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anonymous
writes:Is it a good idea to lose my virginity to a complete stranger? I just broke up with ny bf and I was planning on just making out with another guy but things might escalate.
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reader, justmyownself  +, writes (22 March 2018):
Sweetie! Virginity is not something to lose, its something to give to someone you would have wonderful memories of throughout your life! Don;t waste it on a stranger!
Forget the bf, he didn't deserve you!
Fall in love! Make the moment a special one with a special someone!
Cheers
myownself
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2018): You're young. I'd wait until you find somebody you care for. Years from now you could end up regretting this decision. I could understand if you were a 40 yr old virgin but you've still got so much time to meet the right one. No hurry sweetie!
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (19 March 2018):
Virginity's not something to lose, but rather yours to give. So bestow it on someone worthy.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (19 March 2018):
 You are hurting. You are seeing the loss of your virginity as some sort of "goal". Give yourself time to heal from the break up. Now is not a good time to be making decisions like this.
Chill. See friends. Concentrate on enjoying yourself. When you meet the right person, sex will be part of a loving relationship and you will enjoy it as such.
Having sex with a complete stranger is NEVER a good idea. You are old enough to know that.
Take care of yourself.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 March 2018):
 Sounds like a really bad idea. It also sounds like you think or hope your ex-BF will somehow be affected by this.
Why does making out with a "stranger" HAS to lead to sex? Can you not say no? Can you not use common sense and NOT get into a situation where it doesn't HAVE to end in sex?
What about birth-control? You carry condoms? Are you on the pill or other forms of birth-control?
What about STD's? You will have NO idea if a stranger has any STD's and if you ASK him how would you know he isn't lying? You don't know the guy!
You already KNOW it's a dumb dumb idea or you wouldn't have asked random strangers on the Internet about it, if you actually thought is was a good idea you would just have done it...
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (19 March 2018):
 It sounds like a great idea, OP....
If you want an STD or three, possibly be raped, beaten, killed, etc.
OP, you're not this naive or stupid. You know this is a bad idea. You're hurting, but do NOT make reckless decisions like this. Even making out with a stranger won't make you happy.
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