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Archived questions from: March, 2018 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

What do you do when a relationship has become boring?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2430 days ago

31 March 2018 (F) - Hi what do you do when a relationship has become boring I’ve been with my fiancé for 4 years we never do anything together in that time we’ve been out for 6 meals and that’s it he never wants to do anything he gets stoned every day all day he was a ...

I don’t want to deny him sex but how do I get my feelings across?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2430 days ago

31 March 2018 (F) - I have been with my bf now for 3 months and although he is 12 years older he can be romantic. He is African american and I'm Canadian (when we are not making love). But he can be a bit of a control freak when it come to our love making. He says what ...

It feels like shes using me. Is she?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2428 days ago

31 March 2018 (M) - We're dating for a few months, I'm 31 she's 22 last night she asked me to pick her up at her house and I didn't want to because I just don't want to get out of my house and as she lives far away I'm not into it driving right now, just a lazy day, ...

I'm not feeling the love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2433 days ago

31 March 2018 (F) - My boyfriend says that he loves me but I don't feel the love. I work and go to school and he has a full time job. I make time for him. I have a longer day than him where I get home around 12am to only get up at 6am. He still wants me to plan out ...

I always hurt my girlfriend unintentionally

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 973 days ago

31 March 2018 (M) - hi, I have been dating this girl whom I love and adore a lot. The thing is for the past few months, I hurt her always unintentionally. I care about her but she thinks it's not enough. I get angry easily when she picks fights over silly things tha...

He broke up with me but I'm worried he will hurt himself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2433 days ago

30 March 2018 (F) - I met a guy 16 months ago and fell instantly in love , although I felt he was too young and good looking for me he suffers ptsd and seemed to need me . He had no money and was struggling with breakdowns etc I helped him loads with money etc . He ...

Exes, babies, sex and love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2433 days ago

30 March 2018 (F) - Hi all, I need advice. I am so confused. I am a 30 year old female in a 2 year relationship with a great guy who is just 6 years older than me. Prior to this relationship I was in a 10 year relationship with a lovely man who was 16 years older t...

I wasnt able to get off during sex, want to break up but feel I cant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2434 days ago

29 March 2018 (M) - Okay so to start from the beginning, I met this girl on tinder about a month ago. Lets call her Amy, Amy and I finally met in a coffee shop after two weeks of on and off chatting. She is really cool, we are basically the same person but different ...

Why my brother is giving me silent treatment ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2434 days ago

29 March 2018 (F) - I am sorry ..i know this is a forum where people only discuss about their love problems. I have been a part of this forum for a long time..My issue is related to my family so i decided to share it here only.I don't know whether i am allowed to do ...

I feel like I am being pressured into having sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2430 days ago

29 March 2018 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together about 2 years now, at first we were having sex all the time whenever possible, as it usually is when youre with someone new. Now it has calmed down a bit and I am completely okay with that but he is not. Its ...

Am I right to not trust him? Can a marriage survive on no trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2429 days ago

28 March 2018 (F) - I've been married for 12 years, have 2 beauitful children. Recently found out that a woman my husband works with has a crush on him. They've worked together for 18 months but I was led to believe that they just worked for the same company, in...

Anyone have friends or family who knew of your partners affair and DIDN'T tell you?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2435 days ago

28 March 2018 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2008 till now we still ...

Should I keep trying to work things out after my girlfriend cheated on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2436 days ago

26 March 2018 (M) - Kate and I started seeing each other two years ago, February 2016. We liked each other a lot... we had unprotected sex on the first date and saw each other 2-3 times a week for about four months. Usually we would visit a museum or show, wander about ...

Am I wrong to not be friends with my ex because he’s re-established contact with the woman he was hitting on behind my back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2435 days ago

26 March 2018 (F) - My ex and I broke up about two months ago because he's moving away. Now, in the beginning of us dating and getting to know each other we had an issue with him talking to and hitting on this one girl behind my back. I ended it with him when I found ...

My boyfriend wants me to take a lie detector test because his brother says him and I had sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2438 days ago

25 March 2018 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now whom I love dearly. I’m 28 and he’s a year older. We live together. So my boyfriend wants me to take a lie detector test because his pathological liar of a younger brother said that we slept togethe...

Was I unreasonable in not accepting my ex boyfriend's friend (female)?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2436 days ago

25 March 2018 (F) - I had a row with my boyfriend and we broke up last year. I am torturing myself every day with the thought that I was unreasonable and it was my fault. I cannot move on in my mind. I am replaying the whole relationship over and over. My issue was ...

He has a girlfriend but he took my virginity and I think he's the "one" for me

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 2426 days ago

25 March 2018 (F) - Hi, I’m in love with a taken guy. We’ve been through so much together. He took my virginity, we fell asleep together, and his mom absolutely loves me. She’s constantly asking about me and says that I should come over more. BUT, he has a girlfriend. ...

I believe my friend is acting strangely after the death of an aquaintance She's acting as though she lost her best friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2440 days ago

24 March 2018 (F) - I’m looking for some advice on a delicate matter. Recently, an acquaintance of mine passed away. She was a good friend of my sister but I only saw her a few times a year at occasions such as weddings or leaving parties, so we weren’t close al...

How can I deal with this drama at work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2440 days ago

23 March 2018 (F) - How can I deal with this drama at work? I have been at my job for a year now (big corporation) office type of environment - really Quiet I work in HR. We sit in cubicles and the people areoinf me (two male coworkers) are VERY noisy. We had a ...

My husband is too stressed for sex but not too stressed for porn.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2434 days ago

23 March 2018 (F) - my husband (together total of 5 years) and I have sex maybe once a month. He says it's because stress of work that hes tired etc - he does have a stressful job working for himself and working long hours. But he masturbates 1-3 times a day to p...

I can't make sense of her behavior and it's killing me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

23 March 2018 (F) - I'm in a really bad place after a breakup and I need some help. What started off as friends with benefits close to 3 years ago eventually turned into a relationship about 9 months ago. It has been plagued with some issues here and there that h...

I think my girlfriend is too promiscuous to me. Break up?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2440 days ago

22 March 2018 (M) - Dating for a few months I'm 30 she's 22, yesterday I found out a lot of pictures of her with her ex on her facebook from a few years ago. I asked her why she keeps them and she said she forgot to delete and that doesn't make any sense since they're ...

I don't feel like a partner when my husband fails to keep me informed of the finances

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2440 days ago

22 March 2018 (F) - been married 22 years husband always pays the bills rent etc. we have separate accounts and i can check his one when i want but dont bother unless i really feel i need to. found out when we moved in 5 months ago he hadnt been paying the poll tax. ...

I’m having mother-in-law and financial problems, am I doing the right things to deal with them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2437 days ago

22 March 2018 (F) - Hi everyone.. i need some opinion on what happened right now. I need advice and opinon as much as possible as people has various personal opinion which i need right now. Currently 3 months pregnant and this pregnancy brings changes a lot fo...

My FWB wants a break and I don't know why.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

22 March 2018 (F) - Hi, my friends with benefits recently told me he needs a break. Apparently he's mad at me because I called when his soon to be wife showed up at his house to discuss the divorce. I did't know she was there. We talk every day. We lived together...

I don’t want to hurt this new man, and I also don’t want to wind up in a controlling relationship! Advice please!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

21 March 2018 (F) - Hello, so I have two questions, both are related. First a bit of background, I was in a relationship with (and married to) a man who ended up being a narcissist and was abusive. (verbally, mentally, sometimes physically) We were together 7 and half...

Can you love someone and stay safe if they have an issue with truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2442 days ago

21 March 2018 (F) - With same guy for 5 years and he has a history of always underestimating his financial matters (tells me he owes less than he does on cards, etc.). I have a nice nestegg I've built by working my whole life and saving. I'm a few years from retirement ...

With all the blocking and unblocking on social media, I don't even know what to expect anymore

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

21 March 2018 (F) - So I've been seeing a guy for about three months now. The relationship was wonderful. We were both falling in love and had so much fun together. We met each other's friends and family and seen each other just about every day. A week ago we got into ...

My husband had an affair and now I can't sleep with him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

21 March 2018 (F) - MOD NOTE: two questions combined into one Hi everyone. I've been married for nearly 6 years. We have a three year old son. Last year my husband and I had some issues where I focussed too much on one my hobbies and spent less time with him. He t...

I feel betrayed, every guy I like my best friend gets!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2442 days ago

21 March 2018 (F) - Why do I feel so pointless? How come no guy ever likes me? So these questions started to arise after this guy who I liked who I told many time asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said no and asked why do you care and he said I’m jw I don’t like u ...

My love life is just a big mess.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2441 days ago

21 March 2018 (M) - My girlfriend and I were dating for just over a year and we were so happy together, but the last few months of us dating were just filled with arguments. Those arguments were mainly about her parents as they are extremely controlling and they were ...

I'm feeling under pressure and trapped.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2438 days ago

20 March 2018 (M) - Hi all, I have an issue really bugging me at the moment and beginning to stress me out. I'll give a little bit of backstory: I'm 26 years old, recently gotten together with my first ever GF and everything was going swimmingly and I was very ...

Is it possible to save my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2442 days ago

20 March 2018 (F) - Hi.I have been married scince 4 years.But it was not a happy married at all.my husband is 35 years old immatured egoistic guy.he really don't know the meaning of marriage.he try to share everything.household expenditure,if he buy furniture then you ...

My ex has said sorry after many years, but I want her to apologise for more!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2442 days ago

19 March 2018 (M) - My ex apologised in a MSG many years after we broke up but all she said was sorry things were said. A lot more than things were said and I'm not an emotional person. She went out of her way to get to me on numerous occasions because I wasn't b...

The only time my girlfriend has orgasmed was with an ex boyfriend.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

19 March 2018 (M) - We're together for a few months, our sex is great but she can't orgasm with me. I asked her why and she said she can't orgasm and that she had just one orgasm in life once with other guy in the past. I'm very jealous and insecure about that and d...

I resent his laziness! What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2444 days ago

19 March 2018 (F) - Hey everyone I have been with my partner now for 4 years everything was fine up until we moved in together I have now came to realise how lazy my boyfriend is I mean he doesn’t do anything he doesn’t work he sits around the house all day on his ...

I’ve messed up the relationship with my siblings and am heartbroken. Is there any solution?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2444 days ago

19 March 2018 (F) - My heart is breaking. I feel so left out in my family and so envious of the closeness between my brother, sister in law, sister and bro in law. I’m the oldest, bro and sis younger, bro 3 yrs younger, sis 8 yrs younger. Both are married,...

My boyfriend is telling another girl she should marry him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2445 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Hi my boyfriend is deployed for 7 months in Latvia. I felt like he seems distant. I opened his Facebook I saw that he’s messaging one girl, he was telling the girl that he will send a letter to her and by the time that girl is 30 she should marry ...

How would a cheater act if he were cheating on you?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2440 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Hi please can people give me some idea of how someone would act around you if they were cheating on you I have been with my fiancé now for 6 years we have a 3 year old daughter we’ve been having sleep issues with our 3 year old daughter so my ...

I wish I could find a big "jock" guy to treat me as this man does.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2444 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Hi, am a 59 year old single woman, been dating this guy for five months, but am very busy, he wants more, but I don't have the time, we have fun one night a week, I haven't introduced him to family or friends, he comes on real strong,you know, ...

I am thinking of losing my virginity to a stranger.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2442 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Is it a good idea to lose my virginity to a complete stranger? I just broke up with ny bf and I was planning on just making out with another guy but things might escalate....

I feel its time to let go but my heart will be broken

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2446 days ago

18 March 2018 (F) - Hi I’ve been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. The first year was amazing . We got along really well. Both of us have children .My children are a lot younger than his. My youngest is four. My boyfriends kids are having a hard time with me ...

My pregnant wife swears and breaks things when angry, sometimes I think I'd rather raise the baby as a single dad.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2341 days ago

18 March 2018 (M) - She is 36 weeks pregnant. I've been night shift all week and sleeping during the day. I have university 2 days per week and I will go straight from work to a half day of uni. Return home about 4pm and sleep until 10pm then go to work. I'm full ...

I've borrowed money to celebrate but am not excited about it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

17 March 2018 (M) - About to celebrate our 5year together but why do I feel like I’m not celebrating anything. We don’t live together as she still works in the same part time job she did when I got with her so we have not progressed. I lost my job 3 months ago, and I ...

Do the Aunts think this seems okay at face value?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

17 March 2018 (M) - Okay, so this has been a big/hectic day. I've been in this relationship 5+ years. It's always been a life partner type scenario. Well today, we got into a fight, words were said, and she threw the "I want to break-up" card. We've had a really rou...

I feel I have met the right person at the wrong time ... and he is lying to his girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - I’ve known of this guy for about a year but I never knew his name I just knew him as we had mutual friends. I will add at this point that I had (and still have) a massive crush on him. I saw him whilst I was out clubbing at the start of this year ...

I missed an opportunity with him that I will never get again.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2447 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - About 2 months ago I felt an instant attraction towards someone at my local gym and I know he felt the same way because we were literally staring at each other longer than necessary. Anyway I screwed up because he said hi to me one time and I ...

My best fried shunned me in favour of a bully!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2446 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - I probably sound stupid with my problem but it bugs me . I have a friend ( known her over 20 years ) who i have supported through tough times and helped her lose over 6 stone and she was really grateful she felt a new lease of life , recently her ...

She has cut me completely after our families learnt of our same sex affair

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2443 days ago

17 March 2018 (F) - Hello I fell in love with my same gender best friend of 4 years, we are both married to our husbands with children, had an emotional affair that turned physical for 2 months. We ended the affair but still work in the same building. She has cut me ...

My boyfriend doesn't approve of my modeling career!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2444 days ago

16 March 2018 (F) - My partner and I live together, we had an argument last night. He is 25 and I’m 23, I am pursuing a modeling career that is just taking off but he doesn’t approve the photoshoots; last week it was because the photographers are men and he feels ...