I'm getting confused over my ex boyfriend. We broke up back in April, and got back together for like 3 days in May. Ever since, we've been broken up. During our almost 4 year relationship, we had many problems, because he was jealous of my past. Due ...

Incredibly complicated question

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - [MOD NOTE : OP's OWN TITLE] Hi all i'm a 27 year old man, 6 weeks ago my girlfriend of 5 years and I broke up, no particular reason, we hadn't been getting on for a few months, weren't looking forward to seeing each other and weren't enjoying each...

Should I be the sneaky boyfriend or trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I have a problem! Here is the story. I have known this girl for 6 months and became an official couple in early July and we're currently still together. When I met her she said she was seeing someone and was trying to get over this person, this ...

Will my friend ever end her bad relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - She is in a rocky relationship. In a relationship with her bf for 5 years. Broke up but patched countless times. She had cried, being emotionally hurt in this relationship A month back, she cried because of this relationship. She tells me he is very ...

I just don't trust her, I hate her past, I am miserble all day long and cant stop thinking about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - (im sorry im not the best story teller) My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1 1/2 years now. Im having trouble trust her and also cant stop thinking about her past! Its in my head all day long it drives me nuts. We are both 20 we have a 3 month ...

Does not sleeping at the same place while on vacation mean that he is sneaking out and about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My bf and I visit our parents once in a couple of months.. The thing is that every time we come down to visit our parents we go apart. Right now we came for 10 days and I am staying at my parents and he is staying at his parents. My bf says that ...

My Boyfriend wont change his facebook status to "in a relationship"

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Living in this era everyone who is in a relationship would like to put their relationship status as in the relationship with your partner right? I have been with my boyfriend for 6months now and whenever I ask him to declare as "in a relationsh...

I have fallen in love with my ex wife's cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - I am stuck between a rock and a hard place. I am a divorced man 38 yrs old with 2 great kids. I have been divorced for 10 yrs. I have recently fallin in love with my xwifes cousin. I feel My xwife has turned my kids against me. We stopped seeing ...

Do I trust her? She cheated on me 4 times in the past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - Hi guys, got a bit of a dilemma. Basically, me and my finacee have been together for about 2 years. We split up for a while about 3 months ago and the we reconciled. However, during this time she was involved with someone else. We have spoke ab...

I still can't stop obsessing over the past girls he's slept with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been official for 5 months, but have been "involved" for over a year. Before we were together, we had a fair amount of issues regarding other women and him lying. Ever since then, and even after we've become official, I still ...

What did he mean by "kind of" married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I work at a hospital. There is a doctor there that has caught my attention. He is so handsome that i dont care what he does- - i just want him. Today, i was cleaning the sleeping area for doctors when he came out the room and started adjusting his ...

I'm crazy about this boy, but my cousins keep trying to steal him from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5181 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Ok so there's this guy I'm crazy for and I'm not sure if he likes me back and my cousins keep trying to 'steal' I'm from me . And me and him are going to the movies to see the last exercism which should be great. But everybody is fight for him and ...

This is just a complicated mess!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5229 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Hello, I am a 24 year old male and my boyfriend (25) broke up with my for another guy (28) about 3 weeks ago. We are all bisexual. His new guy is in an "open" relationship with his girlfriend of 6 years and they also have a 3 year old baby tog...

My boyfriend has pictures of naked girls on his phone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Long Story: Please Help! so on thursday that just passed me and my boyfriend were hanging out and me being a girl went through my boyfriends phone and i went to his images and i saw something very surprising i found 2 pictures of a naked ...

We fight we lie, we make agreements and break them

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - is it normal for me to have an argument with my boyfreind and then tell him im cheating on him and he keeps cummin back to me . then we have an agreament that we wont go out without eachother cus i am scared hell get with other people but then i ...

Pregnant and the father is cheating and unsupportive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Ok, I'm 22 and pregnant with twins. I also hav a 8 year old son. Right now my life is crazy,and I'm hoping not 2 lose my mind. My boyfriend at first was there 4 me. Now that I'm 4 months pregnant he jus doesn't care at all. He's cheating, doesn't ...

She claims she only lied the 3 times I found out about it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - Sorry for length :( Alright, SO I was with this girl for 1 and a half years. She was my first love and I really did care for her. About 8 months into it I had found out in the previous months that she had messaged a guy"J" on facebook and g...

Why do guys feel the need to lie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - Ok,so i just started dating this guy. Granted I have been seeing him for almost two years, but we finally said we would try a "serious relationship". Everything was going good, up until a few days ago, when we had a date planned. So he calls in ...

Our baby is 6 months old and my girlfriend wants another

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 August 2010 (M) - hi my GF is wanting another baby but i dont know what to do as. 1. neither of us have jobs 2. she has realy bad PND 3. finds it hard to cope with our son 4. i think she also had PTS 5. doesnt do much with our son now 6. our son is currently 6 m...

I wonder if there is a future for me with this man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - i've been in an relationship since October 2009. I'm white, and my boyfriend is from Bangladesh. I love him deeply, he's the most amazing person I have ever met, he always makes me laugh,he's so sweet and kind it's almost unbelievable. but i have ...

Is he cheating? Is she trying to wait for her chance to be his girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 August 2010 (F) - (OP's suggested title) Hi Everyone,I could really use some help, thanks in advance. One of my boyfriends best friends is a girl who he used to be mad about and once slept with. He told me when we got together (2yrs ago) that it was kind of importan...

I've been hurt so badly and don't want to get hurt again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

28 August 2010 (M) - Okay, I'm 16 almost 17 years old. I'm breaking down more than ever right now. I've been in two past relationships that were both ended horribly. When I was 13 my first ex decided to treat me like crap and never want to do anything and then have se...

How do I forgive her and trust her again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5236 days ago

28 August 2010 (F) - My lesbian girlfriend of three years cheated on me with my male friend who was staying with us. I will never talk to him again, but i'm still with her. I understand why she did it and i want to forgive her and trust her again but I'm really ...

My Ex-Fiance left me but I want her back!!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

27 August 2010 (M) - we were engaged for about 2 years and we were together for 6 years and one day my fiance just told me that she could not be with me anymore because of trust issues. i was devastated i couldn't eat i couldn't sleep i was so depressed i had moved all ...

Am I an idiot?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

27 August 2010 (F) - All right, here goes... [before I begin, let me say...excuse my novel. ;]] I've actually been debating doing something like this for the last month or so. This isn't exactly something I want to discuss with the people around me who know both ...

Father was jailed and now back to his old ways

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27 August 2010 (F) - my father was in jail for 16 years and just got out a few months ago and is back to his old ways again. I'm scared to lose him again. we just started reconnecting after i stopped talking to him. He does not realize why I'm so upset with him. i told ...

Boyfriend has just lied to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Im shocked! I've never doubted anything he has ever said to me as always felt he was an honest guy but hes just lied to me! Hes been away since Monday on a work trip. He lives 2 roads from me so i drove past wed pm on my way back from the shops a...

I need some reassurance, please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Im so scared of losing my partner! He is so perfect and I love him lots but everyday I think what if its the last day I'm with him what if he leaves. He is the most perfect man on earth, he is loyal , loving and makes me feel special and I do not ...

Should your boyfriend be able to hang out with girls alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - Should your boyfriend be able to hang out with his friends that are girls by there self,is it a big deal,an should I be worrying. I want replys from both male an female points of view thank you! ...

My heart is telling me he didn't cheat, but my mind is telling me I may be stupid to believe he didn't

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - I need help. My boyfriend and I are in a very serious relationship (We are planning to get engaged soon, he has a ring and everything). And last night when I was leaving his place, I was confronted by an older woman who stated that he has been ...

My husband wont explain about these unusual phone calls and is trying to turn the argument around on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - While paying our phone bill I noticed some calls at odd times (2:30, 5:00 am) from a weekend my husband was away with the boys. The calls were to and from the friends he was supposedly with. He previously told me they went out, got home around 2:30, ...

I need to know, does he still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for so long, we met over the internet at the beggining of 2008 and we met face to face on 14th august 2009. we have been through so much. we have so many memories. we go different places, especially because he ...

Is it ok for my husband to be friends with a woman he used to chat to online before we were married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5237 days ago

26 August 2010 (F) - My husband and I met two years ago on the internet and we got married.We are now expecting a baby very soon. Everything has been going well and he reminds me each day that he loves me and he says he is very happy am his wife.He told me there wa...

Am I just insecure, or is he hiding something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - well I've been involved with this guy for like a year and a half but have known him for almost 3 years.. ive wanted him since before we were together and i love him very much but im not sure if he loves me like he says he does.. it has been such a ...

I thought he might be controlling, but I'm having trouble letting go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 6 years, we recently broke up. When we first started I was in the process of a divorse. He used to be really mean to me, called me names, accused me of sleeping with my ex or anyone else for that matter. We had a ...

I'm fine with him watching porn but he lies about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Ok, so its my first time writing on anything like this, but I've talked (complained...whatever) to what seems like a hundred people and I feel like I need some sort of advice as to what on earth to do! Here goes. I have been with my boyfriend f...

Threesome with my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - My Boyfriend of 1 year told me his fantasy would be to sleep with 2 girls at the same time. i would like to fulfill his fantasy, but at the same time, i dont want to watch him have sex with another girl. and i know i will probably get jealous if ...

He locks up his PORN!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - My lover lives abroad but we see each other as often as possible. However there is something that bothers me about him, he keeps his porn actually locked in a drawer and wont let me see it (although he did once ask if I wanted to watch a porn film ...

He broke up with me and I really want him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 August 2010 (F) - Okay so i have a really complicated situation.. a month ago my boyfriend (18) broke up with me (16) because i got 'too close' to another guy who just happens to be one of my good friends. I tried to explain to him that nothing happened but he said ...

Should I be worried about my girlfriend and her male friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5238 days ago

25 August 2010 (M) - Myself and my girlfriend are in our thirties and have been together happily for 3 years, living together for the last two. About a year ago she made a new male friend through a mutual friend. At first I didn't mind, but he lives in a differen...