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Archived questions from: 18 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

It kills me inside every time she rejects my sexual advances...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I'm having a problem as of late. I've been with my current GF for almost two years now (we are going to Amsterdam for our two year anniversary in May) but I feel all emotions have gone from my part. We are in a long distance relationship (i'm ...

She refused to shave after eveything I do for her...

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

18 May 2011 (M) - Dear fellow readers, I have found myself stuck in a very fragile situation and I am in need of some serious, thought out advice. I am 16 and have been with my girlfriend for about a year now, and I have hit a brick wall. A few weeks ago I ask her to ...

I just need an unbiased opinion on what to do. I am confused about everything now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I met a man about six months ago through an online dating service. I found him on facebook and requested him as a friend. That is when we really started talking. This was in January. He told me he only pursues then dates one woman at a time. I asked ...

I hit her, but now I want her to see I'm getting help for my anger problem

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

18 May 2011 (M) - I have been with my ex for almost 4 years. We were 17 ans 16 I know this is young but it was perfect. We have had our ups and downs. But our love has always won. We got our apartment in January of this year. We ended up getting into a fight and I ...

We are opposites of each other. can our relationship work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half now, and we've been living together nine months. I love him dearly and he is a really good guy but I don't know what to do. On one hand, I'm thinking "maybe this guy isn't for me." and ...

He seems more interested in money than our relationship

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18 May 2011 (F) - This is gonna sound very silly but I have somethings which has been playing on my mind for a couple of weeks now, my boyfriend has a villa in Portugal and has only just started making money off it however he seems to worry more about money now than ...

I''m falling for my boyfriends friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I'm falling for my boyfriends friend, what do I do? He gives me more attention then my boyfriend does!...

How do I communicate more with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I would like to ask all the kind agony aunts and uncles on how to improve communication with my boyfriend. He just seems so hung up on work. I understand that he will be busy during work, but what got me was that he seems to prefer anything else ...

I know he doesn't mean to but boyfriend keeps hurting me. I'm really unhappy in this relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is in the middle of his final exams, and he needs to do better than usual to get the minimum results for the masters he wants. He tells me every day how my support is the only thing keeping him going and that I'm the only support he ...

My Ex is sending me weird messages and telling me some confusing things.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - First i am sorry this is sorta long My ex BF and I had an awesome relationship and the only reason why we ever broke up was because our age difference (he is 17 and I am about to turn 15). Well lately we've finally started talking again (i...

Boyfriend of 8 years is going to online sex sites

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - i'm devoted to my boyfriend for 8 years, but i recently only found out that he is going to online sex partners and he wrote that he wanted to have group sex.. When i asked about this, he said that its for fun but he didn't meet anyone. i wanted a...

She's holding out waiting for me to ask her out but I don't like her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (M) - i am 19 yrs old and i belive in the value and principal of sex only after marriage. there is this young girl 17, who attends the same church i do. ever since we were young some of the adults in the church touted us as the next couple that we would ...

My boyfriend shuts down when I am ill and it really hurts me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - Hello. Has anyone else have or have had a partner who can’t handle you being ill? I get a lot of gynaechalogical pain as I was diagnosed with endometriosis in 2003 and although it was removed, I am still having problems with pain management. I also ...

When guys hit on me, I feel badly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - this weekend I went to a friends house and got on facebook and two different guys kept calling me hot and sexy, and I told them I had a boyfriend. And I had no idea who they were. one was bugging me so much to give him my number I had my friends mom ...

My lecturer says boundaries have been broken and is now avoiding me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (?) - I’m having problems with my lecturer. To keep things short we used to be very close. She asked about my personal life and she was always there for me when I needed her. Recently she started ignoring me in class it was like I didn’t exist. I ...

What does her behaviour mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

18 May 2011 (M) - During last semester a girl of my class started gazing at me which I noticed two or three times but I just turned my attention to some other work because initially I wasn't interested. Then I and my friend were talking about our group assignment...

Partner has walked out on me but is coming back to talk tonight, how do I make sure he gives us another try and doesn't leave for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - hi everyone i am really upset my partner of three years has walked out on me. he says the spark from our relationship has gone and he doesn't love me anymore. we have a five month daughter who is recovering from meningitis, i had a difficult preg...

He doesn't care if he sees me before I go on vacation, but wants me to buy his groceries for the next month! Am I right to be upset?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I need advise from guys who can relate to my bf's kind of thinking. I am about to go on a vacation and I was thinking of spending more time with my boyfriend at least during the weekend. However, he told me today that he will come home on monday a...

I read her diary and found out she was bi-sexual! Should I confront her about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

18 May 2011 (M) - I've been dating the girl of my dreams. I have been over the moon for the last 5 months because I have finally met someone who I feel real love for, and who loves me back just as much. She is gorgeous and kind and I truely have fallen head over ...

No communication, he wont initiate sex, no kissing, and he wont say he loves me in person! What is going on here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - i have beeen in this relationship with this guy for 6 months now and he doesn't likes to kiss me.and when we're having sex he just lays there.i have to always do all the work.and we never communicate with each other.what does that means and what ...

Why doesn't my wife believe me when I say she is my true love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

18 May 2011 (M) - I treat her like a queen, why doesn't my wife believe me? What can I do to convince her she is the love of my life? We were at my school reunion. I was talking with my ex-girlfriend Linda and her husband when my wife Sally,not knowing who they ...

Current boyfriend wants to spend time with me but wont open up about his feelings, whereas my ex was the complete opposite! Now my ex is back in the picture, I don't know what to do......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a really great guy for about 9 months now. About a month before we started dating, I broke up with my boyfriend of almost a year. I wanted to get back together at the time, but he made it clear it was out of the ...

Family issues affecting our relationship.....what can I do to help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (M) - Hello, i am typing this because i simply dont know how to handle this situation anymore and i have no-one else to talk to. This question is about my girlfriend having issues with her family, but let me lay down some background info to help you ...

All of my best friends keep leaving me or hurting me, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I had a best friend for 7 years, and we fought all the time, but we were like sisters, inseparable! Always there for each other. Then a new girl came along and screwed everything up, try to turn us against each other. I was going through a personal ...

In love with my friend but she is dating a much older guy, I'm sick of just being the friend but too scared to speak up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (M) - -Sigh- okay. My best friend (a girl) is dating a guy old enough to be her dad. This guy is a doctor, so of course he has money up the ass. Buys her gifts and all the crap I could never afford considering I'm a car mechanic with an Associate's ...

Boyfriend's new friend worries me......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4907 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend recently reunited with a friend of his, "Josh", that I think is a very bad influence. I don't understand their relationship at all. My boyfriend is loyal and sweet and I dont think he would cheat on me. However, tonight he is...

How can I boost my boyfriend's confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriends self confidence is 0. He thinks he is fat and ugly. He is not thin, but in my option he is not "fat" either yes he is probably over weight but he has A LOT of muscle . And lately it's actually been frustrating me that no matter how ...

She wont committ, she hardly ever has sex with me and wont even tell people we are together! What can I do to get this relationship back on track?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

18 May 2011 (M) - Been with my girlfriend over 4 years now. After first 2 years we split because I did something stupid, I stole from my employer. She ended it because she said I was not the man she thought I was! After 3 months we got back together, mainly...

How do I stop being so clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4943 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - So I feel like I'm about to cry. So I know that I'm extremly clingy. And everywhere I go and tests I take to see where/what degree I'm in it seems like there's no hope for me. I don't know what to do and the reason I'm sad right now is because the ...

Why am I dragging this on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - Okay, over summer break I went on a vacation to another country, where I met a boy who we will call Carlos. He was basically my vacation boyfriend, and to be honest I did and still do have feelings for him. During our time together, we did hook up. ...

What are the rules about second cousins getting married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4941 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - So my 2nd cousin and I finally admitted our feelings for each other. I fell completely for him. we both love each other and we plan on getting married here soon in the next couple years. I truly love him but I'm afaird what other people will say i ...

I'm tired of my sexless marriage, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - my spouse and i havent had sex in 9 years our kids are grown he doesnt want me to touch him he sleeps fully clothed i have tried to undress him while he sleeps but he wakes up before i can get his clothes down. what can i give him without him ...

I need advise, are we just friends or can I hope for more from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4905 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - 2 years ago I met this guy online we became friends straight away It seemed we connected really well we had almost everything in common He asked me to meet in real life and I accepted. He didn't try anything bad with me and we had a great time In ...

What is the definition of a real man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - just need answers, i want to know what is the definition of a REAL MAN. ive been dating this guy for over 3 yrs and he tells me he is a real man..... first of all he is 26 yrs old, doesnt have a high school diploma, or ged, doesnt have a job at this ...