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30-35,
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writes:Well, where do I start? My boyfriend is constantly lying about everything. About what he's doing and who he is with and smoking and porn. The smoking is not your everyday cigarette, it's pot. And the porn I wouldn't mind so much if he would at least not hide it. If I ask him about it, he lies and says he didn't look at it, even if I've seen him doing it. He'll lie about it until he knows for sure I'm not dropping it. He has a major thing for a girl other than me. He is always off flirting with her. Then he comes to me when he wants "action". Frankly I'm sick of the lies. What should i do? Please help
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reader, Purple spotted lizard  +, writes (5 March 2011):
Listen, in my mind, I would dump him. Because they way I see it, he is just a teen caught in the trap of false maturaty. I bet he thinks hes an adult now, as long as he has a sexy woman nothing matters appart from stuff adults do. You have to remind him hes only 16-17. Stick up for yourself, girl!It is a free country after all. All the feeling that have happend, hes used you to feel older. You need to set his mind straight. Deep down, hes only a child. Its better to be alone for the rest of your life than in bad company for 5 minutes, and girl, he is BAD company.
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reader, empty-1 +, writes (5 March 2011):
I could stick up for him for smoking some dope every now and again. I could stick up for him for watching porn too...
However, lying about either - that's another matter. You need o kick this guy to the curb and find yourself a real man who will at least respect you enough to give you the truth. You deserve at least that much!
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reader, sarah1993powell +, writes (5 March 2011):
To be honest he doesn't seem like a geniune guy at all. I'd save yourself the pain and move on to a guy who will treat you the way you should be treated. It's hard understanding this, but perhaps it's for the better?
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