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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend's counselor may be trying to ruin our relationship. Should I suggest he try a new therapist?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - Last week my boyfriend and I were closer than ever. We've known each other more than eight years. Then, after talking to his medical counsellor, he starts saying that we should just be friends, which I can't do, and his counselor had asked him why ...

My boyfriend seems to be a creep -- is this all there is?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - My bf of 2 years seems to be a creep. I was looking for a movie to watch on my laptop and stumbled into Google documents for the first time ever. I saw everything that my bf looked up on the laptop for the last 5 years +. I saw all kinds of ...

We've been 'together' for 10 months but she seems to be pulling away

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4 May 2011 (M) - why do relationships have to be so damn complicated? ok here's the story, I've been together with my gf for about 10 months, barely seen her during that time. She puts most of her enery in her school work (studying for nurse) I try to understan...

Is this a sign he doesn't love me as much as I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - Does my hushand love me? Sometimes I feel like my husband does not love me the way i love him, its like when i call him sometimes he don't answer his phone but if he calls me and i don't answer my phone he gets mad. Could this be a sign? Please h...

I feel like the biggest idiot, I used an old account on FB to flirt with my boyfriend. Now what?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - Ok, I did something super dumb. I had this old facebook I made a while ago for kicks and I logged back in because i was bored. I saw my boyfriend online so I decided to start chatting with him. He started flirting and I let things get out of hand. I ...

He's broken my heart twice and I still keep running back to him. We still sleep together too. Lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - My "friend" (if you want to call him that) and I have been sleeping together for 8 months. We dated for awhile and he even told me that he loved me and wanted a child with me. He's still married (but seperated). He and I have a really close bond and ...

Feel like I'm trapped in a relationship where I'm not loved

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - My problem is rather complex. For the last three years I have been in a relationship with this guy whom I love very much.We dated for 5 months but I broke up with him because I was young and felt I wanted to experience life. He took it pretty hard ...

I feel like I'm doing everything for her, and getting stress in return

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - my relationship has gotten unbearable. i feel as though i'm doing everything for my girlfriend, while i'm literally getting back nothing but stress and anxiety. this week, i'm picking up her son from school and watching him every day until she ge...

Should I stay or is it time to move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (M) - my gf and i had a threesome with another guy and i went out side my room for a few minutes and they kept going. i have forgiven her but there has been nothing but arguements recently. i have also met somone else.what should i do, should i stay with ...

I still can't figure out why he decided to cheat on me. My friends say dump him, but they don't understand him like I do!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - Okay, so I have a BF that had lied to me about being a virgin, I found out that he wasn't a virgin by a friend of mines who knew him longer than I have. I asked him multiple times, yet he denied it.. afterwards we was in a good mood.. and I asked ...

He says one thing and does another, help me understand my husband!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - hello , I have really difficult problem with my husband. Help me to solve this puzzle. I think he is a passive aggressive, or somehow just very tricky. I can't read him...But I know something is really twisted about him. He is kind to me and his ...

She is trying to regain my trust. Does she deserve a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (M) - This could be sort of long. I met this girl in mid-December on a website. I had no intentions of ever getting anywhere with her. As the title suggests, we wound up in a long-distance relationship. After a little over three months, she decided t...

I am starving from lack of affection from my husband!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - Hi Everyone. I have been married since June of 2007 and my husband has been out of work this entire time. Originally it was that he couldn't find work no matter where we looked (believe me, I was helping !!), but then our daughter was bor...

We are drifting apart, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years but recently i have noticed we are drifting apart rapidly when we are together we hardly talk he is always with his friends and hardly comes over too me our sex life is not really even there and i ...

He wants to marry me because I don't have any 'baggage'! Am I right to be insulted?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - It would be really great if I could get some responses from anyone who has actually been through a divorce and then remarried. I jokingly asked my boyfriend about three weeks before our engagement party why he’s sure he wants to marry me and he s...

Ex teacher has feelings for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - I finished my last year at school last year. I played a lot of soccer, and the head of department seemed he didn't like me. He'd ignore me, or pick on me, or say some pretty harsh things about the way I played.. Maybe to get better play out of me. ...

Late replies......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4952 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I got back into contact recently.When he came back on holidays, we hanged out twice. Once just the two of us and the other time with a friend.My feelings for him is still raw. I dont think he still loves me.We just hanged out as ...

My girlfriend is moving away and I don't think I can follow.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (M) - I feel like i'm in a catch 22 situation. My girlfriend recently has started to break things up with me, not because she does not love me, but because things are almost out of our hands. She is moving back to China after living here for a few y...

Confused with long distance relationships. Feelings but doubts at the same time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - I am in a bit of a confused situation as I have never really experienced this before. Recently I met a very nice man, literally a perfect gentleman who appears to have feelings for me and has told me so. The problem is that he lives far away f...

He gets short tempered when I get emotional.....any ideas on how we can deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend of 18 months but when I get PMT and emotional he gets short tempered and can't deal with it. I get tearful if we disagree and feel over sensitive generally. He tells me I am over the top and he can't tread on egg shells. I never ...

Depressed after cancer... am I being overly sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4932 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - I was diagnosed with cancer last year (September 2010). My initial prognosis was not good as they thought the cancer had spread to my liver/adrenal so they basically gave me a year to live. It seems the tumours in the liver/adrenal are now benign ...

Do I have to make special allowances because they’re from a “broken home”?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - We love each other and have had no other relationship problems, so is it a relationship red flag if I don’t like my boyfriend’s kids from his first marriage much after knowing them for 1 year? They’re 8 and 10 years old, live with their mom and ...

My boyfriend has started ignoring me, please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (M) - I met a guy a month before, he and me were a best friend and then we became lovers. we talked to each other, we hang out with each other, he told me he loves me more than anything in this world. now he is out of town he make me call everyday but ...

Best friends with my ex and feeling guilty now there is a new guy....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4888 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - I met this guy two weeks ago. On a night out we got dared to kiss, so we did. The next day I was in my hotel room and he came up to talk about it and we ended up having sex. Last night after lots of drink, he kissed me again. I really like him, and...

Should I send this mail to my girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 May 2011 (M) - The e-mail she sent me: I don't know right now if we are in a relationship or just friends or even nothing. But i feel necessary to send you this mail. About the hurt feeling i gave you, i'm sorry about it. I know you have a lot of questions ...

My b/f keeps pushing me away. Why doesn't he just end things then?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has been acting strange for the past couple of weeks! He keeps pushing me away more and more.. The other day he told me he is tired of me and told me not to come over to his place. He needs to focus on himself and not the relationship. ...

What do you do when the sex isn't there and there's no way to talk through things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - How do you deal with your confused feelings when your in a relationship with a man you truly truly love and care for but the Sex isn't there anymore and there is no hope of talking through it (trust me already tried) and i would never cheat on him ...

Does he not want to act like a boyfriend? Or he doesn't know how to act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4891 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - So i really dont know what to do about my boyfriend. We have been dating for quite some time now but it seems whenever we hang out with friends he acts all tough. But when we're alone thats when his loving side comes out. But the thing is, he doesnt ...

Fiance wants an occasional threesome and I can't handle it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - i need help. my fiance and i just planned to get married. everything goes so well, i mean we went through many obstacles all the way here. but then he mentioned he would want threesome with me and another girl occasionally. i can't handle it. but he ...

After all boyfriend has done to me I don't know why I'm still holding on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - Hello, and thank you... First of all I'm very much still in love with my bf but I'm starting to give my head a shake. After all he has done to me, I don't know why I'm still hanging on. Its been a roller coaster ride from the beginning....

I think he still has feelings for his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - We have been together for about 8 months. But even from the beginning I have felt he had feelings for his ex. She is gorgeous but she cheated on him and broke his heart. She seriously is the type that only thinks about herself. I have found messages ...