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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Great love life but sneaky boyfriend. What do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 9 yrs. We are both late 20's and he is good to me and loves me. However I say he is "sneaky" because pretty much every 3-4 months like clockwork I will discover something that makes me really question my ...

Is he scared to lose me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been broke up for 3 weeks now. the past two weeks. he has still wanted me around, to cuddle and do sex he said he wasn't using and he didn't want to be friends with benifits. the thing is he broke up with me cause he said he ...

Am I unreasonable in thinking a marriage should be more?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I need some advice on my current marital situation... My wife and I have been married for six years. She's very religious and, as such, there was a very strict "no sex before marriage" policy - which I agreed to. The problems began after the ...

Were we ever really friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a question about a long time friend (18 years) with whom I ended the relationship / friendship with because he deliberately concealed his marriage from me. Basically, I'm wondering why someone with whom I've been frie...

Is phone sex cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I cant stop thinking of cheating on my boyfriend .I had phone sex with another man and it turned me on ,totally!! . Is something wrong with me ? Is phone sex cheating ?I wanted to be in a open relationship and he said he will think about it ....Am I...

My bf gets mad and stresses me out! Should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I always quarrel,he just gets angry at me. he wants to see me everyday day but he sometimes kicks me out. I always cry, he stresses me. should I carry on with him or what? ...

I have trouble with listening and comprehension...what should I do about this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. I have a question. I've always struggled with hearing and paying attention to people. When strangers talk to me, I freeze and have trouble understanding what they're saying when I feel nervous. I have to ask people to repeat themselve...

Dating 3 months, no sex. Shall I leave?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1034 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I need some imput. I have a new girlfriend and everything is good except for us not having sex yet. When we started to go out we both agreed that we were going to take things slow, and we have been to this point but Im a man that has needs and I ...

Can I get this relationship back on track? Can I change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - sun won't shine, moon won't glow. Would you ever take back a cheating ex? Would you ever take back someone who hit you? Someone who slept with you even though they had a gf/bf? Even if you were the one who cheated first? I had this ex...

How do women do it all? Work, cook, clean.... I'm exhausted!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - How do you women do it all? I have highly stressful job. When I get home I am exhausted. I have no energy to do anything else but lay down on the coach and watch TV. My fiance lives with me and he is constantly pushing me to do more. He wants me ...

My wife had a termination 6 months into our relationship, and now 7 and a half years later the sex is still terrible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - Hi, me and my first love have just got married 5months ago, we have been together for 8 years nearly and have never slept or even been out with anyone else! We are only in our early and mid 20's. For the first year the sex was great and very ...

It seems like sex is a chore for her, how can we improve things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I've been in a relationship with my gf for 10 months now. We've lived with each other for 6. The problem for me is the almost non existent passion/sex intimacy.now the problem isn't so much the lack of regular sex as that doesnt worry me so much, ...

My boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year in march we were talking last night and he mentioned his ex which he does quite often so I asked him if he was still in love with her and he said yes he is now I'm so confused but my question is will he be ...

He's 50, fit, separated and I want it to work. BUT? Can this relationship work better? How?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - This is long, so thank you to whoever is reading this… I’ve been in a relationship with a truly wonderful man for just over 3 years. I am now 26 and he is 50. Fortunately he has aged well and he keeps fit. I met him when he supposedly was separa...

Is my boyfriend not attracted to me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I am 24 and I have been with my 25 year old boyfriend for 3 years. I'm not sure if this is all in my head, or something I'm reading in our relationship... but I don't feel like he is very attracted to me.. mentally, emotionally and sexually. :/...

How can I learn to more secure and trusting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I've posted questions here many times for help with my relationship and past... I've had some problems with my current girlfriend, and we recently took a break. I've always been suspicious of her, have issues with trust, but I realize now that I...

Too bad to stay. Too good to leave.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 year. I moved in with him 2 weeks into our relationship. We have known each other since we were 13 through mutual friends but didn’t start our relationship until we were in our 20’s. The start of our rel...

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated on her with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, i need advice. Ok heres my story, i have a guy friend who i have been friends since with the 9th grade. were in our early 20s now. i have had a crush on him since high school but never acted on it because i was really shy. an...

Eight months pregnant with twins, but should I break up or make up?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her C cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and ...

I'm tired of always being the second place girl, the rebound!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hi. I'm 18yrs old and I fell for a man who is 30 yrs old. He is dating his girlfriend for 6 yrs, and i was told he broke up with her two months before he started seeing me. but then i found out, he lied to me and her and everyone he knew about the ...

Is this relationship worth salvaging or should I just walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - I met my girlfriend 3 years ago in college and we started living together within six months of dating. I believe we moved way too fast with this relationship and thus we didn’t get to really know each other. The result of our moving too fast ...

My husband accused me of cheating and won't allow me to leave the house

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - i am deeply in love with my husband but he doesn't trust me. he treat me like a cheat and calls me a liar. i can't even go and visit my mum for just a few minutes. i am in my mum's house now, he will send call back or call me to come home. i don'...

Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to f...

My boyfriend is beginning to think I am not attracted to him, anymore! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend has a high sex drive and i dont, which makes it hard to want sex as often as he does. Im an very emotionally and physically attracted to him, but somedays i just dont feel like having sex, as to him he wants to have sex at least once ...

Why do some women want to control their ex boyfriends life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Simple Question: Why do women control or want to control their ex boyfriends? even after several years ,and several new relationships. Ex. I have a friend who remains friends with some and/or still contact ALL their ex's, but completely gets ...

The affection in our relationship has eroded. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am so sad because when I first was with him we were having sex almost daily now 3 years later it is almost extinct and we have a 3 year old son together. We are bored and sit home all the time and watch tv in seperate rooms and we don't like ...

My boyfriend's fickle-mindedness is really bothering me!

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30 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I lived together for 1 year after we met and have had a LDR for the past year because of his job. He can't seem to decide on a plan for the future so we can work towards it and it is getting really frustrating and hard for me to ta...

I want my ex to take me back again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - So I dated this girl for 4 months and I was really in love with her, we went back and forth a few times, we had our problems, we got into fights, i would get really jealous about other guys and her (turned out i had nothing to worry about atleast on ...

Sometimes I cant stand my boyfriend and he hasn't done anything wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I need some advice. I dont know how to feel about my boyfriend/relationship. Im usually not a indecisive person. Its still a very new relationship. We met on Halloween 2011, and made it official on November 10th 2011. Before I met my current bf, I ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am 17, was sexually abused by my last boyfriend, and am in a new relationship. I am hoping that it isnt a huge surprise that the last relationship still affects me, mainly in bad ways. recently i have been having more nightmares, some involving ...

I don't find others interesting and therefore can't get into relationships with people

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - SUMMARY: I am depressed because I am lonely because I have no interests and therefore nothing to talk to others about to connect with them. Hi guys. Im feeling kind of depressed and have felt so off and on for a couple of years now. I think th...

Am I Bi or a Sicko? :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - Hello guy's my name is Dan and i am 20 years old please don't judge. I have been very worried recently over the type of porn i used to watch as a teen 13 - 19(not sure when i actually started) I used to watch normal hetrosexual porn (not for lo...

Was she telling me the truth or just brushing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - Hi, I dated a girl in November we went out a few times and spent a few days staying at my place. Things went really well and we slept together a few times. It was quite intense from the start. We haven't seen each other since the start of December ...

We exchanged numbers so who goes first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I'd rather guys opinion on this, but girls would also benefit. When a girl meets a guy on a night out and they exchange numbers, but neither of you said you will text each other. And it's been a few days later they haven't texted you, would you text ...

I think my guy is too caring!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 January 2012 (?) - I love my boyfriend very much hes very sweet I mean he will do anything for me and I am probably being stupid but when we talk I will say to him when he goes home I miss him and he always talks about cwtching which I do enjoy but he never really ...

My B/f just expects me to invite myself over to his house to befriend his Mother and I find that totally rude and inconsiderate, especially given how my last visit there was

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello! Any advice on how my boyfriend is handling his family getting to interact with me and, thus, get to know me is very helpful and I appreciate it all! Thanks in advance. Background: My boyfriend (22 yrs old) comes from a low income family. H...

How to keep it in the family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i am in love with my dads cousin he is married n has kids but still loves me more thn anhything he recently proposed to me n i really wnt to marry him but if my family found out then it would be disaster his family is not a problem. how should i...

Going to be married in 2 months and I feel so unloved

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi all I feel I have no one else to turn to. Me and my fiancé have been together for nearly 4 years and are due to be married in march but I feel so unloved. We have sex once a month and it's over in 2 mins. I'm bored and I have tried and tried ...

I love my boyfriend so much but I don't like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Ok. So i have been reading peoples posts on here for days and have finally plucked up the courage to ask for some advice on here. The p[roblem is i dont think i really know where to start... but here goes. I met my current boyfriend when i...

B/f says I'm controlling? Am I? He's lied and I have trust issues!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My guy and I have been dating about 8 months and the last couple have been a bit intense with disagreements. I'm 38 and hes 45. We both have been married before and its just some things at his age I think he should know by now. If I don'...

I'm so keen to find somebody I scare them away on the first date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - to get straight to the point- i get too carried away about girls on the 1st date that im left gutted when they dont want a second. I work in a very male dominated industry and all my friends are couples. i have lots of interests and am always bu...

I need to learn how to interact with guys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi guys, I think the best way to describe it is.. I'm stuck! Its been this way most of my life, and the situation doesn't really change. I guess you could say I have very little to do with guys. It's not me so much that doesnt have much to do ...

My wife says I play games too much!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Okay my wife says i play my game too much that we don't have time for each other anymore. Okay i work all night pretty much i work 4 Nights a week and then on Sunday i go to work and open. We have a 15mth old daughter together so those two days that ...

I just get turned off by his double checking the condom

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I didnt know who else to bring this up with so thought i'd see what other people on here think... Basically my partner and I are in a very loving relationship. We both want children and plan to start trying in ...

Should I try and work this out or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hello good people. this is my situation. ive been dating a guy for 8 months now. he's in the army and got deployed a month after we started dating. Our relationship had such strong chemistry that i decided to wait on him till h comes bak in june. ...

My love for him is so strong, but he just plays with my emotions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i have a boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months, we are long distance(live 5 hours/230 miles apart) and we met 6 months before we got together through a friend i went to see for a week, i was with someone else at the time, but that didn't stop me doing ...

Maybe I should just end the relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been doing a sort of open relationship for about the last 5 months. He has only been with one other girl and it was just a mindless hookup, dont care. In our particular arrangement, I told him I really ...

My past relationships are coloring the future!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hey guys! I need some advice, I'm having a hard time letting go, trusting people, and or finding myself to like anyone in a way that others like me. I have had quite a few relationships but not as much as I have with people I have "went out" with, ...

He said it was a joke but it's still on my mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Please help me I'm struggling. So to make this short. I'm gay and I'm 18 I have a boyfriend who's 19 we have four months together. Do now about my issue. I went on my boyfriend Facebook without permission I loged on with his password and checked his ...

He's my ex and he still checks me out all the time. Why does he do this still? His Gf hates me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My ex and I share a lot of history, we were best friends for a year and liked each other for a lot, a year after we hugged for the first time and hung out as well with friends. Few months later we had our first kiss and first sex and it was very pas...