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Archived questions from: June, 2018 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Everything was perfect... until he lost his nan!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - Hello everyone. My boyfriend and I had been together almost five months but have been friends for about a year. We had the most amazing relationship. We both had said that we had a stronger bond than we'd ever had with anyone else. We tackled any ...

Our relationship is disintegrating, and I don’t know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2342 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - So basically me and my partner have been together for almost 3 years now. We live together. Recently there are more and more days where I am doubting our relationship. We have never had sex, we have done other things at the beginning of our ...

My boyfriend is depressed and anxious, what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2342 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years. The first year was great but since then we've had alot of personal challenges. For the past 1.5 years my boyfriend has been struggling with anxiety and depression. He couldn't cope with work anymore and ...

What should I do about this player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2319 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - OK - this is a long and complicated story, so please bear with me. I worked in the same company with a guy. We worked there for over a year, remotely. That means we didn't meet in real life, until perhaps a year into the time at the company, at a ...

How could my girlfriend move on from a 4 year relationship so quickly and already be with another man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2318 days ago

30 June 2018 (M) - Two Weeks ago, my relationship of 4 years ended with my girlfriend. i have been devastated, things have not been good for a while, but i was willing to do whatever it took as i never saw myself being with anyone else. we have not been intimate in ...

I'm have an uncomfortable feeling about my girlfriend's stepfather who walks around in the nude and God knows what else is going on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2341 days ago

29 June 2018 (M) - Right so this all started one day when my girlfriend called me I thought nothing of it, she usally calls me 5 times a day but she mentioned her step dad how she feels “uncomfortable” with him cos he walked round the house naked or just in his ...

I fear that he has grown controlling, though he says that I am too sensitive.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

29 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. We are both 23 and met in our first year of university. I did not take uni seriously initially and ended up failing and being suspended for 2 years for it. I was struggling financially and relied on ...

Boyfriend's close friend from his highschool group is obsessed with him and he's slept with her... And while she hates me, he won't stop hanging out with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

29 June 2018 (F) - So my boyfriend has a really close friend group from highschool. 3 other guys and 3 girls and they have a groupchat they always text in and are always planning hangouts together. This one girl in his group has always been obsessed with him (i've ...

My partner doesn't help with the new baby, is overpowering and dominant, and abusive when drunk. I've had enough of him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - Hi all, I am at a crossroad in my relationship/life. I had a beautiful baby month in January this year. He is my pride and joy. However I am now seeing a side of my fiancee that i hate (i know thats a strong word) I'm not sure I love him or want to ...

I planned a trip with friends and now they are going on a day I can't go

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - I planned a trip to a theme park and invited a couple of friends. I was excited about this. Then one if those friend's invited another couple of friends. One of those friends can't go on the day I am going, so they are now going on another day that ...

I'm at my wit's end about my boyfriend's constant complaints!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2345 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend is a loving, faithful and caring person. We have been in a relationship for 6 months and dated for 6 months before that. We have good communication, friendship, chemistry and sexual compatibility. Everything is great except for his ...

Is it normal to feel apathetic towards guys after a while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2344 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - Have you ever felt indifferent towards men for a long time after a bad relationship and constantly being looked over, and I say looked over because you don't even get close to being rejected. Is this even normal? My whole life I have been looked...

I have had an extremely stifled upbringing but I want to break free by going to a college of my choice. How do I convince my authoritarian parents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - In our family, it has always just been assumed that we'd all go to college. I've never been the best student, but I've basically been average. I liked "electives" the best and I got the best grades in music and Spanish. Actually, I won the John ...

Boyfriend tells me he doesn't want kids, I leave crying and I haven't heard from him since. How is he so cold?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2088 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - My LDR boyfriend of a year and a half finally admitted to me that he had 100% decided that he doesn't want kids. I am 40, have frozen my eggs and most days I feel the incredible yearning for a family. I say "finally admitted" because he has k...

My boyfriend seems like he's too busy for me and I'm not sure how to handle it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2340 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I had posted a couple weeks ago, asking a question about my bf not saying "I love you" because he'd rather make me feel loved.(which is a good thing) But I guess I've been feeling like hes really been putting me on the back ...

Boyfriend left for a night of hard drugs and drinking and I haven't heard from him in 24 hours. Should I dump him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2345 days ago

26 June 2018 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend went on a night out that resulted in me not hearing from him for over 24 hours. He said he had ended up drinking all night with some guy he met and tried to get cocaine too. While doing this he also decided to ignore my messages ...

My boyfriend is being secretive of his phone and is liking Instagram pictures of girls in bikinis!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2343 days ago

25 June 2018 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 15. We have been dating for almost 5 months. He is from Israel and went to go visit his family for 6 weeks. It has only been less than a week since he left but for a couple of weeks before he left I have been getting a ...

I stole from my brother, how do I repair our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2348 days ago

24 June 2018 (M) - My youger brother, Justin, is 23 months youger than me. I am 35 years old and he is 33 years old. He have always been a good person (doing charity work, volunteering his time to different charities, est.). When I was in my late teens and early ...

How do I make my girlfriend feel special and loved?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2348 days ago

24 June 2018 (M) - Hi guys, Thanks in advance for taking the time to read my post. Basically, my GF of almost one year has told me that she feels more like my best friend than girlfriend. I really need help in fixing things as I care about her a great deal and ...

Anything that bothers me he says its a cultural thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2349 days ago

23 June 2018 (F) - Hello I'm married and my husband has all his exes on social media and still speaks to them. I have told him I feel its inappropriate to talk to your exes when their part of his past. He is also addicted to his cell phone. He has many Male fr...

I love him but feel neglected.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2348 days ago

23 June 2018 (F) - Hi Aunts and Advisors :) Ive been dating, "Evan" going on 1 year. We worked together at a bar that I left soon after but we continued to date. He still works this hectic hospitality schedule. I have a day job. neither opus are "rich" people bu...

Is my sister crossing a relationship boundary line? I

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2346 days ago

22 June 2018 (F) - First i want to start by saying that setting boundaries in relationships has always been confusing for me. Some background info on my gradual Relationship with my sister.. She's always gotten mad at her boyfriends for being friendly with me. Me ...

I want to let the past go and move forward from this dead relationship, thinking about it has been holding me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2347 days ago

22 June 2018 (F) - I'm in a bit of slump, again. Been with this guy for awhile now. He told me upfront that he was depressed from the start but i went straight to it without knowing what i've gotten myself into. I was 17 back then. He gave me a sweet memory at ...

My bf drunk texted his ex FWB and now I feel like I have a right to go through his phone

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2349 days ago

21 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and 8 months drunkenly text a girl whom he used to see sexually before we started dating. I feel like I have a right to go through his phone now but at the same time I don’t. He feels terribly about the situation and has since ...

He blocked me on Instagram then lied about why!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2347 days ago

21 June 2018 (F) - He blocked me on Instagram and lied to me about it saying his app had a problem. Yes I believed it. I have another account on Instagram for makeup and fashion posts. He commented on another girl’s picture saying “Dayyyuuumm”. He has all his exes and ...

I feel resentful toward my girlfriend. Should I keep trying to make it work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2350 days ago

21 June 2018 (F) - I met my girlfriend online 7 months ago and we have been living together for the past 4 months. We use to talk on the phone everyday for the first 3 months. She came here from a different country to visit me and hasn't been back to her country ...

What do I do to get my brother to forgive me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2350 days ago

21 June 2018 (F) - I really made a huge and stipid mistake and now feeling guilty,hurt and embarrassed.I could not accept my past and move on.I have a brother and I'm really close with him.He has a close friend(jack) and he tells about him causually.I had seen him but ...

I am simultaneously unsatisfied and satisfied with my life, I need direction!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2349 days ago

20 June 2018 (F) - I am simultaneously unsatisfied/satisfied with my life. I have a bf whom I love, who does a lot for me and our 3 kids. But, sometimes he has a temper. He gets verbally abusive, not in a nasty way, but in a snippy sort of critiquing way. I've tak...

I hate my boyfriend’s best friend and don’t want him at my wedding!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2349 days ago

20 June 2018 (F) - I got engaged to my boyfriend and we are currently planning the wedding, making guest lists etc. My partner wishes to invite his best friend to the wedding. The thing is i can’t stand being in the same room as my fiancées best friend as he severely ...

I know I was stupid for having sex with my ex! What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2350 days ago

19 June 2018 (F) - I split up from my fiancé 7 weeks ago due to not making any time for me I’ve tried talking to him loads of times he just walked out on me whenever I tried talking to him so I ended the relationship I did feel better about it up until Sunday gone he ...

My ex best friend is confusing me and I don’t know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2352 days ago

18 June 2018 (M) - Me and my best friend have been on a roller coaster ride this past year. It’s a long story so I’m going to try to keep my sentences to the point. We had a falling out almost 8 months ago. He didn’t say why he was mad and didn’t want to talk to me. ...

My boyfriend doesn't say "I love you." What are your thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2352 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - Hello all. So my inquiry isn't as serious as most, but I'm curious as to what your thoughts are, aunts and uncles. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. He is a very good man and while we have dealt with some small issues, ...

My boyfriend ignores me at times.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - im with my boyfriend for 5 years and he ignores me at time when he is in his facebook and takes awhile to answer me when im talking to him and i feel he takes advantage of my kinds and times i dont think he appreciate alot of things i do for him ...

I worry so much about my baby, I just need a balanced view.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - Hi All, I've posted a number of times before and you've always provided me with great advice. My child's dad and I split before he was born ( 16weeks pregnant). Our son was planned - tried for a year to conceive him..split after ten yea...

I'm worried he still has feelings for his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - Is he really over his Ex? Me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years now and I thought we was both the happiest we could be. Last night he went to show me something on social media and his ex girlfriend was at the very top of his search bar I...

None of my friends like him .... what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - I (33F) am looking for advice regarding my boyfriend(31M) of two years. None of my friends like him. In fact, they all basically refuse to spend time with him. The typical reasons for this would have to do with the guy being a cheater, abusive...

I'm waiting for a girl to come and sweep me off my feet.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

18 June 2018 (M) - Please bare with me and sorry for the long post. Im in a bit of a slump the past year. Essentially I once again broke up with a girl I'm madly in love with because circumstances prevents us from being together, that being a long distance relatio...

He said we were moving too fast, and that he had bigger plans.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2353 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - I met this guy about a month ago and everything was going great. We were so genuinely happy with each other, always laughing and having fun. I met his friends and family. It felt like we were moving towards a relationship. We would see each other ...

We are growing apart and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2349 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - Hiya, Ok I am in desperate need of advice, I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years now and I love him so much however I am thinking of ending our relationship. He is 10 years old than I am (the age has neve...

I'm talking all the time to my ex girlfriend who is crying about her life. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

17 June 2018 (M) - Well guys m confused how to think about something , i had a relationship with a girl for almost 5 years everything was great but we had to break up because she left the countery to study far away but we keept contact as good freind few months later ...

He is blowing hot and cold, I don't know what to think.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

16 June 2018 (M) - So a guy I work with initially showed some interest in me, which if you know me is quite rare. At first I was a little uncertain, he wasn't my usual type but we did make eachother laugh and it's been a while so I thought why not. We gradually g...

Who is the weird one, me or him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2355 days ago

16 June 2018 (F) - I have this guy friend that I’ve been knowing for almost a year now, we’ve been involved intimately at one point, pretty much on and off. We both have feelings for each other. We recently started conversing again and hung out. We’re both still ...

My friend is upset with me and I am not sure what to do to mend our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

15 June 2018 (F) - Four months back one of my high school friend got married. We have been friends from last 12 years. She is a very nice lady but she was there for me in my hard times. we always had back of each other. She married her boyfriend even though she was ...

All the staring, sexual tension and then ignoring me... What's going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2356 days ago

14 June 2018 (F) - I met a guy at my university last year. We had instant attraction and started liking each other. Though the school year had ended, he was coming to uni as he was involved in a protest/occupation against the school. He would keep staring at me an...

Harmless lies are still lies and he can’t seem to get that into his head!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2354 days ago

14 June 2018 (F) - I live in a somewhat small town. Not middle of no where town with 500 people but if you grew up there, you knew everyone in your age group, more or less. I kept to myself Im my teens and 20s, it seemed liked everyone knew each other's business...

Is this normal?? Am I stupid to love a man who does not respect the institution of marriage??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2357 days ago

14 June 2018 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt I am married for 20 years to a narcissistic surgeon with roving eyes yet I've stayed with him thinking that we love each other. He had been unfaithful to me and my young children once in the past and after leaving home he returned...

I asked for help and he lied about why he couldn't.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

14 June 2018 (F) - I am not sure if what I am feeling right now is normal or I am being unjust? I asked for help from my boyfriend of 4 years. what I need is a room/place to stay for 1 year while I am doing the last part of my studies. We do not live together...

My ex-girlfriend has a way of messing with my head

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2357 days ago

13 June 2018 (F) - Hi all, Long story cut short. I was in a lesbian relationship with my gf for two years. She kissed a guy during our relationship (even lied to my face and was secretly sending messages to him). This pushed me to pursue my dreams in working a...

All couples argue..But where do we draw a line?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

13 June 2018 (F) - My dear other half thinks his verbal abuse is just an arguement and it would be if I would agree to that. But I know there is more to it than that and it destroys me as the pattern repeats with increasing frequency. He cant see that its not a c...

How do I learn to stop caring so much about other people's opinions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

13 June 2018 (F) - Hello aunts, I wanted to seek advice on how to stop caring about how other people perceive me and how to gather strength on the inside. I am a woman in my thirties that (not trying to sound vain) has been told I am very pretty - skinny and beaut...