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Archived questions from: June, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I call my "friend" or write to her and tell her off..or should I just leave it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4150 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - Hello Folks, A few months ago my best friend and I stopped speaking to each by my decision. She started her own busines a few years ago and I was there for her helping her all hours in the night and morning. Assisted her with her kids etc. She and ...

What do you think -- should I stay in this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - Hi. So anyone care to help me out, and tell me wheather to leave or stay in my relationship? Been together almost two years (9th july) I cheated first two weeks in, lied for months. My now fiance (23 almost) proposed to me (20) three mon...

Should I put spyware on boyfriends phone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - Hi Agony Aunties and Uncles, Thank you for taking the time to read this. I am aware that I am being extreme and have crossed some privacy boundaries, but before I take it to another extreme I thought I would check in with the community. I ...

Is my mechanic taking me for a ride or was I rude to cancel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4153 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - To the point.....I've know my mechanic for 5 years and I make an effort to have my car inspected and maintenance when he's there. We've met up twice outside of his job at a bookstore nothing serious. I consider him a honest reputable mechanic. We ...

I am frustrated with waiting for the woman I gave a promise ring too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

30 June 2013 (M) - I gave a promise ring to a woman that I haven't heard from her for 2 months before that we were seeing each other at least twice a week for three months. And but now i have been dating other women during that time cause we didn't talk for two months ...

I cant trust anything he says and am running on fumes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - This is a long story, but please help me. My guy and I have been together for a year, we’ve known each other and have had an on and off relationship for the past 5 years. After a year of separation, we got back together and it’s been hell f...

Why are my siblings turning their backs on our mother now that she is sick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

30 June 2013 (F) - DearCupid,I am a middle aged young woman who put her life aside because I have one living parent and now she is slightly sick she's a diabetic and had to have her legs taken off she also have other health issues going on.I am not the only child I ...

Boyfriend took pictures of women on his cell phone. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I needed my boyfriends cell phone to make a call. On his cell was a picture of a woman in a bikini. I remembered her because we went to a local beach the other day and she was sleeping on a lounge chair next to my boyfriend. I was on a lounge ...

Am I a backstabber?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Me and my friend were good friends. But im a positive person most of the time, im quite shy and my self esteem is quite low, but I try. Well my friend is quite and only we used to hang out and no one else. She always used to badmouth people ...

What is a very horny, very faithful girl with a not-so horny boyfriend to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I've been with a boyfriend for three years and at this point, I just don't know what to do anymore. First off, my boyfriend is a very good guy. He's respectful towards me and my family and friends, doesn't "kiss and tell", supports my goals and ...

Why do I have to be this game he wants to play?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Ok 5 years ago I fell in love with aman 12 yr older than me I am 27 and over the years he took my love as a game I feel he has no care at all. Till I get his total attention him in love or at least acting to be when we are alone. We broke up I liv...

Should I plan my birthday without my boyfriend. He only celebrated one out of four birthdays.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Hi!! I have a question about my birthday and my boyfriend. This is going to be my fourth birthday in the relation, and out of the other 3 birthdays, my boyfriend has spent 1 of those birthdays with me. We actually attend to the same universi...

I'm open to more suggestions in getting over him! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I know the answer is yes, but I'm just hurting right now. I guess I'm just wanting to get this out. I left him on Monday, he got cranky too often over things that didn't matter, couldn't accept responsibility for it, and in all honesty, showed ...

I'm engaged but my guy friend who's interested in me just wont take no for an answer

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - Hi there, I have a question about one of my guy friends.He is a sweet guy that would do anything for me.We hang out get along great but are just friends. he has been hinting around that he wants more, but I have a fiance and just want to remain ...

How can I be the love of her life one day, then absolutely nothing the next day?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4153 days ago

29 June 2013 (F) - I've posted on here a couple of times recently. I had some great feedback. Basically, it was about my ex. She's been so on again-off again with me. One minute I'm the love of her life and she wants to live with me, marry me and have a family with ...

I'm tempted to have an affair with my hot co-worker to get back at my husband for the pain he put me through 3 years ago

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

28 June 2013 (?) - I am currently married for 3 yrs now. However, my husband and i had many issues in the beginning of our relationship when we were dating. he didnt tell me that he was still emailing his exgirlfriend because he told me she wanted to end her life so ...

Long distance love… After meeting this amazing woman everything has gone to shit. She imagined everything to be a fairytale

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4151 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - I've been talking to this girl for 2 years online. Skype and FaceBook. I've honestly never found anyone who was as amazing as this. So, last month I went to visit her. Everything was perfect. We are very far apart. I only get 2-3 weeks of vacation a ...

Why is this man making me mental? After my miscarriage, now his new girlfriend, I feel awful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I had been starting to feel so much better about this, but today was hit with a ton of bricks and I'm not even sure why it bothers me. I started "seeing" a guy I had met on vacation to a new school I was going to the next year. "Seeing" is in q...

Why doesn't my boyfriend look for a job like he said he would?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend has asked to be left alone at the moment. However, I dont know why. Before he texted me this, we had a quick mobile conversation about him saying that he's been feeling down recently because he doesn't have much money. Which I ...

Am I the bad guy for making my girlfriend breakdown?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4116 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - For more info on this, please read (or skim) this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-believe-my-girlfriend-is-lying-about-an.html. This problem of mine goes back almost a year. I haven't been able to shake this feeling of mine that the...

I'm afraid that if I leave him he will hurt me or come looking for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - Need advice .... Been with this dude for 6 years and is has been HELL ... The reason I'm still in this situation is because he's abusive physically mentally and verbally and I have been scared for my life cause he threatens to kill himself and ...

My B/f keeps interrogating me about my past and if he were to ever find out I have lied, he will end things. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and he is te type of person that just about interrogates me about guys in my past. I have nothing to be ashamed about and have only been with one person before him. He always asks about stupid things ...

I just want to find someone that I love and who loves me in return and I'm so scared that I'm never going to find the right guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - This isn't really a question asking for advice, more like asking for support so I'm brave enough to make the decision that I have to make. Please tell me that I'm doing the right thing for me? _________________ I started dating this guy a ...

I think my friend has Post Traumatic Stress disorder stemming from sexual abuse as a child. It's affecting her life and I have no idea what to do about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

28 June 2013 (M) - I think my friend is suffering from post traumatic stress disorder. She was sexual abused as a little girl by both her brother and her uncle on separate occasions. Over the course of our relationship I kind of fell in love with her, much to her ...

Why is my boyfriend ignoring me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

28 June 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend hasn't talked to me in 6 days , he's been talking to literally everybody .. Except me. And he's going to the beach with 2 really pretty girls on Friday .. But I'm not going . I know I sound over protective but I don't know what to do ...

Am I wrong to feel a little bit hurt by this? I spent 5 years letting his mother say what she wanted to me and after I finally stand up for myself he goes round like nothing happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4156 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles Got a problem, I've been with my bf now for 5 years his family have never really accepted me in all this time and thing got worse when I went into an apprenticeship rather than go to university. My bf moved in with me and my f...

Fat Issues and lots of Tissues: Question is, why would I stay in a relationship where I have to change to suit his ideals?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Fat issues and tissues So my SO keeps calling me a fatso. Mmm that's abusive. I need to loose, for myself, 20 lbs Also in menopause and also 52 years old. But I'm very active, trying now to boost my metabolism I have put my relationship...

I'm getting the same feeling in the pit of my stomach as I had when I last caught him messaging a female co-worker!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I haven’t been on here for a while but I have come to a point in my relationship where I need advice please. My boyfriend and I have been going out for over 5 years now and we have lived together for 4. Our relationship has had its problems som...

My girlfriend never randomly contacts me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4156 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - So I'm with my girlfriend for 2 years now, we lived together and everything was good, we never fight and are happy together. 2 weeks ago she had to move to another town that's 1 hour flight away to take care of some things at home. Since then...

My girlfriend doesn't seem to enjoy sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

27 June 2013 (M) - My girlfriend almost never initiates sex and whenever we do have sex, she doesn't orgasm. We're 2 months into the relationship and I'm not sure if I'm ready to start a life with someone who isn't sexually attracted to me. In the start of the ...

I thought we were close so why has my cousin told everyone but me that she's expecting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4156 days ago

27 June 2013 (?) - So I lived with my cousin for months, we always were laughing and having a great time and we told each other everything and then I moved back "home" which is in another state and since she hasn't really talked to me. I dont know what changed, I ...

Is the guy I'm dating just a bandaid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4157 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - So ive had a very complicated romantic history lately... i dated a guy off and on since 2010 (currently not together) we had a child together and moved into an apartment this year after a few months we split up because he seriously miss treated me ...

Should I be there for him now while he is weak?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4157 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - Dear cupids, Over a year now with my biyfriends, most of the advices i took her about out issues was to dump him for leaning towards cheating and for being controlling. To do so i needed to change, and i built more self confidence and thought poss...

Why wasn't I enough? Why is this girl already in his heart the way I once was?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

27 June 2013 (F) - I used to jump from relationship to relationship, until I learned that you need time to breathe and be alone in between. After an especially drawn out break up, I decided to spend one year single. Although it was difficult, it was also the most ...

How can I learn letting them in my life without being negative?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - I never thought that I would be asking advise from strangers, until now. i really need a second opinion. I always push away, people who cares for me. I push away my friend who did nothing but being a good friend to me. I broke up with my ex-bf wi...

Is he trying to tell me something, or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4155 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - I am pretty much into my boss. We get along so well and in the entire office, we're the only two people who share the same interest in films, music and whatnot. There were instances in the past where I could not identify if he was into me but didn't ...

I am addicted to chasing men and I don't know how to stop

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - Hi there. I am a woman in her early thirties, and I think I have an addiction to chasing men. I know that many people will read this and want to give me the advice "just stop" but if it was that easy I would have done it a long time ago. I real...

He gave me chlamydia and wasn't upfront with me about it. Is withholding information the same as lying?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

26 June 2013 (F) - I'm 3 months pregnant and through the series of required blood tests, I tested positive for chlamydia. Totally shocked, I told my bf what the doc said and asked if there was anything he needed to tell me (I tested negative at my last visit in ...

Think the best thing I can do at this point is to just stay silent for "a couple weeks" like she originally said, and then maybe try to call her and see what's up... what do you guys think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

26 June 2013 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for two years recently she's been being a bit distant, she tells me she's spending time with family/working on career/etc. which is all totally fine, because everyone needs time for themselves, but she's been seein...

Why is this being taken out on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4152 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - i'm really hurting a lot right now and i don't know what to do. please help. my ex and i have been off and on so many times in the last couple of months. it's been killing me. when we were on, we were amazing. i could see how much she loved me just ...

Is the purpose of sex to orgasm or to feel close and intimate with your partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Okay so I'm 20 and recently started having sex with the guy that I'm seeing (he's 21). I lost my virginity to him, but we have only had sex about 3 times since that. Before we had sex, he would play with me down there. Now he doesn't, I think ...

I have not been kissed in decades! Just pecks on the cheek, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Hi. Hope everyone is doing well. My one question brought another to mind for me. Why would my husband not want to kiss me at all, or sit and hug me at all? I have been married decades now, and i am not braindead LOL, but it has taken me all this ...

Doubting myself after an encounter with an ex-friend, am I doing something wrong here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I ran into my ex-friend "Karen" at a mutual friend's party. All my ex-friend did was brag and make snide remarks. She was also smug because she brought a date and I came with my sister. (My sis was invited though and received a separate invite.) I ...

She tells me that her relationship with this guy friend is normal for her culture but I'm not so sure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

25 June 2013 (M) - I got in a relation with one of my employees. Now as if that's not enough risk already. She also moved in with me 2 days after we got into the relationship. She told me, I am in this for the long run and I don't want to get into the relati...

How can you tell someone theyre being unfair without it descending into a massive argument.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Im going through a custody battle right now and I have court on friday so this whole time is quite stressful for me. Well my boyfriends been going out on weekends staying out all night and I dont know where he is. He keeps talking to is ex who h...

My boyfriend blames me for losing his best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4155 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I need some help. im gunna jump right into this. Ive been with my bf for 4 years now. he had a best friend he use to do everything with and i was ok with him till i started figureing out what kinnda guy he was. ever since my bf fell in love wit...

He has ignored me so should I bother to tell him I'm going to be near to his city?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4158 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - I like a guy who lives in another city. We usually talk on Facebook, but lately, he's been ignoring me. This hurts my ego. The last time I saw him was almost 2 weeks ago, when I traveled near his city for stuff unrelated to him, but we hung out and ...

Sister in law won't take care of her kids and my husband and I are expected to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4157 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - My husband and I are expecting our first child. It seems as if my MIL likes to blame me for her grandkids misfortunes in life.His sister and the kids dad wants to party and MIL wants us to care for the kids. It's putting a strain on our marriage as ...

How can I convince him that it is so hurtfull to me to have no idea what is he doing and with who??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4159 days ago

25 June 2013 (F) - Dear cupids, my perfect boyfriend of about 1 year have one little triat that can drive me crazy most of the times and i get to the piont where i find it so irrespectfull that i do not like him any more and do not want to hear his vioce anymore. W...

I went through a bad break up. When will I be me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4158 days ago

24 June 2013 (F) - I just need some words of wisdom I guess... I'm a bit embarrassed that I need to come online and ask people who don't know me, but just because I'm pretty sure my friends are sick listening to me. Maybe I just need to vent? I don't know.. I always ...