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Archived questions from: 3 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Is it wrong of me changing my mind about marrying my girlfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 3 years, in this time she's had severe drug problems and has cheated on me three times, I love her. but now she wants a commitment and wants us to get married, I said Yes initially after we got back together but I ...

We live together, we share a son. But she says she is also in a LDR. How can I cope with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - my girlfriend of 19 years with whom I have a son, says she is dateing someone out of state, but lives with me, sleeps with me, and i hold her every night. She says she might leave me, but goes to counselling. what is she doing? also says she might ...

She cut contact after her husband made a pass at me. I miss her, should I contact her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Im not sure how to put this.....my life long best friend and I havent had any contact for more than 5 years and I really miss her. No, we didnt have an arguement or anything. Her husband made a pass at me and I did not tell her. He has done thi...

My boy friend sometimes just walks off and leaves me alone in a bar. no explanation. what do you think I should do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - I dont know whether to stay with my boyfriend or not. Sometimes, when he gets in a mood, and we have been out in a bar, he has left me on my own at the bar. It's happened a couple of times. The first time it happened, he left but then came back a ...

Does anyone else feel this way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Hey guys! I was just wondering something. When you're in a relationship, do you ever get bored of the person you're with and find faults with them easily? This happens all the time with me and is the main reason I find it hard to make relationshi...

Is it too soon to move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Please give me advice as im confused. I separated from a 5 year relationship about 12 weeks ago. Although my ex is saying in his head its been over for approx 18 months. We have a child together and I love him but he says we will never get back ...

Our relationship lacks intimacy and sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - My husband has never wanted to kiss me or caress me. I am not ugly, I take care of myself and exercise an wear makeup well. If I try to kiss him he scrunches his nose like I am a disease. I have to give him head but he never gives it to me. If I ...

Should I give my abusive boyfriend a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Dear all, I'm 26 yrs old and I'm an introvert. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and within this short period he's showed me acts of violence 4 times already! It include: spitting, strangling, hitting, pushing and all the worst parts you ...

We are too incompatible to live together. How do I tell him?

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3 May 2011 (F) - Hi I need advice. me and my boyfreind live together he is a demanding person and a very I mean clean person but his ways are starting to send me crazy again I asked him to move out last month let him come back, been back a month now here last 2 ...

We talk on phone but never on facebook. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, i appreciate u guys alot. Just have a quick question i need answers to. My boyfriend and i are very much in love with each other, we are both on facebook, but he never posts on my wall or say anything to me on facebook, he talks to ...

He is attentive in every way, but he won't be my FB friend. Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Hi guys, I am confused. I am in a LDR, and he is very attentive, as soon as he sees me online he starts a conversation straight away, sends me photo's of himself and is very loving and caring. He makes me feel special and very loved. What is c...

He doesn't want to touch me much. Is this a bad sign?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - dear cupid: I'm a middle age lady that is starting to date again, I'm curious. when my boyfriend and i are starting things up I'm all over him because he has a body that i like. A little cushion. I love it and i let him know it. with me he hard...

I haven't heard a thing. Is it time for me to move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - i am feeling so depress right now.. i really need someone to tell me what to do.. i am so freaking out here..i have a bf online..we been in a LDR for 16months now.. the relationship became really serious.. we talk about our future and we even plan ...

I forgave her, but I think she is at it again. What should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - i feel like my GF is cheating on me because she is not talking to me from last week till today..she is not replying me for my any messages on facebook..but she is chatting with others..but suddenly when i said hi today, she said "hi i love you, and ...

I feel horribly jealous of the attention my husband is giving my newly widowed GF. Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 16 yrs and I are very close to destroying us. It's both of us, not just one. he says it is all my fault and that im crazy. we have been close friends with a couple for about 10 yrs now. she and i are/were very close. the guys were ...

I have never had a BF because I always fall for married men. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - i'm 25 years of age, a girl. no boyfriend since birth and i don't know why. every guy i met told me that i'm beautiful and a bit shocked that i haven't got any boyfriends at all, but i don't know why i am always attracted to "attached guys" ...

Her past is tearing me apart, but I love her so. I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - So I've been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months now, she's my first real girlfriend and I do love her so much. Everything is perfect except for the fact that I can't get her past sex life out of my head. She's 18 and has been with 10 guys bef...

I have a very strong need to talk to my coworker about "that night." Should I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - I have been happily married for almost 9 years. About six months ago while away on a business trip I had a brief encounter with a married coworker. We didn't have sex but we kissed and a bit more. Ever since I met this guy there has been a clear ...

Not impressed. he asked me to go skating, but instead he ignored me. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Ok, so I met this boy over the week end at a leisure place near me I had no idea who he was, but he was hanging around my older brother and some of his friends. He introduced him self to me and we started to hang out. We were talking and he was aski...

Is he cheating or maybe thinking of cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - Hi Guys, Just wondering what the signs of cheating or possibly cheating with someone might be. My boyfriend and I live together and are very happy, however I recieved a text one night when he was drunk at a BBQ to pick him up so I set off for ...

Sister very pushy when she visits out mother. Should I stop the visits?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - My sister bounded in at the weekend. She does not want to look after our mother and rarely visits. She knows I have taken leave from work to look after our mother after three strokes. I walk her to get her legs working again. I get up in the night ...

I like the idea of romance, but its just not for me. What does that make me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - So this is a strange question. Ever since i was young, i wanted to be a guy. not in a literal sense, but i like to wear guys clothes, i like things most girls dont, i dont have the best manners, i dont really care much about being feminine, i ...

Girlfriend left because I am too aggressive

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - MOD NOTE: Please do not put your posts all in caps. It has been corrected this time. Next time it will be rejected. THX My ex girlfriend says I am too aggressive, I explain to her its my response to the way she is treating our relationship. Now she ...

Why do they go soft when we try to have sex? Is it me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - dear cupid i have been with my boyfriend for a while now everytime we start to make love hes try to inter me and he gets soft on me and leaves me hanging. he is 50 years i am 53. i have had this same thing happen t me in the pastwith other m...

What is it that boyfriend wants to ask but doesn't ask!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - okay so thee past month or longer my boyfriend always says he loves me more. and i ask him why and he said that he would tell me on my birthday as a birthday present. so my birthday was saturday he said he would tell me. so saturday comes h...

She lives with me but says she is dating someone out of state?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - iam in a 19 year relationship we have a house and a son my girlfreind says shes dateing someone out of state and still lives and works with me and isent sure weather to stay or leave what dose this mean ...

How do I feel that spark?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 months and he is in love with me and I really like him too, but I don't know If I feel the same way. And he has many family things happening at home and I know it will crush him if I broke up with him ...

Girlfriend more interested in being on facebook than being at functions that are important to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4948 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little less than a year. We are both 18 and go the same highschool. I play lacrosse and she plays girls lacrosse. We never get to see each others games because we both have sports at he same time. ...

I feel uncomfortable during oral sex and don't want to be deceived if he's just saying he likes it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Kind of hard to ask this, it is very personal. I have been sexually active with my new guy for just a week, but I have loved him for a long time. He has gone down on me and I am not sure I have liked it, I suppose I was tense and nervous about it so ...

Why is my g/f acting so blank lately?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (M) - Well lately my girlfriend has been acting quite blank lately. We used to talk from dawn to dusk over texting. We would alternate on who texts eachother first in the morning. Yesterday, she never said goodnight. So I said goodmorning. She responded ...

Is my boyfriend trustworthy? Is he getting better, or just better at lying?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Hello! I'm frustrated about a situation and not sure if i'm over-reacting. I've been with my boyfriend for 6-7 months, we both got out of really bad relationships and we're older, we moved in with each other because of University (we're grad ...

We can't and won't be together, how can I stop loving him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - This is the classic, 'Oh no I'm in love with my best friends brother' scenario. However, It's not a silly crush and unfortunately really do love him. He's not perfect, we get on really well and but well never actually be together, I've accepted th...

I always feel second place in my boyfriend's life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4948 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - My bf rarely puts me first. In most aspects of life. The one I understand most is the job one. He's in a 3 yr training period which he must pass to have a job. So I get that that comes first cos he's investing in both our futures. But he promises me ...

My ex is destroying my life because I broke up with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - ** I know this is long but I desperately need your help ** I need some help about an ex of mine. He is playing mind games with me and its driving me insane. I have borderline personality disorder so my mind is already a bit warped so I am h...