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writes:Right so this all started one day when my girlfriend called me I thought nothing of it, she usally calls me 5 times a day but she mentioned her step dad how she feels “uncomfortable” with him cos he walked round the house naked or just in his dressing gown. Keep in mind she has two little brothers and her mother In the house of course when she told me I was furious I didn’t know what to do, I was angry I just hung up and calmed down, couple days go on she mentioned him again same thing walking round naked but she didn’t say she was uncomfortable she just says he always does it after that it just stops she don’t mention him or nothing when I ask about it she changes the subject or try’s to so I was thinking maybe she just uncomfortable and don’t like talking about it so I stopped. We always FaceTime when we go to bed she said it helps her sleep me, one time on ft I heard him creeping in her room when she was awake couldn’t see anything on the call but everytime i tried talking to her she would go silent hardly talk, well soon after that she told me she was going to sleep and hung up she’s never done that before. I’m not not the type of person that would complain about it so I just sat up all night thinking. What if she is doing something with him I’ve never had trust for anyone due to the past so you can imagine how I felt, I didn’t bring it up the next morning just carried on like we used to, he goes to the pub most nights and she picks him up, well one night I was on the phone to her when she was on the way to pick him up I told her to keep me on the phone so I know you’re safe with him in the car her replie was I’ll be fine don’t worry Started to get angry cos how I would presist to keep me on the phone so she finally agreed to keep me on the phone as long as I never said anything. I never trusted him didn’t like him either and I didn’t even know the dude but anyway I’m on the phone in the door pocket him and her is in the car couple minutes of silence I here “not good” he says why having fun ain’t we? She says “not good not good drinking ain’t good” I had a weird feeling in my gut he was touching her after I hung up I felt so sick and depressed is she really been doing stuff like that with him so I decide to bring it up to her she denies it and gets angry every time but sometimes slurs her words. I just want to know the truth but I’m not gonna get it /: I don’t care if she is doing stuff with him I just want out if she is Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2018): Why are you mad at her?It seems to me like she is his victim.How does her mom feel about this? She needs to talk to her now.You are worried about your feelings but what about her?Do not blame the victim.That poor girl.I hope she gets the help she needs to stay safe.Maybe when you are done fretting about your feelings you could actually help her instead of being judgemental.That poor girl she is a victim at home and blamed for it by you.Just terrible.
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