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Why? I get get left out of dating, kissing and my friends houseparties.

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Question - (4 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *icki writes:

hey guys,

i was just wondering. you see, i'm fifteen and i've never been on a date nor kissed a guy before.

my friends are all starting to go on dates and be kissed now and i feel left out.

it's not like I am huge or have an ugly face or something, but guys just don't seem to ask me out.

i must admit some guys do look at me and smile but they never come over or anything. so. Should I be dating by fifteen? Is it normal that i'm like this??

My friends have started going to house-partys and stuff, but i've never been invited to something like that.

why not?? is there something wrong with me??

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A male reader, Mark_25_ United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2011):

Mark_25_ agony auntIt's completely normal :) In my experience, the better and more decent people usually aren't noticed until later on, because at that sort of age, all anyone cares about is looks and wanting to have a boyfriend/girlfriend and doesn't really like them. I guess you might be shy, which means guys won't notice you so much at your age - they want outgoing girls that are willing to do stuff with them. Don't worry about it, you'll be noticed and it'll hopefully be a decent guy :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2011):

I've only recently had my first boyfriend,

but before this i went through exactly the same as you.

Don't Worry!

at some point, you'll find someone who truly values you that you want to spend moments like this with.

Theres nothing wrong with you, as theres not exactly a deadline or a "normal" time to get your first boyfriend, Date, Kiss etc.

Good Luck!xx

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A female reader, funkymonkey123 United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2011):

dont worry , theres nothing wrong with you. i'm the same, although neither of my friends are either. maybe you're just not their type. you will find someone who wants to be with YOU sooner or later

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2011):

no there is nothing wrong with you. just give it time and your day will come. i am in the same situation as you and i know how you feel. so dont worry you're not the only one. it just takes time.

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