A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi there im a 23 year old and i recently broke up from a 7 year relationship.i first met her when i was 15 and she was 31 and had a daughter.a couple of years i had 2 kids of my own.now that the relationship is over im havin difficulty coping.i still love her and want us to be a family but she giving me mixed signal.she says she want to try again then tells me she aint in love with me anymore.she also say she wants to be friends and see where it goes from there.now she is saying in order to be a proper dad need to watch kids for her to go out.she is saying she wants to go to a student bar with her nephew and his girlfriend.but her sister can only watch kids on a friday and her nephew only goes out on a saturday and thats where i come in.now she says she isnt talking to her ex friend however her friend always went out on a saturday and her friend was one of the reasons we split up in the first place.she says itll take a long time for her to see changes in me but when she does shell consider getting back with me.i dont know whats happening is she genuine or using me as a means to get out and find someone new.also she has told me to find a new gf to see if the relationship was meant to be.what is happening here can someone help.also if i do need to move on can someone help as i have lost all my friends and cant move on myself.thanx
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reader, lilred112  +, writes (6 February 2011):
 Wow.. I really question her motives in this relationship being that there is a huge age gap. And it seems as if she is just stringing you along and using you as a play toy. I say that because she tell you to find someone else like she is trying to get you to wake up and smelll the coffee.. I honestly would question your feelings for her. And communicate to her how you feel and that she has to let you know what it is instead of playing games.
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