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Archived questions from: 30 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can he think the world of me and then treat me so badly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I'm so confused.I was seeing this guy recently who is a nice guy in some ways, but he gets in moods sometimes. He walked out of a bar once and left me in there on my own because he was in a mood because i had arranged to go and see a show, and he ...

Should I leave him? Or am I blinded by the stupid things he does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4926 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I've been in a relationship for a year and a half, everything was perfect. I have the perfect boyfriend, really, but I feel, and have been feeling like breaking up because little things DO GET ON MY NERVES. Here's the problem : - H...

I cheated on my long term boyfriend, but I don't feel guilty at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - well... i've been in a relationship for almost 5 years, and so far, it's been ok... Lately we've been fighting a lot, mostly beacuse, even though we've been together for a really long time, he doesn't trust me. Sometimes it seems like he's the on...

How can I cut ties with this amazing man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi guys, hope you are all well. I need advice on best way to cut ties from a guy. As I'm not liking the person I'm becoming. Ok, so I'm 30 and I met guy who's 27, about 3 months ago. We met in a bar. I'd just moved back to the big city and moved to ...

How do I get a long distance relationship back into wanting to love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I fell into a long distance online love relationship. Unfortunately we never met, but he promised we would, till I brought up life after death, and where we'll spend eternity. He claimed to be a Christian, but I was quickly told to get away, and ...

I think he loves me, but I feel like I'm just a replacement for his crippled wife!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4927 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I am married for 4yrs now, my husband works 800km away from home and occasionally comes home for a day or two, we have been friends with our neighbours for 2yrs. My neighbour and myself have grown close because he keeps an eye on me (safety sake) ...

I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. What is the best way to confront her without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. I do not believe it is physical yet based on the evidence I found, but I do know that she is very attracted to this guy. Should I lay all my cards on the table and ask her to...

How do I get over this break up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - how do i get over this break up?? my boyfriend of 7 months broke up wit me 2 weeks ago and i dont feel like its gettin any easier.. we have been friends for 4 yrs and he was chasin me for them yrs.. i didn give in because i was afraid of gettin h...

I'm upset about not celebrating my birthday with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi, i have my birthday coming up very soon, i dont particularly like doing things for my birthday, but i do not mind doing something which may pleasantly surprise me. But anyway, my partner didnt cancel work in retaliation of me booking work, but ...

Ex has just broken up with his girlfriend. How can I get him back without being pushy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I need some help on how to get my ex boyfriend back. Him and his girlfriend just broke up and he's heartbroken. I'm trying to give him some space but I still wanna be there for him and spend time with him. How can I do this without being pushy? I ...

Can an abusive person change their ways?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my husband for 7 years and we have 2 young children. He is an abusive person - physically, mentally, emotionally. I must have known this for years but have chosen to ignore it but today, I am accepting that I am an abused wife. I ...

What is going on with my boyfriend? He is confusing me so much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - He hasn't called me in 48 hours almost and I don't know what is going on. Last time I actually spoke with him, he got off the phone after 10 minutes saying his mom wanted to speak to him, and he hasn't called back since even though he said he would. ...

How do I tell my best mate I'm in love with his sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - im with my best mates sister and we have been together for about 3 months but known each other for a few years, my question is that none of her family want us sleeping together but we have and we had great sex but i dont know how to tell her brother ...

10 years no sex, engagement ring I've never given to her..what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I am 38. My girlfriend is 40. We have been together since 1992. When we first met I was almost (but not quite) totally inexperienced with women and my girlfriend, although having had sex with maybe 5-6 guys was inexperienced with relationships. S...

23 Years Old and Emotionally Retarded Needs Advice/Help/A Saving Grace...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - A case of being emotionally retarded... Hope the women in here can help... I am 23 years old, and have casually browsed through dearcupid for a while now only to realize I am not the only 23 y/o who has never had any close physical contact w...

My ex wants us to get back together. I want to have a longer break, but I'm also scared of losing the one I love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - My first boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. Within that time he has asked me to think about getting back together with him, even though at the time of the break up it was 'years' until he said we could get back together. I agreed we could tr...

He's slowly pulling away from me and I don't know why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do. My best friend (who I happen to have a crush on) isn't talking to me much these past few days. He used to talk to me everyday for hours non stop and he would call and text me.. then he stopped calling and now he won't even ...

My boyfriend can't support himself, doesn't seek out jobs, is a druggie, can't drive, wont educate himself, is overweight, and wants to marry me! Do I stick to it and try to find him a job, again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hello, are u ready to read?? I don't know what to do anymore, we've been going out for more than 3 years now and he has never got a job. We are 25 years old, i'm a university student and i work and live with my parents, so i do have a little i...

How do we mend our suddenly strained longterm relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4930 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hey there, I need your advice. (Sorry in advance if I add a bunch of random details.) My boyfriend and I have been having a pretty rough few weeks. We just haven't been getting along. We've been together for almost two years, and we've only ever ...