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anonymous
writes:Hey im a 22 year old male.Two weeks ago my girlfriend broke up with me after being together for a little over a year. One day we were texting and she said she didn't want to do anything wit me anymore (meaning sex). When i called her to inquire about what was goin on, she told me she just doesn't wanna have sex with me and began to get defensive when i asked questions to figure out what the problem was. Days later she tells me that she doesn't want to be tied down anymore and that we're to young to be in a committed relationship right now and that if we're meant to be then ill have time for her later. Personally this makes me believe she jus wanna have sex with other people, cus im not satisfying her some how. The problem with that is she said she my sex game is good she said 8-9 out of 10, but then she kinda made it seem like she wasnt satisfied when she was breaking up with me and that there was a reason we hadnt had sex in two weeks so im confused cus she always semmed very happy and good after sex. And days before the broke up she was looking forward to havin sex with me on her birthday but it never panned out due to a fight we had that day. We still text each other now and then and a week before the breakup she acted like she didnt want me to go anywhere or leave me anytime soo, but now we really dont say anything when we see each other around campus and try to avoid each other though we often catch each other starring at one another. So i would like to know if she really broke up with me over sex or is there something else im not getting, cause still honestly wanna be with her but i dont know if i should just let her be altogether or do my own thing till she's ready. Thankyou for any answers or comments
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reader, lilred112 +, writes (6 February 2011):
 Well. Not sure what the actual problem could be here... maybe she is really afraid of committing to you. And also she may want to experience more... it seems as if she has some sort of affection toward you since she stares.. but you should just try to be friends and try to communicate with her about the issues, but don't press soo much just try to let her express it to you..
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