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writes:Hi, Mkay so basically i've posted before. I met this guy and fell in love with him. he had problems with me because he wasnt my first. He tried to solve this by constantly having sex with me when i didnt want to. we eventually broke up because i couldnt take it. well 3 months later he came back into my life and all my feelings came back. Im sooo in love with him. Its perfect. except he randomly just decided he didnt want to be with me. its because i didnt answer a question. He asked my why i was shy when he went down there and i just told him idk and not to worry about it. he said that made him realize we cant b together. He thinks i'm a slut because ive been with other guys. sometimes he tries to hurt me so that I will hate him and leaving will be easier. We have nothing in common. i have no one to talk to about this. i get depressed i guess and i have the hardest time going to school. i dont want to cry anymore. i wanna go a day without missing and crying for him. i dont know how to get over him. someone please tell me what you think. how can i end the pain as quickly as possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2011): Ok, you really need to get over this guy. He is treating you very badly, screwing up your self-esteem. You are not a slut and deserve much better. Sounds like he is getting a high from feeling he has got power over you and tries to dominate you by hurting you an making you feel bad about yourself.Believe me, everything about him in your post sounds like he is treating you very badly, and you need to get out of this rather sooner than later, cause the longer it goes on the worse it will get. He will think he can get away with treating you like crap and so he behaviour won't change and might even get worse. Secondly your feelings for him will grow stronger if you keep seeing him. GET OUT Getting over someone you're really into is very difficult, may take a long time, but it is definately possible. Try to see him as little as possible, talk to your friends about you heartache. And do as many fun things with freinds as possible and without him. It will get easier with time.
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