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Archived questions from: 6 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I have strong feelings for my boss. Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - OK so after some major soul searching for the past few years I realize that the strong close feeling I have for my straight boss is love. My heart says stay clear and not say anything but my heart tells me otherwise. I cant eat or sleep and its ...

The challenge and the games or honesty and being myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I dont know why it never works out for me with the guys. Im actually really pretty and cute and funny a simple person i dont want much i forgive easily and i have a good heart. A month ago i met a guy i had a crush on from thr first day i met...

Does my partner have commitment issues? Should I just bide my time and see what happens?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hey all, I need some advice...I've been with my partner now for just over a year, everything is amazing, great, etc etc...we have a long distance relationship - we live 50 miles apart. I have to do all the driving all the time to see my partner ...

My former friend and co-worker has totally blanked me and I don't know what to do about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - up until this week i was close friends with a guy at work we were very close and he said he viewed me as a sister. ive helped him no end, been there for him always, helped him with work money you name it. we started working on a new team togethe...

I want my teacher to adopt me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - my relationship with my family has been getting worse, my mother has been sick since december,and we dont know what it is. shes been out of work, and im on crutches with a hurt knee, and whenever i need her i ask her but she gets so mad when i need ...

My boyfriend says I bring on his anxiety attacks and he needs space. I'm scared of losing him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - So lately my boyfriend of three years became really depressed due to custodial problems with his ex wife and hes had family problems also. I hadn't been helping because I accused him of flirting with another girl that we work with. My jealousy grew ...

Can you get your old phone number back if you change it?

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6 May 2011 (M) - She changed her phone number about two months ago. So I tryed to call it last nite and it rang? Does some body else have her phone number I heard if your change it will go to some one else. Or can you get your old phone number back if you change it?...

Heart full of hurt and head full of conflict!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I am in my 40's and met a wonderful man. He is handsome, intelligent, caring, attentive, and just a good man all around. We have been together for almost a year. He was still married when we met and is now divorced. I had been single for 3 years ...

I'm attracted to much older, married men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I feel like I'm in dangerous and confusing territory here. I don't even know where to begin. Long story short I've been talking to a man online for 2 years. He is significantly older than me, about 24 years older ("he could be your father!" Yeah, I ...

I caught my girlfriend kissing a girl, is this considered cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (?) - the other week me and my gf went to a house party. a few hours and many drinks later i saw my gf in the kitchen snogging another girl. at first i spied and i thought it was very hot. but after a about 30 seconds i realised that they were on there,as ...

He's a momma's boy. Should I have a say in their financial decisions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I think I'm dating a momma's boy. He jumps when she calls our house and asks for something :"can you give me a ride"? , Can you come over? can you give me some money?'' and if he says no to her she uses the "well you don't love then''. And the wors...

Deep down, I'm overwhelmed by anger. I need help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - What would cause someone to have constant feelings of anger? I'm angry all the time, and not sure as to whether I should talk to anyone about it. I worry that my friends would think I'm a horrible person and that my parents would worry about me, ...

We're no longer friends, he won't give me my stuff back and won't reply to my texts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4948 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I have a fairly simple question. Basically, there's a guy in my class that I used to be friends with, even in love with, but we definitely aren't friends anymore, sadly. But he had asked me to lend him a substantialit out or he would give ...

He doesn't give me enough notice. What's his deal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about a month. We both recently ended relationships . We have gone on 2 dates so far. Last Thursday, He asked to get together for Friday and he never contacted me until 8:30 Friday night. he was sweet and told me ...

I'm pregnant and I am not getting along with my fiancé. Any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hi I need some help. My partner and I have been together for four years we are engaged and have set a date to be married. Yea I know I'm young I've heard it all before. Anyways he recently started at Uni and suddenly he has become all secretive. He ...

Should I ask him to the wedding, even though he hasn't asked me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Ive being in a relationship for nearly 7 month now. Its being very up and down and still is, although things do seem to be settling a bit now. Ive thought of walking away lots of times from this relationship but I have stuck it out and I have fell ...

Is he really having doubts about everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hello, I just have a quick wee question; one time during an argument, my bf said to me that he has doubts with us as he feels like whatever he does, it never makes me happy ... after the argument i questioned this and asked if he meant it, he said ...

My boyfriend sometimes doesn't call me when he says he is going to.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I was wondering what you would do in this situation?. My boyfriend sometimes doesn't call me when he says he is going to. This week, for instance, he said he would call on Monday, but he didn't, and he called on tuesday and he said ...

I don't understand why he says he misses me, yet then is completely ignoring me. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Three days ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. We recently just moved out of our apartment together two weeks ago to move back to our parent's places for this summer (I am a student, and he will be in January) I am turning 22 in August and he is 23. ...

She says I should move on, but when I delete her from my social networks, she asks for me back. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - i have been dating a girl for over a year now, but the relationship hasn't really been smooth (she treats me badly sometimes), i think its because the sex was bad, she broke up with me once but we got back again, now we have broken up again and she ...

How do you trust in a relationship after being cheated on and played so many times?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - How do you trust in a relationship after being cheated on and played so many times?...

Love triangle sucks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hey everyone,this is my first question on here. I'm 16 years old and bisexual. Months ago my ex bf broke up with me,after us being serious. now he asked me back out said I love you, then I find out he's dating my ex gf. He called me the other da...

Any positive stories of being 'on a break'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hi. I would like to hear from anyone who has had a positive experience of being 'on a break.' Me and my bf have decided to take a break for a month as the relationship has had a lot of problems, one of them being my drinking which has now stopped ...

His parents hate me and I feel so down about it, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hi there, sorry if this is a little long but i have alot on my mind and just hearing some opinions would be amazing. I first met my now bf April 2010. I was head over heels for him and was thrilled when he asked me to be his gf at the end of ma...

School reunion trauma.....my husband kissed his ex while I was there!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - We traveled far to his 50th class reunion. His ex greeted him very affectionally.They were talking as I came up and my husband never introduced me to her or anyone else. She shoved a photo of them and said she was infatuated with my husband.At the ...

Need advice on how to handle a long distance relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I need some advice on how to make a long distance relationship work. We've been dating 5 months; talk every day; text multiple times a day and see each other 3 to 4 times a week. We are still in that very "lovey dovey" phase and recently he said ...

He doesn't think it will work when he moves away! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months tomorrow. Today he got drafted in hockey to a place that is 21 hours away. Lately he has been stressed and i havent talked to him for almost a week. He said he doubts it will work out when he moves. ...

How can you communicate to someone that there's a problem with our communication?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - i need some serious help, please. i have no idea what to do anymore. my girlfriend and i have so many problems, and i don't have a clue what to do about them anymore. there's absolutely no communication in our relationship. and it's not because...

I need to find a way to break up with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I keep giving my boyfriend chances and he is clearly not changing .I need to find a way to break up with him ,but the thing is he is a controling person ,and I gave him to much power .He is expecting me to stay with him .To be honnest I read an ...

Is it too late?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I was with someone for 3 years we lived together and 3 months ago he broke up with me..we were both going through a stressful time, i started moving on and even went out on a date...he found out and has been coming over to sleep with me ever ...

He said he didnt feel the same, but I'm amazing. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - So, ive been in love with this guy. I told over the internet that i love him, but he said he didnt feel same. Still he said im amazing. Does that mean he also had feelings for me 'someway, somehow'? Plus he's been checking on me lately. I need your ...

He raised this girl for 7 years but she is not his daughter, and now she is calling him a bit too much and it is making me uncomfortable....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - So my bf of 1 year had a previous relationship 12 years ago and supposedly raised her daughter for 7 years. well last year before he met me he started talking to the daughter who is now 16 but she calls over and over, sometimes up to 7 or 8 times ...

How can my ex-bf deny now deny he ever had feelings for me...yet still call me up for sex??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I'm going to try and make this as clear and easy to understand as much as I can. At the beginning of 2010,I met up with a guy I haven't seen or talked to for over ten years for a date. We never bothered to talk or date til 2010 because he had a gf ...

Torn between the father of my children and my ex whom I still care for. What do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I am in a real pickle at the moment.. I was seeing this guy (he was my first love) around 5 years ago. We dated for 16 months and broke up because it turned into a long distance relationship and we were very young. I was broken hearted and neve...