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writes:While paying our phone bill I noticed some calls at odd times (2:30, 5:00 am) from a weekend my husband was away with the boys. The calls were to and from the friends he was supposedly with. He previously told me they went out, got home around 2:30, and went to bed. I got a weird feeling about it and decided to ask him. He got so mad and asked why i didn't trust him. I told him I did trust him but had a feeling he was keeping something from me.I admit that I definately looked at the usage on the days he was away but never expected to find what I did. Now he's not talking to me and said from now on I'll pay my own phone bill.In all our arguing about it he never explained the calls and seems like he's trying to turn it on me.What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010): if you are the same person who wrote in recently regarding your husbands boys week end away and possible/ unexplained absence away from his mates , i have something to say:
i am glad you confronted him.
his anger
his "threats" regarding trust
now he wants to pay his own phone bill
without giving you any explanation, all amounts to what you already suspected the firt time.
he is cheating hun, sorry. what are you now going to do?
-LoveGirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): My personal experience is: if they turn the conversation into an argument and blame YOU, they are lying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): this screams guilty to me. I understand that you got a little curious and looked at the usage for when he was away but I think thats normal - at the end of the day, people can always tell you what you want to hear, no harm in reassuring yourself. I think you have a right to ask what these calls were, after all, he would expect the same from you! It could be totally innocent that he got back later than he first told you, probebly to save you from worry and suspicion. You should explain to him what these late calls are making you think and see what he says to that. Good luck!
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (26 August 2010):
 Sounds like you don't trust him at all. Why were you checking the bill in the first place? has he done things in the past?
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