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Archived questions from: 9 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My friend never listen to what I have to say!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Your Open Question: Why would my friend behave like this? am sick of her attitude.? I went away for 4days with my mum it was my cousins wedding.. Anyway, it was one of my friends birthday but I couldn't wish her a happy birthday because the...

Who would want me and where would I go if I leave this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Hi all, i'm new here. I'm 28 wit my boyfriend same age for 4 and half years. We hav been livin 2gether for 3 and half years. I'm just not sure if i want to continue in this relationship. I've been sick and had brain surgery recently and he ha...

Straight Female - Transgender Male

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I have been in a near perfect relationship with a Male who wants to be Female for almost three years. When we first met we had hit it off easily. He has had issues with relationships in the past (always flings) presumably because either they only ...

I feel like I'm living in sin having sex with no marriage and b/f thinks we're not having enough sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Hey ppl, i have a question, my boyfriend and i have been in a committed loving relationship for two years, but we had been best friends for one year before, we also live together and are both in college, he is 25 and i am 20, my problem is dat i ...

My Ex's new guy is abusing her, should I try to help her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - I have a dilemma I just want some advice on... Me and my friend "N" (former gf) broke up about 5 months ago, long story short we were fighting and physically abusing each other, it stopped, everything got better, then she cheated on me and we bro...

All of my girlfriend's friends think she's single!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - Been with girlfriend just over 4 years. At begining she didnt want to tell anyone just to see if things would work out between us. As time has gone on, she comes up with more and more excuses for not telling anyone. All her friends think she is ...

Idk what to do, help! :( guys could give the best advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I've had a relationship with a guy for about a year and a half now, we have never actually called eachother " boyfriend, girlfriend" but when him and I are on good terms, he doesn't mess with other girls and I don't mess with other guys. We have ...

He says things are over, should I try once more or just leave things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend just broke up with me five weeks ago and of course I've been very sad and been wanting him back. We've been together for 14 months and have had our ups and downs from the beginning. I've been very scared of relationships and have not ...

Does he have to be wasted to have sex with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - after a while of not having sex with my fiance, we set a side a night to chill a little and then do the damn thing, if you know what i mean. he is not a regular drinker, but we'll sip together sometimes. this particular night i was in the bathroom ...

Boyfriend has baby with me then gets another girl pregnant! Do I close this chapter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I have a "MAJOR PROBLEM"....my boyfriend of 5years had cheated on after i had my baby the year of 2009. We decide to adjust to becomung young parents. But it wasnt my idea to break-up due to the fact i just had his son. So with that being said he ...

Am I being unreasonable or should he just stop all contact with this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Ok.. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years and half now, we had a difficult time last year 2010 when he left to study in france (was mainly my fault I was so mean to him and acted like a cold bitch, I guess I couldn’t handle the long distance ...

He stares at very pretty women right in front of me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I never thought I was a jealous person. Me and my boyfriend had a big row as I caught him staring at a woman when we were out yesterday for lunch. I turned round to talk to him at the bar and he was very obviously looking a young woman up and down ...

I do miss him. Does he just want me as FWB? He is unresponsive.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Hi, i was dating a guy, but then i realize he just wanted me as a friend with benefits, so i wrote to him, that i felt that he just wanted me like that, and he was not intesrested in me. I know he was interested in dating many girls at the same time...

I pay for most of our outings. He fails to make me feel special. How can I get him to be more attentive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. As we have gotten older, he has had increasing financial responsibilities. I have much less financial responsibilities and I understand this so I usually pay for going out, dinner, trips, etc. I fe...

What should I do about my friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I need some advice, as this issue is really getting me down. I have been friends with a girl for the past two years, am in first year of uni (almost done) and I met this girl in upper sixth at school. I will refer to this girl as "lucy". Even though ...

He seems to be hiding something.........

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and for about the last year hes been very secretive about his phone. He never used to care if I messed around with his phone but now all of a sudden he does. I have questioned him about it a few ...

We had a big fight. I need advice on what to do next.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Hey! Today we fight, me and my boyfriend "It's a big One." He started yelling and swearing at me. I didn't say anything. I told him I wanted to go, and he told me if you go, you will never talk to me AGAIN, and I told him THAT'S WHAT I WANT. Th...

I got into trouble with her in the past. Should I make contact again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I had a friend for about 20 years and often had holidays and nights out I used to defend her with some of the men verbally. She then met another female friend she worked with and we often all used to go out but then trouble seemed to appear-the ...

Please, can anyone suggest something I can do to get over him because I cant stand feeling like this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have split up. His ex kept getting involved and tried to split us up so many times and then started getting his babies mother involved and it got to be too much for him so he ended it. We are still in contact and he still say...

He says slaggy looking girls are adding him on Facebook, but that's not true. Should I say something, again?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4949 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I've being going with a guy for nearly 7 months. We met over facebook. He lives in the same area as me, but I didn't know him. Hasn't being the easiest of relationships. He really gets to me about his facebook habits. He is adding girls all the time...

I am crushed. I read what she wrote about my size and don't how I am going to work this, or our new LDR, out with her.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - I need help with a difficult situation. I met a girl about three months ago through a work friend and we hit it off. We have been dating since then and I feel as if the relationship is the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me. ...

Should I give up on him? Or should I try a long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - So theres this guy i really like him i think he likes me too.he would ditch his friends in class for me.and sit next me..and when i asked him to hook me up with his his cousin but i was only joking and every time i asked him he a smile on his face ...

Boyfriend doesn't want sex? At 21?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Hi! I'm 20, my fiancé is 21 and we've been together for a little over 5 years. About a week ago, he refused to have sex with me. He says his libido has just decreased. However I find that odd since he's at the ripe age of 21 which is his sexually ...

What does he want from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend keeps calling me and wanting to chill, when hes not with my ex gf (im bi) and it makes me feel for him more but i dont want to feel like this for him again! What should i do?...

Should I get back with my son's father after he cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Should i get back with my son's father? He cheated and betrayed me several times and I'd given him a lot of chances. I found a new man through online and he indeed helped me forget about my ex; however, this ex is down on his knees begging and ...

Am I just scared to be vulnerable again? Am I trying to avoid love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - So I used to see a guy named "D" a year ago during the summer. We were friends (more like acquaintances) for three years prior. He had just gotten out of a relationship (of 3 years) when I started seeing him. He told me they had broken up 2 weeks ...

Is something going on? babydaddy n babymama what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend over a year and then we have a baby. The only problem is..he have a babymama n a child with her I don't know her but I know of her (drama) and everytime they have an arguement she constantly texts me saying she slept ...

Boyfriend's ex is putting me down in front of their children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has two children, aged 11 and 13 and shares custody with his ex-wife. He has no contact with his ex herself, all communication regarding the kids is done through an intermediary (normally the kids or grandparents). I have never met her, ...

Can we be friends? or should we just go our seperate ways?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for about 3 years now. In the begining things were great..he was wonderful..i felt like he was really the one..I mean I had so much faith in us, like we were going to be together forever..he seemed almost too perfect ...

Every time I look at him or try to make love to him, I can't get the images of his past out of my head..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - hey guys. so I'm in my early 20's and so is my husband. we've been through so much to be together. our parents kicked us out when we both decided to get married. he put up with so much from my mother and i put up with so much from his step mom. we ...

I'm very depressed after loaning friend money, she hasn't returned the money.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4951 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Hi, Just need some advice. I dont know exactly what is happening to me. All i feel is i am not happy. Im not happy to where i am, who i am, what i have now. Friends cant easily notice it, because i can simply go with them, laugh with them, have ...

Does it sound like I am paranoid, or is this likely to be my gut instinct telling me something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4952 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - Am I just being paranoid over this or not? I am deeply in love with a man I have been in a relationship with for the last nine months. We work together and are keeping this under wraps because of the company rules. We are very close in all ...