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anonymous
writes:Im shocked! I've never doubted anything he has ever said to me as always felt he was an honest guy but hes just lied to me! Hes been away since Monday on a work trip. He lives 2 roads from me so i drove past wed pm on my way back from the shops and his car was outside the house so thought he must have taken a taxi to the airport. Then went past again last night and the lights were on in his living room.... I thought this was strange and that he must be back and i could not actually remember when he said he was meant to be back so i texted him saying hi and how was everything going.... no reply.Today I drive past and his car is not there like he's gone to work. So I call him an hour ago and he answers and were chatting away and he says he is on his way back from the airport as he just got back? I asked if he was in his own car or a taxi and he said he went in his own car. Right now im totally confused and I think he must have come back last night but doesnt want to tell me that. The only reason I can think of is that we had provisionally made plans to do a meal thing tonight and I think he wanted to do a work out/ run (hes got a big race in a few weeks) so didnt want to break it to me it was not happening.Im not sure what to think now... yes we all tell white lies now and again but this has really shocked me and hes not normally like this. He wants to hook up at the weekend and do something but Im not sure now how i feel?
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reader, xXJDXx +, writes (26 August 2010):
You need to go over or call him immediately! Explain to him your FULLY AWARE he IS lying to you. Explain how you saw his car outside an lights in ect and get an explanation.
There is the chance he said it to have some time apart but if I were in your shoes alarm bells would certainly be ringing, you need to be cautious with him now.
If your worried he may be cheating.. When you confront him also add the small detail you saw "her" through the window as you drove past. Make sure you take him by surprise with it so he has NO WAY of thinking up any lies.
Good luck hun, please post an update.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010): i think you should confront him maybe he has a good explanation & tell him that you saw his car outside his house and the lights on maybe he will tell you the truth
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reader, BloodiedAzalea  +, writes (26 August 2010):
I would be careful before you do anything that might ruin things. Like you said, he may have had his reasons, and while he should have told you the truth, you should confront him and ask for an explination. Try ti figured things out, go to a restraunt or something, and give him a chance to be honest with you. If he continues to lie, then I would break it off before he can hurt you more.
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