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Archived questions from: 24 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I get so frustrated about my bf's habit of walking away from our arguments!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Is it a bad thing to walk away from a fight? Or an argument? Instead of staying around and sort things out? My boyfriend and I ended up in an argument, where his final response was that he couldn't say anything right because it seems I get hurt...

Why can't he commit to just me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - I am 18 years of age, and for three years I have been inlove with one particular male. We have been close from the day we have met. And I have always stood by him and been loyal. Although the relationship has been on and off for the past three years ...

My wife has gotten so fat, I can barely have sex with her!

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - When I married my wife she was smoking hot. I would say an LA "8". Everywhere we went cars honked at her, I couldn't take a piss w/o a guy taking my barstool and taking his shot. Even women hit on her So we got married. As the years ticked by ...

My married manager and I are invovled in an affair, and I want out--but I don't want lose my job!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4923 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Need some advice please. My married manager who I for the last year have seen more as an uncle and he's a great deal older than me, i'm only 20. He's met my parents several times and I always saw him more like a caring uncle than my manager. However ...

My Mom and step-dad who I love to bits are breaking up, and I am falling apart. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Ok well my mam split up from my actual dad when i was very young because he was and still is an alcoholic. as i was young i never minded much because i didn't know what was going on. i still seen him every 2 weeks for a few hours. everything was ...

Even though I broke up with my ex, why am I still asking myself questions about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4935 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm not really sure why I'm asking this because it won't make any difference either way but I want to work out possible reasons for why I feel the way I do right now. This may be pretty long so sorry in advance. Basically my ex ...

Why is she so guarded now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of the past two months used to communicate everything to me, as I do with her about her, me, and us. It was the most amazing thing when we started dating to get to know this woman so openly and freely. But now she has backed off and ...

He asked me to marry him but he's still married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years. He had asked me to marry him but he is still married. His wife has a debilitating disease for last 10 years since he left her, he hasn't tried at all to divorce her. Just last week he told me that ...

He says he loves me but why can't he show me his love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Question: Does he really love me? i'm so confused, i cant talk to him about this as he wont talk about things, he gets angry, My partner says he loves me very much,we have been together on and off for 3 yrs but lived together 19 mths . W...

My soul mate wants times for "disconnection" and I don't know how to deal with it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - I dont really know where to start. I have recently lost the love of my life. We were together for nearly 3years and perfect for eachother so happy and never made eachother mad or upset for that long. Never any trust issues were always true to ...

Found naked pics of a guy on my wife's camera. I'm not sure how to handle this...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4933 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - My wife and I are married 4 years this summer. Everything seems to be great, my problem is something from the past. I just bought my wife a new laptop and digital camera last Christmas. Her old camera she had when we met and was about 5 or 6 yea...

My ex has moved on but I cant seem to!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - So me and my ex have been broken up for about two or three months. I have not spoken a word to her since I left her house after saying it was over. She told me she had feeling for a friend of hers and they have now been dating for a while now. I ...

My boyfriend is always breaking our plans for his friends, I'm sick of it and told him so. He hasn't listened. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend for 1 year plus always abandoned me last minute for our dating to go out with his friends. This has happened several times like during count downs and even on christmas eve. I am sick of it... Told him several times and he is ...

Should I just turn into a "cya" kind of person too from now on???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I’m really blue at the moment – a guy I had dated at High School came back into my life the other month and was still into me. He had always really liked me and said he considered me ‘the one that got away’. So naturally, when he asked...

How can I get over my paranoid fear that my bf might be talking to this other girl? Should I take one last look at his phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Due to past relationships, it took me around 10 months to trust my boyfriend fully. I was on his phone the other day, I was using the internet to check my bank account when I found myself on his facebook. I'm not usually one to snoop, but after a ...

I was unhappy about what I found on his phone and then he asked me to marry him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - To be honest, I have been trying to stop my obsession with looking at my boyfriends text messages. I have problems trusting people and I explained that to him. Also I went about a year and a half to two years practically living on computer/text ...

He said I'm only with him because its free and he doesn't love me or consider me his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - me and my bf have been together for over a year now and at first everything was so great at first. cute tests, cuddling, i love yous, kisses. the works! but then i moved in with him 2 months later because my mom kicked me out...i knew it was too ...

His ex wants to "catch up" with him. I'm afraid of what will happen if they talk. Please advise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m my bestfriend that ive liked for months and months asked me to be his girlfriend only 2 days ago.. and now that im in the picture as his girlfriend, it would seem his ex wants back in too. He and his ex girlfrie...

He's making me feel guilty when I did nothing wrong. How do I get him to listen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - This past weekend i was suppose to hang out with my boyfriend, but he had to work so instead i went to a party with a few of my girlfriends. when i got to the party, i noticed my daughter's father was there. Me and my friend had a few drinks and ...

If she loves me so much then why does she want to be with another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - Ok so here is my situation. I had a girlfriend I broke up with recently. She's just now telling me the truth about a lot of things. We are friends but she tells me she loves me and wants to be with me. Well this co worker at work that I de friended ...

Why am I so entranced by this freak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - I've been talking to this guy I met online for about 2 years now. I like him so much and I am not sure why. He's not the nicest guy, for example, he refused to come see me for the longest time until I basically gave him an ultimatum. He also places ...

One minute he wants a relationship the next he just wants to be friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4936 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a man who has had his share of heartache not only through his children, but through his two marriages, both of which were fairly long term ( 22 years for the first and 6 for the second). He and I have an obvious chemistry, ...

Boyfriend's adhd is causing problems in our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend had adhd as a child and does affect him as an adult in our relationship in that he fidgits alot and i need to tap him to remind him to keep still i tolerate it when we are going sleep, that he moves alot before he gets comfortable...

A million thoughts are going through my head after he told me he cheated on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Hey heres some background my boyfrind who iv been with over a year and is pregnant with his baby (just found out 2 months ago) Cheated on me about 3 or 4 months ago he confessed and i know he was truly sorry he was crying well he was tring to tell ...

My wife's sex life before she met me, and her attitude towards sex now have left me shattered....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - This seems to be a big topic here. I have read a lot of the responses from people and they are helping. What I notice is that there are two categories of people suffering from this. One is people who have had a lot of partners (maybe even more tha...