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*reeneyes37
writes:Hello,My fiance and me been together for almost 3 years. He is in prison and I visit him every week. As of the end of January we had an argument at the visit and he got up in visit and I was very embarrased. He told me hes not chasing the visits and if I come I come and if I dont then i dont.If he really loves me it would matter.I havent seen him since but I talked to him on the phone after that. I want him to realize what he did was wrong because he thinks im just going to come back and see him and im not. Should I stay or find someone else and what would you do so he would miss you?So far I havent accepted any calls or went to visit.
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reader, lilred112 +, writes (6 February 2011):
 Well.. it all depend on how long are you willing to wait and how long will he be locked up.. honestly everyone I know who tried waiting on that 1 guy in jail always had good intentions on waiting but ended up moving on and finding some one else. You just have to ask your self are you physically and mentally prepared to endure all the things tht come along with such a relationship. As far as how he acted. He is is obviously frustrated and feels threatned about losing you and was acting out. If you plan on waiting I would discuss it with him how you felt and how you both have to equally work together to make this thing work.
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