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Archived questions from: 20 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is my boyfriend losing interest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - I haven't seen my boyfriend since Mother's Day, and then the weekend after that I had gotten sick. He hasn't asked me to come over, but I'm unsure if he's waiting to see if I'll ask him. He's a workaholic though and has a graphic design and printing ...

Parents don't approve of a divorced older man as my mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4935 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - i am a 27 yo female dating a 44yo man. we are def in love and going to get married. we have been together for a couple of yrs and he is going through a divorce. he has two young kids. my parents are not happy and i want to do everything i can to ...

B/f says leave him alone I screwed up his job!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years LDR, Canada and USA. I was up there just two months ago and we are talking marriage and he asked his parents and mine for a blessing etc..I get back home and lost my job got a bit too overly bored and over ...

Every time we are apart I find myself wondering if he's cheating on me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - hey everyone, so if u havent read my past questions, i am 17 and i have a 16 year old boyfriend. we dated from august 22,2009 to may 17,2010. we broke up then because he cheated on me. . .but we got back together in december 22,2010 and we are still ...

People tell me I'll find someone else but I want HIM!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4938 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - It would be wonderful to get some insight into this situation. The short version is this: I've met someone that I felt this brotherly love for, as a friend, but recently I had an epiphany and realized I had feelings for him. The trouble is,...

Help me with this situation. I wonder if I really love him and he really loves me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - i am married and have been seeing a married friend for almost a year. we agreed on no strings attached policy. in Feb we decided to break it of as i suggested he try and work things out with his estranged wife. he still comes over. we don't to...

He's never going to let go of his girlfriend so I need to move on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - Basically i've been in love with this guy for over a year now and he has a girlfriend. He flirts with me all the time and we text most nights but i know it isnt fair on me as he is never gonna end it with his girlfriend for me so i need to get over ...

Does a bad experience with one guy color her judgement towards all future guys in her life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - Why and how can a bad experience with one guy change someone to change how she looks and thinks about certain things, have trust issues and be more guarded but confident? I know it sounds silly, but i'm just interested how one guy can have this af...

How long do I wait before I give up on him? He's over there going out drinking, I'm still here paying the bills.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - When my fiancé moved to another city for a new job we decided he would get settled and find a nice place for us to live. Then the plan was that I would leave my job here and follow him. Once there I could look for another job, during which time he ...

Is he trying to tell me something by taking longer and longer between when he calls me on the phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - actually i do not know whether my boy friend is ignoring me or not. Things have gone from bad to worse. We only get to call each other. Before he was calling whenever he found time for me, but now he never calls me until a long time has gone by....

I'm not over her. How do I get over her so that we can just be good friends?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4809 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - i like this girl a lot and i have been into her for the past year and she knew i liked her all along.... she then said that she didn't like me and that i was just a friend to her. Our friendship deteriorated because of the awkwardness and she wasn...

I get a hug and kiss once a week if I'm lucky...What's up with that??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - I have been with this guy for a year and he doesnt hug or kiss me. We have discussed this more than once because it bothers me, of course..and he says he is "trying" to be more affectionate. Am I wrong for thinking he just doesn't love me? He tell...

How do I tell him he's messing up? He only sees it in his point of view no matter how I explain it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - My guy never admits he's wrong in fights. Even though my feelings are really hurt and I am crying and everything, he acts like he didn't do anything wrong. In reality, he did, and he only sees it in his point of view no matter how I explain it to ...

Do I care too much? I feel like he puts his friends before me. How do I make his less of a priority?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4940 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - I feel like I care too much about my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, and we love each other very much. I know he loves and cares about me, but I feel like I care about it way more than him. I want to spend time with him ...

She never wants to do couples things. How do I keep her happy and not lose my negative girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4940 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is always getting mad at me no matter what i do for her. she never satisfied. It is as if whatever i do for her is never enough for her. She a very negative person always thinking negative as if nothing could never good right and she...

We both play sport. It's seriously upsetting me that she will not support me the way I support her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4941 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - I went to every one of my gf's games for various sports all year. She couldn't go to any of my baseball games this spring because of lacrosse. She decided to quit basketball so I thought she could finally come support me this summer like I've ...

Do I make him chose me? or his girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - Heres the story. He is my best friend but he has a gf that he has been dating since April 2007. We met in November of 2008. March of 2009 we were best friends and by June 2009 I was deffinately in love with him. We had always been close and he used ...