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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

We argue, don't talk, no sex, no date nights, no vacations. I'm fed up, what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - I'm 31 and my boyfreind is 46, we argue, don't talk for a wek at a time, no sex, he don't take me out movie, dinner, shopping nothing, no vactions together, I'm getting really fed up this being going on for years what should I do?...

My girlfriend won't stop seeing this male friend of hers!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1898 days ago

13 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend won't stop seeing this male friend of her no matter what I tell her. I meet my girlfriend two years and six months ago and we have been officially together for two years and three months. She had a couple of male friend and I was...

All we've done is argue since we've been together but he is my heart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - okay so me and my boyfriend has been together for 5 months almost 6 months, and all we do is argue slmost everyday, i love him 2 death and i kno he loves me too. i feel like i am going 2 lose him sooner then later. but i dont want to lose him ...

I have never enjoyed sex and even wind up feeling like I hate the person who I'm doing it with!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - i am now starting to get worried because ever since i started having sex i have never enjoyed it,i only get exited during foreplay but the moment i see we are about to do it exitement goes away i feel pain and i feel bad like "just finish up and ...

My boyfriend told a friend he still misses his ex, what does this mean for us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - Long story short: I stooped through my boyfriend's phone, found a text he sent to his best friend saying that he's been missing his ex a lot lately. They've been broken up for over a year, and we've been together for almost a year. He said he saw o...

My boyfriend admits that he thinks about sex with other girls, am I not enough for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - im 19/f and my boyfriend is 20/m We've been together for nearly a year, and we love each other alot. i honestly think hes my soulmate and we can both picture our future together perfectly... except now im not so sure anymore. im a very very in...

Feeling useless being in a long distance relationship with an emotional girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (M) - I'm having a long term relationship with an emotional girl for about 1 month. she is very emotional and feeling depressed all the time. we are in love, deeply. because we are living in different countries so I have no idea how to help her. but ...

She is making an effort to commit to me, so why am I still having trust issues?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

13 January 2012 (M) - I am still having MASSIVE trust issues despite things going better than most could expect from a relationship. She has booked a wedding venue....says she has stopped taking the Pill so we can start a family, but I am STILL having trust issues. It...

I cant put up with my husband's behaviour anymore, but I don't want to throw in the towel less than a year after getting married! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been married since spring of 2011 (not even a year yet). We have the most beautiful 18 month old son and another new baby on the way. Our marriage is anything but newlywed bliss. I think a lot of our stress comes from little ...

Can abusive men ever change?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - Can men who have been abusive with there partners ever be rehabilited and change their behaviour, or is it something deeper within them and there is little that will change them. I have been with a abusive man for 8 yrs and although it is not daily ...

He has cheated before and now it seems he is doing the same again, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - Well compliments of the new year to every one, my problem is i have been dating a guy for four months and things has been goin pretty well until he started breaking off the communication between us recently.. During the time we were on good terms he ...

My girlfriend cries when we have sex! What is wrong and how do I help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (M) - seriously i dont get what is wrong with my girlfriend when we first had sex i realised she was crying slowly as we were at it...since then anytime i sleep with her in the same bed she gets nightmares and also cries like she does when we are having ...

Lack of balance in my relationship....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - I feel as if my 3 year relationship lacks balance. I always seem to be the one helping out and my boyfriend the one needing the help or asking for the favour. I also seem to be the one that is always giving in and giving up because his requirments/...

I don't see what she gets out of this 'friendship' with this other guy and it is ruining our relationship...what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (M) - Here it is, been with my girlfriend for coming up to five years now, she has recently started talking to an old guy friend of hers, they never had a relationship but he liked her. I aren't usually too bad with my jealousy but this time feels ...

Why is so little love and affection in our relationship? Is this just a phase?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - Please help. I have been reading Dear Cupid for a number of years, but I finally need to turn to it for advice. I apologize for how long this will be. I've been with my boyfriend for almost three and a half years. He is almost 27 and I am 22. We ...

How would you interpret him ignoring my request for information on his other woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - I am currently separated from H. Some few weeks ago,I indicated to him my intention to move on with my life. Reason being that I dont have it in me anymore to work on the marriage due to his series of emotional affairs since we got married 14 years ...

Does my ex still have feelings for me? I don't wanna end up as FWB.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - My ex and I recently began talking again after 2 months of no contact. We topped talking bc he got a new girlfriend. He texted my sister asking if I till hated him. And he even told her that he misses me and wants to be friends. My sister replied ...

My wife is a mean drunk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (M) - My wife has trouble with alcoholism. There are a lot of reasons I won't get into here. She can stay away from alcohol, but if she has just one drink she will have 6 or 10 (or more). This doesn't happen often (anymore) because I gave up drinking...

We are due to be married soon but she lied about being in touch with her ex, and there is this one question from the start of our relationship that is troubling me.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (M) - haii im in reltionship with my girlfriend for past 3 years..for past 18 months we moved in together...and now we about to get married..the problem is my GF is in love and broke up with another guy as he cheated her before we met and she said to ...

My husband has lost interest in me sexually, Am I focusing on all the wrong things, to think it is all about me improving my physical body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

13 January 2012 (?) - My feelings and words may be confused. I Have been married for 7 years. my hubby use to be loving towards me and sex and romance was the best. Now he has lost his sex attraction for me. The problem with him is he says he still loves me, the problem ...

Is my friend worth all the trouble and uproar she causes? Especially when she acts up or is drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. So I'm having a little trouble with my friend (lets call her X). She's 23, and she's always drunk. She always tries to start stuff with me ONLY when she's drunk, and she'll only "admit" things (like how stupid my boyfriend is, how she ...

I love the kid with my life but the fact he cant accept me breaks my heart so bad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - Its amazing. Its been about 5 years and me and ronnie are still on and off. All that ive put up with no doubt has been love and all the rumors (about me) hes ignored can only mean he cares about me. But what happens when a guy likes being low key ...

How do I get him to want sex more?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

13 January 2012 (F) - I am married to a wonderful man. We are both in our forties. our problem is I want sex more than him. He has a physical job and is tired when he comes home. If he is ever horney he can take care of himself. If I am not up to it. But I cant take ...

Why can't I say "I love you" to her any more? Should I end things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

13 January 2012 (M) - Hello, I've been with my girlfriend a little over two years, but recently I have been considering properly for the first time to myself whether I should end things. We go to college together, and have had a great couple of years - ups and downs ...

Clingy one night stand

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

13 January 2012 (M) - Okay so the first time i ever dated/kissed/had sex someone happen over the summer, it was a two week thing before we both went off to college. Well it hit me pretty hard and she moved on pretty easily. So i was looking for somewhat of a rebound girl ...