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Why is my boyfriend behaving differently now that I am pregnant?

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Question - (6 February 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Nigeria age 36-40, *bee writes:

I am pregnant 4 my long time boyfriend. we love each other no doubt about that,but i have personal problems with him since this pregnancy.

I got to know i was pregnant after he travelled out,though there was indecision problem if we should keep it or not,after much talk,we agreed to keep it,so he had to come home to formally meet my family,which he has done,but he is change,i know him to be caring,romantic,he does not mind spending all his precious time with me.

Now,he prefers to hang out with friends,even cancel our date,since he got back,we have not gone out on a date or even take me out to catch some fun,this are things he does not hesistate to do before the pregnancy,this days he comes up with flimsy excuses.

Well,i asked him,his excuse was,i should understand my condition,he does not want to stress me,secondly,since am through from sch,and we pratically stay together,we see everyday,which is something am not use to,and i should understand he is a busy guy.

Well i want to buy the excuse,cause when i was in sch,i can always come to lagos or him coming over,and we spend memorable times together. i really miss those times before the pregnancy,i dont know,am i asking 4 too much,or i should just go with it.

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