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Archived questions from: 23 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He's 20 years younger than me, I think of him as a nephew, but he's showing too much attention to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - a little advice im so confused i dont know what to do i have knowen this boy since i was in my twentys he was only a young boy then and as he become a teenager he did the usual harmless flirting im like his auntie but he is now an adult and when he ...

His ex is calling all the shots with their baby and its making me very unhappy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4935 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - this is a complicated question but really need help! me and my boyfriend have just got back together we split up 4 years ago and stayed friends we both still loved each other but didnt no how each other felt we love each other even more now bu...

I'm going to lose him if I end things, but I don't want to be the other woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - there's this guy i met on a penpal site last summer in July; he's from Jamaica and when we started talking; we just clicked; we had so much in common especially since my background is jamaican as well. we talked every single day for hours on the ...

He left me hanging without an explanation. How do I cope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I was dating a guy for two months, until he began avoiding me. He would take longer and longer to respond to my texts, and then he just stopped responding period. He hardly ever called me either. After he hadn't contacted me in two days, it ...

When do you stop listening to your heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - When should you stop listen to your heart?... I've fell for someone who I really don't know if was honest with me at least once!... I knew he wasn't giving me what I wanted (a relationship) and I kept seeing him, we were in a relationship for 3 ...

Why does he text me if he isn't going to reply back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I don't understand this, why would a guy go out of his way to text you and then you when you reply back, he doesn't text back!? What was the point in him texting in the first place if he wasn't going to bother replying???...

B/f blowing hot and cold with me and its not the first time he's done this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I'm so confused.. please help! I've been seeing this guy for four months now. I met him online. we are both 36. I have a little girl who is 4 and I'm divorced. I have some trust issues from my past relationship but other wise I'm in a good place (i...

I always ruin things with a guy cause I feel he is too good for me. How do I change this way of thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I'm not unattractive so I don't know why but when i meet a gorgeous looking guy who shows interest in me, i tend to think after 'how on earth did i manage that, why is he interested in me?' and i see other girls who are beautiful that I'm jealous of ...

I just can’t be just a friend because I will always want her. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I have a huge shot in the heart right now and its been two weeks and still feel the same pain from the moment it happened. The final result before you all read the story is that she emailed me and said she wants to be friends, that she ...

Need to break ties with a non-trustworthy friend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I believe it is time I cut ties with an old friend of mine. We have been friends for about 7 years, and lived together twice. Even though we get in some very heated arguements I would like to end things on good terms. Her morals are very differe...

I want to be friends with my guy friends like we were before they got girlfriends!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - This situation is really upsetting to me. I'm a woman who has always gravitated to male friends. Having friends that I can share things and confide in is really important to me, and I need to have friends, but I feel that guys understand me and I ...

I saw a picture of a guy kissing her on the cheek. How can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up about two weeks ago... We saw each other once a few days after the break up to talk were she ended things completely for now. A week went by and she called me in Friday saying that she wanted me to bring all of her stuff ...

I don't understand relationships

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - I really need some help. Im 22 and ive never had a gf. i've never understood how the relationships work. it seems quit complicated for me. and i don't like do things without figure it out what i'm doing.u know makes me feel like a...

I want to see my b/f more but he won't make the effort

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - How often should a couple spend time together. Ive being with my bf for nearly 8 month and we see each other 2 nights a week. One day in the week and a saturday. We live in the same area. he could walk to mine in 3or4 mins. I want to see him more ...

My Girlfriend told me she needed some space and after a few days she dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - i'm ryan, i really need some help.. im just gonna sketch my situation. My girlfriend and i are been together for a while My girlfriend asked me for some space and time and I am worried because she has not contacted me in almost a wee...

Our problem don't include infidelity, but everday is agony for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4934 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - How to deal with a husband who ignores his wife for a period of 2 months now? Basically, we did not consumate our marriage as I am working abroad and my husband is in our home country. My husband was my ex-boyfriend, but when I went on emergenc...

My best friend is stealing my ideas...including the one about the tattoo that I've always wanted!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - Basically the question is, am I making a bigger deal of this than I should. Here's the situation: So, I've always wanted at least one or two small tattoos. That's it. But I'm not going to get them until I'm older. So what I did was I took ...

My bf thought I was asleep and started masturbating to porn. How should I deal with this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - Hi new to this! But just wondering. Iv been with my boyfreind for 6months now and we live in our own flat. Everythings great etc and Yesterday we had sex during The day, and I fell asleep in bed cuddled up to my boyfriend about 1am this morning...

Is this a dysfunctional relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - Is this a disfunctional relationship? I have recently come to a cross roads in my life and have to make a choice once and for all. I have had a troubled relationship for 7 yrs and have children from this. My partner i think has been abusive ...

I'm so confused.. should I leave him if I love him but it makes me sad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - Hi everyone.. I loved that guy though I never talked to him in person, I used to see him at school but we didnt try to talk to each other. One day I found his profile on facebook, I added him and started chatting. I loved him more when I found ou...

Boyfriend of 2 years refuses to say that he loves me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - Hi Everyone My 25yr old boyfriend of 2 years simply refuses to tell me he loves me. I think the last time he said those words was on the first 2 months of our relationship, its been 2 years now and it's really bothering me. I dont want him to say ...

What is the best way to talk to my boyfriend about problems in a our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4931 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - hi everyone,i am having a problem of not knowing my boyfriend and we've been together for 6months .i want to talk to him about him not being open and about not knowing each other since we dont spend time together,how do i talk to him about thisin ...

Retro-active Jealousy With A Difference

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - I know that this topic has been covered but not from my situation so I would genuinely appreciate any help. I had a healthy sex life up until 27. about 12 partners, lot's of fun, innocent enough sex. Nothing out of left field as it where. I woul...

Why is it ok for my boyfriend to have sex with other women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend stays in london, sometimes we have misunderstanding but recently we settled every bit of the misunderstanding. But before he came back to nigeria he posted on him wall that he is in luv wit another woman which he mentioned her name, ...

Boyfriend says we are co-dependent

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4933 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 years. i have a 2 year old baby that is not his but he seemed to be fine with it when we met and so on... he is really into smoking and doesnt show that he cares for me the way i care for him or love ...

My smart girlfriend is sabotaging our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - My new girlfriend is very smart and she has been creating issues out of small things and bringing things we have discussed in the past back into it. I feel like she is sabotaging us. I have a child to a previous relationship and i have good ...

I don't know if he needs space but we're living in the same place and it makes it rather impossible!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - How can I deal with someone who seems not interested in me any more or I don't know but sometimes he acts like he care for me still.but he doesn't want to be around me much and have sex with me anymore.I don't know if he need some space or hate ...

Boyfriend is always referring to his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - hi my guy friend, he had an 18 yrs relationship with a girl , they have broken up. i really want to know after being in an 18 yrs relationship , how can ppl still break up , was their no love or why does this happen ? now the point is i l...

My boyfriend behaves like a 5 year old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend behaves like a five yr old. i love him we met on freshers week i had just come out of a bad relationship and needed someone who really appreciated me, and he did he told me all the time how beautiful i was brought me gifts unexpectedly, ...

I'm completely against my BF getting a bullet bike, but he says he would choose the bike over me without a second thought!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. He is amazing in almost every way. We are so alike and we have so much fun together, and we have a passionate love life. I love him more than anything but recently I have begun to have doubts ...

I think I've done everything wrong that women aren't supposed to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4937 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I haven't been dating for very long, only four months but i feel we have a very good strong relationship. My boyfriend tells me how much he loves me and has even spoken about marrige or spending his life with me, im his first love ...