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Archived questions from: 7 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm lonely. My husband's a serial cheater. Would he really care if I had an affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I have been married to the same man for almost 23 years. I divorced him once because he cheated on me...then we remarried. For the past ten years,he has cheated on me. Last year I found out he was involved in a four year affair. He swore he love me....

Is there hope for our relationship? Did I mis-hear him? Or do we only need more privacy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Well, my husband and I have been going through a lot and we got in a big argument and he told me to go back to my mom's house. We lived with his mom ever since we got married. 8 years, and living with people and not having a private marital life...

Should I contact his ex to see if he was violent towards her too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Hi. I have been in a very volitile relationship for 2 years. We have been living together. When we fight it gets really bad. The rest of the time we are not abusive, though sometimes we both feel like we have to walk on eggshells. He did things ...

Does she really love me? Even though she talks just as much to two other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

7 May 2011 (M) - How is my girlfriend in love with me, but doesn't like to have fun with me more than with other people? My girlfriend and I have had this problem, for a long time, with each other. We've been together pretty much 3/4 of a year, but we have thes...

He treats me horridly and then blames me for his behaviors!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - What is wrong with him. I am a 36 yr old woman, my partner is 42. we have 2 children 3 and 6 yrs. We dont currently live together as we had broken up some months before. We were recently getting along better and had started to become a family again. ...

Today sucks. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Today is just a bad day. -my plans with my friends have been canceled -my other plans to go clothes shopping (which i desperately need) also fell through -i think i might be in love with a guy who has a girlfriend. I know I'm young but i took sev...

I cant escape and can't stand feeling like this anymore. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I'm fed up with my life, it just seem it isn't going nowhere and what i have is going all wrong. i have a part time job and only work two days a week and am trying to find a new job but doesn't seem to be getting nowhere. due to this have no mon...

I’ll initiate sex, but by the time he is finally aroused, I lose interest. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 2 years, married for a little over a year, and I've since lost weight and feel better than I have in a long time. We live with my father, and I am the only one working currently. My husband is from another ...

Other men have turned the tables on me when they are guilty ones. Is this a similar situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - My husband of two years says I am trying to constrict and control him because on occasion, and I do mean maybe 2 days out of five, ask where he is. The reason I ask is that because I cannot sell my home and my child goes to a local school we do not ...

We have a two-year-old daughter. Should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I'm in a relationship with my partner and have been for 5 years. We have a 2 year old daughter. The problem is that he's working a lot and we have a lot of debt. This is putting a strain on our relationship. We've had sex about 4 times in 3 ...

I'm sad and feel like I have no friends. Am I being too oversensitive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Hi, recently i've felt really left out by my friends. They'll go out shopping together, drives together, etc and not invite me. It's happened over 10 times now. In my group of friends there are 6 of us, and I'm the only one not being invited ...

Will he ever show me gratitude for what I do, or should I just throw in the towel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship with my son's father for 10 yrs (since 2000). It was bad at first but after I left him in 2008 he changed and our relationship became exactly what I dreamed of. In 2010, we both got blackberries. Well, actually I got mine in ...

BF's father won't let me stay over in my boyfriend's room. I think it is unfair.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I need a little advice. You see my boyfriends parents have confused me a little. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is going to be 20 at the end of the year, were moving out soon. We have been going out for almost 2 years and in all of that time i have nev...

I'm so full of rage towards my cruel and abusive ex, I want to seek revenge. Please help.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Hello all, Please can you advise. Thank you. I have recently managed to get out of an emotionally abusive relationship. Well, the relationship itself did not last long, but I was weak, and let him come back into my life for months, and he h...

Should I leave him even though we still love each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I don't know if I should leave my bf. Our relationship isn't much of a relationship anymore. Its not going to get any better. I love him with all my heart and I know he loves me. We're pretty much just friends that live together. No communi...

Why is my ex trying to make me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. It ended badly but he wanted remain friends but I said that it wasn't what I wanted and cut all contact. The relationship was 9 months (but we knew eachother for 5 years) and ended because of a mutual frie...

Is my boyfriend's behaviour with his "friend" inappropriate? ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has a friend who a while ago he used to fancy. She rejected him because although she liked him she lives about two hours away and at the time neither of them had cars. While my boyfriend and i were seeing each other she called him up s...

I know need to move on, but could someone give me insight into his sporadic behavior?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Hello all, Please can I have your thoughts on the following if possible. Thanks. I dated a guy coming up to a year ago now. All was well, until after a couple of months he turned out to be controlling and nasty. By the time I found this out, I...

Is she using me as a baby maker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (M) - Here we go, it started early 2009 wen i got my new job, i was a virgin and i met my work mate late that yr (8yrs old than me) let me call her freedom. She stays near my township so we use 2 walk together after work. So i became more attracted 2 her ...

My brother told me our aunt is still breast-feeding him at age 9.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (?) - Hello I want some help, my younger brother has a told me a truth about my aunt, my brother's age at present is 9, he was living with our aunt from child hood since he was at the age of 3, at that age my aunt had one girl baby which was just 1...

He won't commit but I want to build a life with him, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship (with a mini-break 2 years ago) for 6 years and I love him dearly. I get really frustrated that he wont move forward and commit (ie live together properly) and I voice this to him occasionally. He simply answers he's ...

She's starting an emotional affair, how can I stop her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (M) - My wife hadn't heard from her ex-boyfriend in almost 20 years and suddenly through the magic of Facebook he is in her life again. I have to say that I hate Facebook. The endless parade of creeps admitting to having secret crushes on my wife get...

Will the man I had an affair with ever forgive me for breaking his heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

7 May 2011 (?) - Ok I made a mistake, had an affair and fell in love. I realised my mistake and made a final decision to end all contact for the sake of my partner and daughter whom I love deeply. The thing is I keep dreaming about the ex dreams where I am ...

Help me get her back please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

7 May 2011 (M) - I need help. :( I have just gotten back home from the U.S Army, i was deployed for a year. and going back sometime later this year. But thats not what i came to talk about.. My wife.. lets call her Nicki is an amazing woman, and i lov...

She's so loud. How to I tell her to tone it down?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4947 days ago

7 May 2011 (?) - My gf and i have been dating for 4 months. We have had sex a few times, and well, she is loud. really loud. Every time she reaches climax she wakes the whole street, never mind our parents. Its really embarrassing, her parents may think I'm abusing ...